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| Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by LasoulMacuby(m): 3:56pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Hello people, got this issue on my mind, but can't really tell what going on . dated this girl for some months, eventually unresolved issues like lies, cheating (on her part) made us go separate ways. we are now just close friends. The issue is I don't have any feeling towards her again, I even rejected having sex with her the last time she made such attempt. I know she is in another relationship, but I can't help watching her be in need, she invited me to her birthday sometime ago, I went along with few friends, I gave her cash, she calls me when she is in need, and I always feel this strong urge to assist her even though we ain't dating again. Just last week, she was admitted for some serious illness. I felt worried, checked the hospital, offset some bills, left some cash, and call every now and then to know if she is OK. Fact is am not really into her, because even if she goes stark naked I will not touch her, just like I did sometime ago, am not into going back to date an ex. I love moving ahead. Secondly, I have come to discover I have this attitude of always trying to help out an ex whenever they need my help (any girl I have dated, I always feel like helping whenever she is in need) Pls house I have asked myself, I no fit answer. Am I on the right path at all or e get wetin dey do me  |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by raayah(f): 3:58pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
You are being used, you better wake up. 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by lasisi69(f): 4:05pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Your mumu button is in the village... 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by halfricanadian(f): 4:07pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by firstking01(m): 4:10pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
LasoulMacuby:Nothing is wrong with you, i'm like that, some of us are born philanthropist....we are like that by default...dnt dare to change no matter what people say...and whenever you see this nature in you, know for sure that you you gonna be rich/wealthy man. |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by donTbone(m): 4:11pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Every forces that wanna keep Controlling my MUMU BUTTON, I bind and cast by fire... In between: bros, you have to be a man now. Its good to care but have the interest of your future wife at heart. Cos if you continue till you marry....hmmmmmmm, make e no be say na hot water your wife go pour on your so called ex. #mYpieceOfMind 2 Likes |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by LasoulMacuby(m): 4:12pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
raayah:Its not about being used. No one force me to act. I willingly do it, and don't miss the part that I always feel the urge to help out an Ex. Its not me being a maga. For example, last month I met with a friend of one of my ex (mercy) we dated 2012, was in port Harcourt then . I asked after her, and got to know she wasn't doing to well, had problems with her final years second semester school fees. I know she lost her dad last year February. I got her number, put a call to her, after some long talk I asked after her school activities. she didn't even mention money issue, but at the end I asked her to send her account number to me that the country is hard and would like to help out . I did all these without her asking, it couldn't have been planned because her friend I met would never have believed she would see me in Makurdi because the all know am based in Abuja based on our last conversation over a year ago. So my dear, am just asking is something wrong with me?? N.B : Same thing applies to my male friends too, I can't have an say no to them. My friends are brothers to me. |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Sunnymatey(m): 4:14pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
U are just kind hearted trying to help humanity, but focus more on ur future than allowing urself to be used. |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by LasoulMacuby(m): 4:16pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
I know many would not understand but that's just me. I may be walking down the road, and someone walks up to me and say he/she have not eaten. I will make sure I find a joint so that the person can eat. This often makes me unable to save, and sometimes even run out of cash, but I thank God I still live a comfortable life. Thank you guys for your input, well appreciated |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by donTbone(m): 4:20pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
firstking01:Sorry Bros... Are u married? If NO, then I pray may your Philanthropic attitude never land you into trouble. Av gat the experience... Some help are just better of not being handed. I'd rather rely on my INNER WITNESS to help people. |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
hmm  |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by VaginaTerrorist(m): 4:22pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
You are very Wrong man! Never go back to an ex under what ever reason, are you her papa? If its too much money thats your problem then set up a charity home and not just wasting money on some cheap toto abeg brother shift from that girl so you can maintain your sanity. Why on earth should you reject sex from her and be like
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| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by chivic(m): 4:29pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Nothing is wrong with you. It's in your nature to help friends(check and see)i'm like that to. Again your EX Is not necessarily your enermy.May be You just saw certain thing that made you feel you can't marry her . Continue what you are doing period. |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by firstking01(m): 4:30pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
donTbone:I 've told you what's obtainable, if you like take, if you dnt like leave it. Good day. |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by VaginaTerrorist(m): 4:38pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
raayah:
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| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by LasoulMacuby(m): 4:48pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
VaginaTerrorist:Its not only limited to the females my brother. I help anyone whether male or female |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Gbam, as if am watching nollywood raayah: |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by lasisi69(f): 4:59pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian:unto which levels.. You think I'm one of those guys you toss around with 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by halfricanadian(f): 5:03pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
lasisi69:  pretender of life na u like d post again |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by lasisi69(f): 5:06pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian:k 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Swissheart(f): 5:07pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Nothing is wrong with you. It is just who you are,someone close to me is. I do not know if he gives to his Exes same way he gives to the current babe. The most important thing is not doing it for praises from the beneficiaries. Save , invest and gather for yourself while making others happy. You are not a maga, nor an Ajao. You are not been used like someone said. Cheers |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian:I'm really surprised at you.. How can you be replying back that low-life of a girl... You are bigger than this nah.... To that rubbish girl, has he ever sent you a pm? Fool 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by halfricanadian(f): 5:12pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
tribalwarlord:  wat did u drink?U so small just grow a little taller to step into my level Hands busy counting money i cant E fyt u ryt now  |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian:show us prove that he has been stalking you and sending pm or else, you are a low-life like I said.. . Period 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by halfricanadian(f): 5:16pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
tribalwarlord: research ursef |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian:How? bastich 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by halfricanadian(f): 5:19pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian:someone would just log online and starts seeking for attention... Mind you, I am a girl but, what you did was uncalled for. .. Take it or leave it.. . If it's not true, show us proof he's been stalking you. .. Bye 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by thesuave10(m): 5:23pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
You're. Fine bro.totally,fine its a personality trait to be philanthropic |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by halfricanadian(f): 5:23pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
tribalwarlord: u like fight o |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian:no offense intended... Peace 1 Like |
| Re: Whats Wrong With Me . . .? by halfricanadian(f): 5:26pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
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