The ladies we have in Nigeria these days are very funny people.
Imagine a girl chat me up on whatsapp. I don't know where this lady got my number from. I asked to know who she was, she refused to say. She said I know her. I kept on asking questions until I tactically got her to the point that she said she attends the same school I attend, but a different department. She refused to say her name, until I coerced her to. Till now, she has not yet shown her face on whatsapp. She knows my name and all, from where I don't know... She says that she admires me.
Please ladies all these silly games some of you play are very irritating. Just because you don't want to look cheap to the guy, you will be wasting a guy's time.
Whenever you try not to look cheap, please just know you are already cheap, just trying to do makeup.
By the time that guy you have feelings for, but who you are playing "I don't want to look cheap" game with moves on eh, don't blame the devil o, blame yourself. Please don't even disturb God about it, just blame yourself for being such a coward.

she might just be shy... So use you sense and think positively all the time

.................. a aṣiwère mo ohunkohun

Na who know you? ur kind of irrelevant. u generalized on a whole gender because of one girl. gerrahia

newsphase:
she might just be shy... So use you sense and think positively all the time

.................. a aṣiwère mo ohunkohun

I even called her on phone to know where she stays in school, she refused to say.

What's this one saying?I blame the lady for crushing on an underage

WindUpMerchant:
Na who know you? ur kind of irrelevant. u generalized on a whole gender because of one girl. gerrahia

Thank you... I have seen this again and again. Many guys here also have seen such behaviours. A girl boldly told me that if you tell a guy your feelings for him, they will see you as cheap. That's a wrong way to think.

ikp120:


I even called her on phone to know where she stays in school, she refused to say.

why are you trying to find out where a shy girl stays.. what makes you think she will tell you .... (now she may be one of those girls trying to make a meal out of you due to the bad economy...

So simply play along.. lay a trap for her and you will find her .... If she is just shy you will know... if she is trying to make cash out of you..... you will still know...

Florblu:
What's this one saying?I blame the lady for crushing on an underage

Thanks... But I am not an underage... In my early twenties.

Use truecaller and find out her name.
Thank me later

newsphase:


why are you trying to find out where a shy girl stays.. what makes you think she will tell you .... (now she may be one of those girls trying to make a meal out of you due to the bad economy...

So simply play along.. lay a trap for her and you will find her .... If she is just shy you will know... if she is trying to make cash out of you..... you will still know...

Thanks... I guess I will play along with her

Engrobiorah:
Use truecaller and find out her name. Thank me later

That's a good idea... Thanks

You made my day, one bottle of orijin for you whenever i see you

Florblu:
What's this one saying?I blame the lady for crushing on an underage

Oma307:
You made my day, one bottle of orijin for you whenever i see you

Hahahahahahahahaha.

This might be one of your male friend messing with your head... It has happened to me before.

before you start feeling like sh!t and all

Oops! your text is on a general POV. it could happen anywhere and they guys do that too. there's no crime in wanting someone and devising a way to meet with them or get their attention. Let us say she is a bold person who knows exactly what she wants and goes for it in her own style. i bet you she got lots of courage, and you should be appreciative.

Plus i wanna add, this is not just a Nigeria issue. It happens all over the world. Bold ladies who know what they want and go for it...ciao!

David25:
This might be one of your male friend messing with your head... It has happened to me before.

before you start feeling like sh!t and all

I thought as much... Then I called the number with 2 different sims and it is a girl, but I can't nail who the girl is... She hangs up anytime I try to find out her real identity.

ikp120:


Thank you... I have seen this again and again. Many guys here also have seen such behaviours. A girl boldly told me that if you tell a guy your feelings for him, they will see you as cheap. That's a wrong way to think.

I dnt belief dat. wen u need smth, go 4 it. Dat person can only tell u ''NO'' n it doesn't kill

ramanisgreen:
Oops! your text is on a general POV. it could happen anywhere and they guys do that too. there's no crime in wanting someone and devising a way to meet with them or get their attention. Let us say she is a bold person who knows exactly what she wants and goes for it in her own style. i bet you she got lots of courage, and you should be appreciative.

Plus i wanna add, this is not just a Nigeria issue. It happens all over the world. Bold ladies who know what they want and go for it...ciao!

You're very correct... I appreciate her courage. Everyone is unique... but she needs to at least let me see her face so that i can start weighing my options... But some girls are just too funny.

007Nasky:
I dnt belief dat

I didn't either until I witnessed it first hand... This is not the first, but this one provoked me eh.

Is that what makes her cheap

Maybe you're still little. You know, with the way you reason, I might be correct.

She's that high school girl u send on errands when ur gf comes visiting ... Mr. Akuma's daughter

007Nasky:
I dnt belief dat. wen u need smth, go 4 it. Dat person can only tell u ''NO'' n it doesn't kill

You are very correct! But they think it will reduce their value in the eyes of the guy...

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ikp120:


I didn't either until I witnessed it first hand... This is not the first, but this one provoked me eh.

She should atleast show her face

ikp120:


You are very correct! But they think it will reduce their value in the eyes of the guy...

Na wash be dat. Low self esteem

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Is that what makes her cheap

Maybe you're still little. You know, with the way you reason, I might be correct.

Thanks... But I explained what I meant by a girl being cheap. If I have to raise the value of a car, then that car didn't have as much value... Her case is just an analogy to portray the way some girls behave when they are interested in a guy... She may just be shy... Any girl who tries make herself not to look cheap is cheap, just pretending.

bitchcrafts:
She's that high school girl u send on errands when ur gf comes visiting ... Mr. Akuma's daughter

Hw do u knw

007Nasky:
She should atleast show her face

Exactly my guy... How will I be chatting with a total stranger and be telling her everything about me.

007Nasky:
Na wash be dat. Low self esteem

You very correct my guy

007Nasky:
Hw do u knw

My magic no be hear oh... In fact, I can see you drank water this morning after eating is that not rice I'm seeing

bitchcrafts:
She's that high school girl u send on errands when ur gf comes visiting ... Mr. Akuma's daughter

Hahahahahahahahaha.

I don't even have one

bitchcrafts:
My magic no be hear oh... In fact, I can see you drank water this morning after eating is that not rice I'm seeing

xori bro. i neva ate dis morning