lilmax:
He's right though

praise the Lord somebody.

safarigirl:
lol. Na picture you dey look? Bros, strong and opinionated doesn't make one incapable of affection. Do not confuse those terms for frigid and unyielding

The most popularly used term for Michelle by the American media is 'strong' and 'opinionated'... . Nobody has ever looked at Michelle and said submissive.

No woman worth her education is ever submissive, they know what they want, they don't settle for dimwits who can't handle a woman with an opinion. Michelle is a graduate of Law, her course of study doesn't breed submissive women, she married a man with a law degree from Harvard, such men are not small-minded, they don't want door mats or submissive women. They want women with opinions, not dolts that always answer "yes massa".... They want someone to share ideas with, not someone who doesn't even know the meaning of terms like Stock Exchange and Contracts.

So bros, if you think Michelle is submissive, you must be one of those men who see a doormat in every woman

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahaahahahahahah you're a feisty one. let me guess,late teens early twenties no? little or no relationship experience? still believe your "intelligence" will get you through this world yes? its alright.What i do know is,an argumentative,cantankerous,headstrong woman is a turn-off for every man(believe it or not that is what the "strong,independent woman" mantra has come to signify) When did being submissive begin to mean being a doormat? do you know what barack said first attracted him to his wife?in his own words;"i liked the way she smiled easily".Isn't smiling a submissive human action? When did university degrees,how the media labels a person or people and a persons career become a pre-requisite for a somewhat successful relationship?If men desired "strong independent opinionated" women,then african-american women should be the most sought after women on the planet but even african-american men are running away from them.

P.S. As for the backhanded comment directed at me by the person who quoted you,if that person isnt a coward,let that person quote me directly and state her worthless opinion

GirlAfrik:
Real mumu na him u be. Dey there day deceive yourself. For ur mind now , U don comment, abi? You better take hint from the write up and receive small sense

lol listen, i treat people how they treat me. so maybe you need to tell women to start treating men the way michelle treats obama. if you treat me like an ATM, I will treat you like a customer

snilpall:


dats third law dude.....

Thanks. God bless you

Doubleagent008:
sir that's not the 1st law I think it's the third Law.

Thanks bro. God bless you

Coming from a Nigerian man, this is wonderful

Vanquay16:
Nigerian women are trash, I don't expect them to be Michelle and I will treat them how trash is to be treated.

And your mother and any close female relative in your family must be treated like trash from as many useless people like you also. Uncouth piece of rubbish that thinks he is a "man".

admax:
The lady has a point though.

You want your wife to treat you like a King? Treat her like a Queen!

You want your husband to treat you like a Queen? Treat him like a King!

If one of you is not doing what he or she ought to do in a marriage, her advice and ranting is for you.

God bless u bro

safarigirl:
Nigerian men can't handle women like Michelle Obama- strong and opinionated
EOD

Stop this Generalization, it's annoying.... Not all foreign men can handle her type too.

safarigirl:
lol. Na picture you dey look? Bros, strong and opinionated doesn't make one incapable of affection. Do not confuse those terms for frigid and unyielding

The most popularly used term for Michelle by the American media is 'strong' and 'opinionated'... . Nobody has ever looked at Michelle and said submissive.

No woman worth her education is ever submissive, they know what they want, they don't settle for dimwits who can't handle a woman with an opinion. Michelle is a graduate of Law, her course of study doesn't breed submissive women, she married a man with a law degree from Harvard, such men are not small-minded, they don't want door mats or submissive women. They want women with opinions, not dolts that always answer "yes massa".... They want someone to share ideas with, not someone who doesn't even know the meaning of terms like Stock Exchange and Contracts.

So bros, if you think Michelle is submissive, you must be one of those men who see a doormat in every woman

I wonder what your definition of "Submissive" is

JeffreyJamez:



I wonder what your definition of "Submissive" is

compliant, meek, docile, servile, tame, subservient, pliant, slavish. Those are some of the synonyms for submissive

Am I missing anything?

Teespice:

praise the Lord somebody.

hallelujah

dollyjoy:
What is so special about her Some people are just stupid for no reason at all.

I smell envy here

JeffreyJamez:


Stop this Generalization, it's annoying.... Not all foreign men can handle her type too.

in law, there are general rules snd there are exceptions to such rules.

The general rule in Nigeria is that Nigerian men prefer submissive doormats

The exception to that rule is some Nigerian men prefer opinionated, strong women

So, when I say "Nigerian men can't handle women like Michelle Obama"... I'm stating the general rule

safarigirl:
compliant, meek, docile, servile, tame, subservient, pliant, slavish. Those are some of the synonyms for submissive

Am I missing anything?

Slavish?, docile? .....


