Mjshexy:
So what do we do with those irresponsible & lousy girls u have used, disfigured & messed around with? OK they should turn to baby mamas as usual or go join the choir abi? Anyway the good girls re still in primary school, u may need to wait some more sir..lol

angels09:
After sleeping with a girl...it becomes difficult to know if she's good or bad......


If you are really interested in knowing how good a lady is....stay out of her pants and be good friends..... Sexx gives mixed signals

FreeSpirited:
Many guys sleep around with different girls because they haven't seen the lady that connects with them. There is always a final stop when the 'bus-stop' presents itself.

I have come to realise that not every guy really enjoys the thrill and unending cycle of chasing and bedding different gals, (even though temporary pleasure might be derived) when in true fact, a girl that will be loved and cherished who also will understand and reciprocate in return is all they crave for.

My question is : where are the good girls? (this is not trying to demonize the ones being slept with , it's just out of no choice) Do we still have girls who are really looking for love ? who are serious about settling down? and where are they? cos many responsible guys are really tired of fvcking around. A girl should put a stop to this.

Olalan:
Unfortunately the good ones are fast going into extinction. I think when their orientation about love all being about the highest bidder then maybe we could have more decent girls. Cause you wonder why a girl keeps multiple boyfriend if not to gather as much cash from them all.

firstking01:
No responsible guy fvcks around...you are what you attract.

FreeSpirited:
You have a point. but then its not really easy to find a lady that measure up to taste. Most of the ones around only gives off sign that they are seductress or only ready for flings

angels09:

Just make friends. I assure you there's more to gain by being friends with her than a bedmate

FreeSpirited:
Unfortunately for nice friendly guys, gals usually take them for granted and end up friendzoning them. Even the fear of friendzoning will make you want to initiate sex earlier.

angels09:

You're not gonna be the nice friendly guy.... You're going to be a friend. Erase the thoughts of her pants from your mind! Sex is very overrated

FreeSpirited:
Guys no this too well....its a fast track to friendzone.......The truth is most ladies looking for love have friendzoned alot of those good guys.

olatunjithomas:
I don't know if you have ever tried mixing a 5litres of black paint with a 25litres of white paint,you will see the mixture turn a light black if not total black.
Now, The large percentage of spoilt girls has made the good ones vulnerable to bad influences just like the white paint.However, The good ones are not faraway provided you are ready to beat you iron while it's hot (let the reader understand) I can tell you, I met my girlfriend when we were barely 15,and I can tell you now that we are still going strong together even without sex.
The spoilt girls are living and the good ones are yet to go extinct, but the pitiable thing is, The group of men or guys looking for unused girls are the are the same ones investing in the USE AND DUMP INDUSTRY. Get it right,some girls did not turn used because they wanted to be,some started good, set out for a good guy but were not fortunate enough.


my point is,the good ones are still available,just that getting one might be so technical in the sense that, in the process of trying to get a good one,you contributed in ruining some.

OdikwaRisky:
"Many responsible guys are tired of fůcking around"

Op does the statement above make any sense to you? You tag yourselves as "responsible" yet you still fůck around and come here to bıtch about not finding a good girl? So the girls you've fûcked and dumped, who are you leaving them for?

Sometimes, the kind of bullshit I read here makes me tear up. How did people get so damn stúpid? Just give them a smart phone and some megabytes and their stupıd mode gets activated.

Any one that sleeps around like a dog and still wants to marry a good girl, the kind of thunder that will break your dıck into half is still soaking in kerosene . Iranu.

FreeSpirited:
People go into relationship for different reasons.......we still have responsible guys who find themselves in a relationship that doesn't define what they really want........that's why i term it fvck around. ......even friends with benefits abound...a form of relationship on terms and agreement. ....And because your taste has not arrived does not mean you should declare yourself a chaste.

FreeSpirited:
Many guys sleep around with different girls because they haven't seen the lady that connects with them. There is always a final stop when the 'bus-stop' presents itself.

I have come to realise that not every guy really enjoys the thrill and unending cycle of chasing and bedding different gals, (even though temporary pleasure might be derived) when in true fact, a girl that will be loved and cherished who also will understand and reciprocate in return is all they crave for.

My question is : where are the good girls? (this is not trying to demonize the ones being slept with , it's just out of no choice) Do we still have girls who are really looking for love ? who are serious about settling down? and where are they? cos many responsible guys are really tired of fvcking around. A girl should put a stop to this.

LePrezident:


And so many girls are so shallow and vain (instagram and snapchat girls who are rules by number of likes and views). They're unable to connect on a deep intellectual level as such no plausible relationship aside coitus