Please help
friend is pregnant n the guy refused to accept the responsibility n she kept the baby,now she wants to give the child up for adoption because My she can't take care of the child. She will be due end of October and the child is male. Please she needs advice on how to go about it or anyone who wishes to adopt the baby.thanks

MizzLynn:
Please help
friend is pregnant n the guy refused to accept the responsibility n she kept the baby,now she wants to give the child up for adoption because My she can't take care of the child. She will be due end of October and the child is male. Please she needs advice on how to go about it or anyone who wishes to adopt the baby.thanks

Its always the friend.

Let us know when you get pregnant.

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Male...just take it to the guy's family. Most people will prefer a girl.

In this thread, there are enough listed homes and addressed for babies. Please take the child there.

https://www.nairaland.com/83723/address-motherless-babies-home-lagos

To all concerned: don't start contacting the OP privately and OP, don't contact anyone privately on this forum.

Immigration has just busted a case of a woman selling babies across the border.

I won't be surprised if the op gives birth and wants to keep the baby. The bond between mother and child is mysterious

MizzLynn:
Please help
friend is pregnant n the guy refused to accept the responsibility n she kept the baby,now she wants to give the child up for adoption because My she can't take care of the child. She will be due end of October and the child is male. Please she needs advice on how to go about it or anyone who wishes to adopt the baby.thanks

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Take it to the orphanage

Ishilove:
I won't be surprised if the op gives birth and wants to keep the baby. The bond between mother and child is mysterious

You might get disappointed....

I have seen infants abandoned in the most unusual places and i keep wondering what specie of Women are responsible for such.

call or wassap me through 08035453128

Is condom now foreign I hate people who don't take responsibility , now because of her stupidity her child will never know her mom. I hate some women

All this people that are saying you should call them, hmmm, make e no be wetin i dey think ooo.

pcguru1:
Is condom now foreign I hate people who don't take responsibility , now because of her stupidity her child will never know her mom. I hate some women

Was it a goat that impregnated and refused to accept the child?

Blame the two parties involved and even the man more. For her not to have aborted the pregnancy even after the guy refused to accept it, shows she most likely would be willing to keep and raise the child if she had enough support.

I don't understand our motherless babies homes in this country, they seem to be selling the babies too.

All these people dropping contacts, @Op be wary,go through the right channel for this procedure.
As the pikin come be boy so

HaneefahRN:


Was it a goat that impregnated and refused to accept the child?

Blame the two parties involved and even the man more. For her not to have aborted the pregnancy even after the guy refused to accept it, shows she most likely would be willing to keep and raise the child if she had enough support.

No doubt, my blame goes to both parties, but at the end of the day she's the one that's going to bear most of the responsibilities, do you know how many useless men are out there.

and the answer to your question, No it's not a goat, because a goat has sense of responsibility, the goats i observed in the village take care of the kids when they impregnate another goat.

I hate news like this, anyway on the bright side she didn't abort the baby because I hate people who abort with a passion

let her give up the child for adoption and maybe some good people take the child and in future the child becomes successful and won't forgive her........


you don't know there's joy in hustling for your kid's sake.....
maybe people tend not to notice how much we males love our moms......esp. when i saw the sacrifices she has made for me.......

HaneefahRN:


Was it a goat that impregnated and refused to accept the child?

Blame the two parties involved and even the man more. For her not to have aborted the pregnancy even after the guy refused to accept it, shows she most likely would be willing to keep and raise the child if she had enough support.

I'm guezsing she wasn't raped, and she knew what the enormity of her decision to first have unprotected sex and then not abort the resulting foetus.

Both parties are to blame, but the woman more because it would likely never have happened if she didn't want it to. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. And then, we can't say on one hand that it's solely a woman's choice to have and keep a baby and then absolve her when her exploiting of that right doesn't pan out quite the way she may have wanted.

Surely, she must have a family. Wht are they unwilling to support their daughter? A question that boggles the mind.

pcguru1:


No doubt, my blame goes to both parties, but at the end of the day she's the one that's going to bear most of the responsibilities, do you know how many useless men are out there.

and the answer to your question, No it's not a goat, because a goat has sense of responsibility, the goats i observed in the village take care of the kids when they impregnate another goat.

I hate news like this, anyway on the bright side she didn't abort the baby because I hate people who abort with a passion

LMAO


Same here

Timbuktou:


I'm guezsing she wasn't raped, and she knew what the enormity of her decision to first have unprotected sex and then not abort the resulting foetus.