In terms of marriage, those synonyms don't apply when it comes to marriage.. There are women who are top dogs in their careers, strong and opinionated women... Successful and no-nonsense like when it comes to their careers and what they believe in, but it surely has a line when it comes to dealing with their spouses.... As strong and opinionated Michelle is, I bet you, she knows where to draw the line when it concerns family matters with Barrack.... That's what I personally understand by the word Submissive, when it comes to marriage and yes, a man can be submissive to his wife too.

safarigirl:
in law, there are general rules snd there are exceptions to such rules.

The general rule in Nigeria is that Nigerian men prefer submissive doormats

The exception to that rule is some Nigerian men prefer opinionated, strong women

So, when I say "Nigerian men can't handle women like Michelle Obama"... I'm stating the general rule

That rule is utter bullocks!...... There are over 50million men in Nigeria, We all can't be thinking in one direction.

Wealthyone:
*Copied from whatsapp*

Dear Mother,

Please, stop teaching your daughter that it's her job to fix her man! Who will fix her, when she is busy fixing another?

Momma, stop telling her that she's the home builder! Tell her that she will work hand in hand with her husband to build her home.

Our society today is littered with over-burdened wives, mothers, sisters and daughters. They are wearied, they are stressed and drained, from having to
fix themselves and as well fix an adult who ought to be fixing himself and fixing things around the house.

Look around you, you've succeeded in raising strong daughters and weak sons.... Sons who grew to become nonchalant men, men who rather feast while the women work.

Ma'am, teach your son that it's his job to provide for his family, totally, exclusively, that way, he won't expect his woman to share family responsibilities with him.
When such expectations aren't there, he will very much appreciate any input she makes.

Teach your son that he's the sole protector of his home, that will make him not run off to chase pleasure with the idea that "my wife will handle it".

Mama, teach your son that loving his wife is a daily affair, and he must make her feel loved, in every sense of the word....

Dad, make your son understand that he's not done anything for his children, until he loves their mother fully.

Papa, raise your son, by loving his mother purely... When he sees you doing it right, he will do it more right in his marriage.

Daddie, teach your son never to depend on a woman. That way, he will never look at a woman as his support, he will put in all his best to be there for his family.

Mom and Dad, raise your sons, to be the picture of the husbands you desire for your daughters!

I just de laugh u ,, it is the man's sole responsibility to provide for his family abi.? You own work is to be measuring equality... Read ur write up again & see how selfish u sound
Same reason there is a thread like this..

JeffreyJamez:


Slavish?, docile? .....


In terms of marriage, those synonyms don't apply when it comes to marriage.. There are women who are top dogs in their careers, strong and opinionated women... Successful and no-nonsense like when it comes to their careers and what they believe in, but it surely has a line when it comes to dealing with their spouses.... As strong and opinionated Michelle is, I bet you, she knows where to draw the line when it concerns family matters with Barrack.... That's what I personally understand by the word Submissive, when it comes to marriage and yes, a man can be submissive to his wife too.

depends on who you're marrying.

Some men are control freaks, especially in this country. They always want to be in control, their word is law, women are too brainless to have opinions anyway. I knew this one fellow that loved the sound of his voice and thought he was jack, telling me how to dress and how to walk, telling me I shouldn't rap, I had no business watching football, basically, a misogynistic cvnt.

And dude was just in toasting level then. Tomorrow, one poor girl will agree to be his wife and I can only imagine what will become of her self esteem

And many Nigerian men are like that, scroll through NL and see them telling women with an opinion that they won't see husband because they bother to have an opinion different from that of the society. Is it those ones that will listen to a woman's contribution inside house? People who think every unmarried woman is so because she's haughty or was giving men attitude in her younger days. People who tell a woman to live like a pauper so that she'll see husband

Marriage cannot change someone with an attitude problem, nothing like inside and outside marriage story. Before Barack married Michelle, i'm sure she gave him a piece of her mind more times than the average Nigerian man can take

JeffreyJamez:



That rule is utter bullocks!...... There are over 50million men in Nigeria, We all can't be thinking in one direction.

the rule implies that if there are 70 million men in Nigeria, at least 55 million are thinking in that one direction. The other 15 million are the exceptions.

So no, it's not saying everyone thinks in one line, it just says a majority share that opinion

safarigirl:
depends on who you're marrying.

Some men are control freaks, especially in this country. They always want to be in control, their word is law, women are too brainless to have opinions anyway. I knew this one fellow that loved the sound of his voice and thought he was jack, telling me how to dress and how to walk, telling me I shouldn't rap, I had no business watching football, basically, a misogynistic cvnt.

