gretblue:
Collect your own. Share of Dasuki gate and free her except you are from the lord of the ring then you can continue with the relationship.# No time for love.

lagosflexcamp:




smh just listen to yourself. You be amateur sha that haven't understood how the mind of an average naija girl works. Look, if you have a gf and you are not bang**g her right, trust me, she will never appreciate you nor respect you as her man. If you like buy the entire world for her, her cold and cheating attitude won't change towards you. She will always *cheat* on u with another sharp guy.

Most naija girls don't want love( well they don't even understand what love means). What they mostly want is goodsex, your money and your bad boy behavior. I really pity amateurish guys like you sha. Na una dey show our naija girls love pass and na bad boys dey enjoy una girlfriends pass. lol

Op take heart sha bcuz na you fuckup, so don't blame ur gal

Itzurboi:
Sowie sista, did u zoom that upper region or d fault is 4rm my fne

henrylowe:
What sahre are you talking about sir?

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters.

Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted .

We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year.

After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy

and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her

even though I found it hard to get it off my chest.

Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her

despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past.

Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

lagosflexcamp:
Look when a girl agrees to date you and do all that bf/gf stuff with you, she has already given you access to her body, to spend on her and to flirt with her . Your failure not to do two outta that three things I mentioned will definitely see your relationship hit a big rock.

If u still have her phone number, put a call tru her now, tell her to come see u tonight that u wanna discuss something very important(emphasize on the importance) with her. When she eventually shows up later, make sure you make some good love to her that she will scream your name. And if she don't change her demeaning attitude towards you the next day when you guys meet or when you talk to her via phone, then I guess am a fool.

Your girl *likes* you, is just that you are ignoring her sexual urge and that's why she is cold with you.

My 2cents

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?

skywalker888:
The truth is, she already lost before the break up that was why she started exhibiting some questionable characters in order to piss you off. Even though she claimed she met another that she gave it just barely a month after your separation, it clearly shows that lady has no integrity at all.. Just a month? it's funny I must say

karryn:
which upper region and which faault are u talking abt?

Love Machine:
It hurt after you preserve a girl until after marriage,she later give the thing out to a guy who didn't struggle like you to have it.Any girl who get an admission into a university should be dump.

Itzurboi:
Lol, i mean ur dp, i saw a nice shootout, was tinkin mayb its ma fone..... or was ma fone ryt abt d pix

JustHere2Observ:


The question is why should you even preserve a girl till marriage? She is not your property, she is not sworn to you. If a girl wants to remain a virgin till marriage, it should be because she wants to, not because one boy is filling her head with promises of marriage, which might not happen sef.
Besides they broke up, what has he been up to during their break up? He didn't say that one oo, its the virgin pussy he didn't Bleep that is paining him.

henrylowe:
What sahre are you talking about sir?

karryn:
what's u peoples own with my boobs na? Ah ah even cossy sef dey rest

JayJustus:
the reason why I want to adopt kids and live alone....



hoes hoes hoes everywhere...I'm judgemental...thunder fire anyone that quotes me

yeyeboi:



Women been cheating since day 1 ( Eve) they are necessary evil

Laveda:
Eiyaa

Please forgive her if she's really sincere about the whole thing, shít happens, that's if you really love her as you claim..

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?

jesusjewel1:



Guy, calm down. Don't be too cold on us.
Not all ladies are sex,money and bad boy freaks....
There are decent ladies who's pride is still intact .
And for me....
I need true love far above every material thing....
And firstly, the Spiritual minded dude...
That's the first thing that sweeps me off my feet

tallfish145:
How sure are you getting a pure girl if leave her.It is not easy for ladies to maintain their virginity nowadays,esp those in the higher institutions.

henrylowe:
It's not like I'm dull or something, since I aim at marrying her, I felt there was no need to rush sex

henrylowe:
What sahre are you talking about sir?