Both parties are to blame, but the woman more because it would likely never have happened if she didn't want it to. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. And then, we can't say on one hand that it's solely a woman's choice to have and keep a baby and then absolve her when her exploiting of that right doesn't pan out quite the way she may have wanted.

Surely, she must have a family. Wht are they unwilling to support their daughter? A question that boggles the mind.

nice one.....as far as she wasn't raped she must have know of the risk she was exposing herself to....

if a man gets an STD he will be lambasted for sleeping around....so if she got pregnant she should know there's a possibility he won't accept the child and she decided to risk it....well safe journey....

Timbuktou:


I'm guezsing she wasn't raped, and she knew what the enormity of her decision to first have unprotected sex and then not abort the resulting foetus.

Both parties are to blame, but the woman more because it would likely never have happened if she didn't want it to. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. And then, we can't say on one hand that it's solely a woman's choice to have and keep a baby and then absolve her when her exploiting of that right doesn't pan out quite the way she may have wanted.

Surely, she must have a family. Wht are they unwilling to support their daughter? A question that boggles the mind.

Yeah, I perfectly understand your point. I'm also usually very hard on women who have unwanted pregnancies, I never support them unless it was against her wish. Cos at the end of the day, the woman suffers more for it and consequently the poor child.

I just emphasized on the man when it seemed he was putting all the blame on the woman.

I don't know the situation, can't say. Just thinking for her to have thought of such, she is probably not getting much support. You know some parents disown their daughters over unwanted pregnancies, so who knows?

HaneefahRN
KikayBoss:

I'm glad we are on the same page. It's a tragedy when a child isn't brought up properly, with both parents. The scars may well remain for life. I truly hope this young woman reconsiders her stand and can work something out with her husband.

I have a feeling the father feels this is a ploy to trap him, but young women need to be taught abstinence; and where the parents are so liberal, the benefits and uses of contraceptives. It's less calamitous to have more sluts than bastarrds.

HaneefahRN:



Yeah, I perfectly understand your point. I'm also usually very hard on women who have unwanted pregnancies, I never support them unless it was against her wish. Cos at the end of the day, the woman suffers more for it and consequently the poor child.

I just emphasized on the man when it seemed he was putting all the blame on the woman.

I don't know the situation, can't say. Just thinking for her to have thought of such, she is probably not getting much support. You know some parents disown their daughters over unwanted pregnancies, so who knows?

you are very right...av gat something to tell you dear

Timbuktou:
HaneefahRN
KikayBoss:

I'm glad we are on the same page. It's a tragedy when a child isn't brought up properly, with both parents. The scars may well remain for life. I truly hope this young woman reconsiders her stand and can work something out with her husband.

I have a feeling the father feels this is a ploy to trap him, but young women need to be taught abstinence; and where the parents are so liberal, the benefits and uses of contraceptives. It's less calamitous to have more sluts than bastarrds.

did I just see abstinence? is that really possible?

DESNAT:
did I just see abstinence? is that really possible?

Very, very much so, I assure you.

pcguru1:
Is condom now foreign I hate people who don't take responsibility , now because of her stupidity her child will never know her mom. I hate some women

Postinor 2 isn't expensive.

Please advise her to keep her child and try anyhow legitimately to care for him. He just may be her only child for life or the only male child she may ever have (I sincerely pray she has others).

Op please dont give up your child.. When he grows up you will be glad you didn't..

Timbuktou:
HaneefahRN
KikayBoss:

I'm glad we are on the same page. It's a tragedy when a child isn't brought up properly, with both parents. The scars may well remain for life. I truly hope this young woman reconsiders her stand and can work something out with her husband.

I have a feeling the father feels this is a ploy to trap him, but young women need to be taught abstinence; and where the parents are so liberal, the benefits and uses of contraceptives. It's less calamitous to have more sluts than bastarrds.

Some guys are just plain irresponsible, like he didn't think of it while having unprotected sex.
If her parents are supportive it will be easier for her, even if the guy still refuses the child. We don't know her academic and job status too, that can also influence, I'm guessing she is a student though.


Will I really say it's about not knowing about contraceptives (unless from a village and and not literate ) but at least condom is widely known or is it the more common abstinence preachings. It's a conscious choice jare. Someone who knows she is not ready to bring a child to the World, yet has unprotected sex, not even minding the other STD risks, I call it stupidity, but it's still a choice.



OP, doesn't she have parents? And does she have any financial means? Let her think deeply before she takes such delicate decision and plunge her baby into such World or the baby gets into wrong hands

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