And dude was just in toasting level then. Tomorrow, one poor girl will agree to be his wife and I can only imagine what will become of her self esteem

And many Nigerian men are like that, scroll through NL and see them telling women with an opinion that they won't see husband because they bother to have an opinion different from that of the society. Is it those ones that will listen to a woman's contribution inside house? People who think every unmarried woman is so because she's haughty or was giving men attitude in her younger days. People who tell a woman to live like a pauper so that she'll see husband

Marriage cannot change someone with an attitude problem, nothing like inside and outside marriage story. Before Barack married Michelle, i'm sure she gave him a piece of her mind more times than the average Nigerian man can take

Like you said, it all boils down to who you're marrying.






But that bobo wey tell you not to rap and watch football, lol.... Na wa o

dollyjoy:
What is so special about her Some people are just stupid for no reason at all.

Dis you read the article ?

dollyjoy:
What is so special about her Some people are just stupid for no reason at all.

Did you read the article ?

Vanquay16:
Nigerian women are trash, I don't expect them to be Michelle and I will treat them how trash is to be treated.

You so know you have loved Ones who are women

dollyjoy:
What is so special about her Some people are just stupid for no reason at all.

Trully you are a disgrace to Nigerian women!
You just confirmed what he wrote that trully there are women who are brainless door mats !
Anyway thank goodness your specie are in the minority so there is hope.
Please next time if you don't understand a topic kindly stick to commenting on make up, fake boobs, parties and wizkid. Do not attempt to be smart or answer questions like 2+98 or you just might have a brain aneurism.
Bye

FlirtyKaren:
This EPIC rant written by Onuora Onianwa who is vexed that some Nigerian men will treat their women like trash and expect them to be like Michelle Barack Obama is a MUST READ.

Women that know, deep within their hearts, that they deserve a better man than the one they are with right now, kindly read this and receive sense.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/07/guy-blasts-fellow-nigerian-men-who.html

this dude is a clown
this is africa not america
the man is in charge and the head of the union

bettercreature:
A good example of woman rapper,I dont think a real man would have time to compose this nonsense

What do you know about being a real man. My friend keep quiet next time when MEN are talking. U still a boy

amdo007:
I can't say all Nigerian girls are trash because I have a mother and a sister and hope to have a wife and a daughter, however most girls I have interacted with have shown a great sense of impatience that cannot allow them build a man. Forget bright future, most of them are blinded by material things and are not ready to help a man grow. It is rare to see a Nigerian babe that is ready to suffer with you. They only sit down and expect to enjoy the fruits of your Labour without any help whatsoever. They are gold diggers, sluts, lazy, materialistic and demonic. Some will even bring you down spiritually if you entangle with them. They have made a lot of promising guys useless and they won't stop anytime soon. They should change for the better before coming here to say nonesence about respect. I cant respect people who do not respect themselves.

Why should you wait for a woman to come and build you? Who'll build her while she sacrifices to build you?

Miggs:
You are very mis-informed.
No man wants a strong and opinionated woman
If they did,they would have romantic relationships with other men.
Look at the two photos of barack and his wife on this thread.Can you see how she is holding him tightly with both arms?The woman is clearly submissive to the man.

Unlike many black women in the world today who expect to be treated like queens despite their cunty_ actions.

So men want weak and dependent women then? Okay

Leez:

this dude is a clown
this is africa not america
the man is in charge and the head of the union

He's in charge and head of the union? So......?? He shouldn't treat his wife well or respect her? How does being the head come in?

@Post

Everything Onoura said is true. In addition, he forgot to add that if Michelle were married to a Nigerian man, by now she will be frustrated in her marriage both by her husband and his family because she did not birth any male child. In fact, if Michelle were married to a Nigerian man, by now he must have gone out to impregnate some young girl and justify his adulterous actions by saying that Michelle has not given him a son. Michelle is blessed to be married to Obama and she is lucky she does not come from 3rd world Nigeria/Africa where women are generally disregarded and treated like sh!t.

dollyjoy:
What is so special about her Some people are just stupid for no reason at all.

Everything! A dumbass like you can't see anything special in her because here's a guy clamouring for you ladies to be treated special and here's the best comment you can cone up with? SMH

FlirtyKaren:
This EPIC rant written by Onuora Onianwa who is vexed that some Nigerian men will treat their women like trash and expect them to be like Michelle Barack Obama is a MUST READ.

Women that know, deep within their hearts, that they deserve a better man than the one they are with right now, kindly read this and receive sense.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/07/guy-blasts-fellow-nigerian-men-who.html

I don't totally agree with this fella.. Some Nigerian ladies get treated like Queens of heaven by Nigerian men but they still prefer the brain is touching title...

I prefer been myself around a woman... That way her drama queen attitude would meet my who cares attitude and lose.. Cos it's on to the next one...