[b]Our Cheatin’ Hearts!

Why can’t you just be faithful?

Any man who has ever been on the receiving end of that question, whether dodging crockery or wiping away his wife’s tears, knows that some women really want an answer. Do men who cheat really outnumber their female counterparts? Is infidelity in marriage more natural to men than women? And do some husbands think that “monogamy” is a board game?

Who cheats most?
“There’s no question that men cheat more than women,” says Steven Nock, PhD, a professor of sociology at the University of Virginia who has followed the marriages of over 6,000 men since 1979. “In the bad old days when we had to prove why we were getting divorced, that was the leading cause.” This was mostly because the husbands were guiltier of infidelity in marriage than their wives — but also because, says Nock, “society is more tolerant of men’s misdeeds.”

Men who cheat, so the conventional wisdom went, were just being men, while a faithless wife was a true pariah. You may remember from your American literature class, it was Hester Prynne who wore the scarlet letter, not the man who did her wrong.

“Men and women cheat in different ways,” says Mark Epstein, MD, a psychiatrist in private practice in Manhattan and the author of Open to Desire: Embracing a Lust for Life. “It’s more like an appetite thing for men, more oral in a way; their partners are more disposable. And the experiences are more disposable.”

Now the question comes in, can a man ever be faithful to one woman [/b]

This ur question serious ooh... As a typical Nigerian I go ask u my own question. U done ever see woman cheat before & ask her why she dey cheat?

If really really really really woman den he wont cheat

But if its just attraction he has for his woman
Yes he will over cheat nd over do d cheating with little or no remorse.

gabinogem:
This ur question serious ooh... As a typical Nigerian I go ask u my own question. U done ever see woman cheat before & ask her why she dey cheat?

bro, I dnt say women don't cheat, but if u read that post well and understood it, u'd see it explains that men are into the act more than women...

halfricanadian:
If really really really really woman den he wont cheat

But if its just attraction he has for his woman
Yes he will over cheat nd over do d cheating with little or no remorse.

hmmm... But whichever be the case, he'll approach u and claim to love u... While that body is all that he admires and not ur inner beauty.

I am dating someone else apart from her but she is the most important person to me. i am afraid to lose her. I tremble when i see her. I truly love her. I can do anything for her but i still have a side chick and i don't know why i did that.

DY20:
I am dating someone else apart from her but she is the most important person to me. i am afraid to lose her. I tremble when i see her. I truly love her. I can do anything for her but i still have a side chick and i don't know why i did that.

lol.. Now how can u explain that

DatCuteGuy:
hmmm... But whichever be the case, he'll approach u and claim to love u... While that body is all that he admires and not ur inner beauty.

Ok

halfricanadian:


Ok

I despise it when someone replies with just ok


Say sumfin else

DatCuteGuy:
[b]Our Cheatin’ Hearts!

Why can’t you just be faithful?

Any man who has ever been on the receiving end of that question, whether dodging crockery or wiping away his wife’s tears, knows that some women really want an answer. Do men who cheat really outnumber their female counterparts? Is infidelity in marriage more natural to men than women? And do some husbands think that “monogamy” is a board game?

Who cheats most?
“There’s no question that men cheat more than women,” says Steven Nock, PhD, a professor of sociology at the University of Virginia who has followed the marriages of over 6,000 men since 1979. “In the bad old days when we had to prove why we were getting divorced, that was the leading cause.” This was mostly because the husbands were guiltier of infidelity in marriage than their wives — but also because, says Nock, “society is more tolerant of men’s misdeeds.”

Men who cheat, so the conventional wisdom went, were just being men, while a faithless wife was a true pariah. You may remember from your American literature class, it was Hester Prynne who wore the scarlet letter, not the man who did her wrong.

“Men and women cheat in different ways,” says Mark Epstein, MD, a psychiatrist in private practice in Manhattan and the author of Open to Desire: Embracing a Lust for Life. “It’s more like an appetite thing for men, more oral in a way; their partners are more disposable. And the experiences are more disposable.”

Now the question comes in, can a man ever be faithful to one woman [/b]

can you continue to have and put on just one shirt,for the rest of your life?

DatCuteGuy:
I despise it when someone replies with just ok


Say sumfin else

Like wat? I agreed with u

have u heard the saying bitches ain't loyal?

halfricanadian:


Like wat? I agreed with u

I get it... Pls move along

halfricanadian:
If really really really really woman den he wont cheat

But if its just attraction he has for his woman
Yes he will over cheat nd over do d cheating with little or no remorse.

Is that y this girl i was faithful to was trying to make other 5 guys faithful to her..?

A "TRUE" man can never be faithful to any one woman.

DatCuteGuy:
I get it... Pls move along

Ok

DatCuteGuy:
I despise it when someone replies with just ok


Say sumfin else

exactly d same reason i'm hating everyone dat replies me with 2 or 3 letter words

DY20:
I am dating someone else apart from her but she is the most important person to me. i am afraid to lose her. I tremble when i see her. I truly love her. I can do anything for her but i still have a side chick and i don't know why i did that.

Eleyi gidi gan!

halfricanadian:


Ok

aarrgh!


STOP IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

halfricanadian:

Ok

I don't know y but i don't like u

Hiroto:
exactly d same reason i'm hating everyone dat replies me with 2 or 3 letter words

ladies are guilty of this!

African men are created polygamist. Nd its impossible to eat one kind of food for a lifetime. Man gaz taste different cuisine. Thats how it is

Hiroto:
Is that y this girl i was faithful to was trying to make other 5 guys faithful to her..?

hahahaha. This one get as e be

Hiroto:
Is that y this girl i was faithful to was trying to make other 5 guys faithful to her..?

Ok

Hiroto:
I don't know y but i don't like u

tank u

halfricanadian:


tank u

kikikikikikiki!

DatCuteGuy:
ladies are guilty of this!

I get so angry becos of that attitude

Xup Halfrican

halfricanadian:

tank u

Shut up nd fvck off!

DatCuteGuy:
bro, I dnt say women don't cheat, but if u read that post well and understood it, u'd see it explains that men are into the act more than women...

OK! The reason be say men dey more adventurous than women. Na only adventurous mind dey fit do the 'undoable'.

Hiroto:
Shut up nd fvck off!

Ok tanx

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