My girlfriend is too careless. She loses things most especially phones anyhow . I gave her my former phone on July 1st, she lost it early this morning. I bought her a new phone last year, she damaged it after two months. Her sister bought a new phone for her this year, she also damaged that one too within three months . This girl case haf tire me gan ni.

Ehya...Abeg carry ur cross

Continue buying and giving her

Shebi na love

Basheje oshi

Teach her manners... give her ultimatums ...simple!

newsphase:
Teach her manners... give her ultimatums ...simple!

Brother, I have tried all that. On July 1st, I told her if she loses the phone that I will never give her anything again. Wetin man go do

break up and let everyone has peace

Lol...its psychology.....u never value what u dont pay for..

whn she starts working hard for money, bet me her phone will always be intact.

I guess she is spoilt and never worked for money.Stop giving her everything she demands den.

yomi007k:
Lol...its psychology.....u never value what u dont pay for..

whn she starts working hard for money, bet me her phone will always be intact.

you've said it all. When she start working, she'll learn not to be careless.

OK.

Liedetect0r:
break up and let everyone has peace

Really ??is that d best solution..

Get her a phone she cannot loose, a second hand Nokia torch light phone. Even if she loses it, people will call her to come and collect it.

alexistaiwo:

Brother, I have tried all that. On July 1st, I told her if she loses the phone that I will never give her anything again. Wetin man go do

and when she lost her phone how did she feel... Did she just say I am sorry and its just a phone after all... or did she just plead seriously to show remorse...

it all depends on the way she sees ultimatums... and also some form of discipline.. (I mean before you know it a new friend can buy a phone for her, and all your ultimatums and discipline will be bullshit... so I think you know what to do)

Eeyah...

chycheery:
Really ??is that d best solution..

It would have been better if you had proffered your own solution.

olaleks007:
Ehya...Abeg carry ur cross

Continue buying and giving her

Shebi na love

Basheje oshi

the Hell Out of her Until she learns her lessons

Pranaya:
you've said it all. When she start working, she'll learn not to be careless.

yomi007k:
Lol...its psychology.....u never value what u dont pay for..
whn she starts working hard for money, bet me her phone will always be intact.

Pranaya:
you've said it all. When she start working, she'll learn not to be careless.

Funny thing is I failed to mention in the post that she once bought a phone with her salary. She also lost it

alexistaiwo:

Funny thing is I failed to mention in the post that she once bought a phone with her salary. She also lost it

like seriously? Have you tried sitting her down to talk to her?

alexistaiwo:

Funny thing is I failed to mention in the post that she once bought a phone with her salary. She also lost it

She is not yet completely independent. ...

She gets financial support or relief one way or d other.

if she doesnt, she will settle 4 cheaper fones or becom more protective.

newsphase:


and when she lost her phone how did she feel... Did she just say I am sorry and its just a phone after all... or did she just plead seriously to show remorse...

it all depends on the way she sees ultimatums... and also some form of discipline.. (I mean before you know it a new friend can buy a phone for her, and all your ultimatums and discipline will be bullshit... so I think you know what to do)

She always seems sincerely remorseful to me like the circumstances are beyond her control

Pranaya:
like seriously? Have you tried sitting her down to talk to her?

Many times I have talked to her. Once I lent her my memory card, only for her to tell me the next day that it had been stolen from her phone. I am fed up

Kenzico:
F***k the Hell Out of her Until she learns her lessons

Kenzico:
F***k the Hell Out of her Until she learns her lessons

Kenzico:
F***k the Hell Out of her Until she learns her lessons

I was once like you. When you gain more experience in the dating world, you will know that a relationship is so much than just sex

Liedetect0r:
break up and let everyone has peace

As for you. My siggy says it all

alexistaiwo:

She always seems sincerely remorseful to me like the circumstances are beyond her control

Then you try to tie it to her control.... Some girls are very careless and I believe parents are to be blamed for that....

alexistaiwo:

Many times I have talked to her. Once I lent her my memory card, only for her to tell me the next day that it had been stolen from her phone. I am fed up

Now I dunno what to say. If you've tried talking to her on it and you didn't notice any change, I'll advise you assist her in working on herself. Cause she definitely needs it

newsphase:


Then you try to tie it to her control.... Some girls are very careless and I believe parents are to be blamed for that....

How?

Kenzico:
F***k the Hell Out of her Until she learns her lessons

grow up man

She sells the phone and uses d money for sumtyn else cos She knows u a maga and u would always buy a beta one. She is taking advantage of u, d earlier u quit d Bera

Pranaya:
grow up man

Hê made his honest opinion, contribute to d ops questn and stop attacking pple