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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by Raydos: 5:25pm On Jul 31, 2016
when you buy this kind of bae ferrari


the second day, you go hear


GIRL;- baby, could you believe that the car you bought me yesterday has crashed along lagos-ibadan express, the road is just too bad - well, i know you'll buy me another one, that's why i set it ablaze, because i'm just too angry.


(baby fainted)


GIRL;- baby what happen!!! aaaah! yeeh!

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by olagzalft1: 5:26pm On Jul 31, 2016
buy her 12 phones yearly one for each month for peace to reign...
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by phranq(m): 5:26pm On Jul 31, 2016
bros just bone her. na she go tell u say she don buy fone with a promise not to lose it again. na wen u no call her n she no fit call u for sm weeks, she go reset to factory setting. just do like u no even kw say she no get fone again. so na so she wan tk manage ua home dem neva grind beans moimoi don dey smell alrdy
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by lonelydora: 5:26pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is too careless. She loses things most especially phones anyhow . I gave her my former phone on July 1st, she lost it early this morning. I bought her a new phone last year, she damaged it after two months. Her sister bought a new phone for her this year, she also damaged that one too within three months . This girl case haf tire me gan ni.

When your surname is not Dangote.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by ghostwritter(m): 5:28pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is too careless. She loses things most especially phones anyhow . I gave her my former phone on July 1st, she lost it early this morning. I bought her a new phone last year, she damaged it after two months. Her sister bought a new phone for her this year, she also damaged that one too within three months . This girl case haf tire me gan ni.
make sure u disvirgin her as soon as possible before she misplaces it carelessly to another guy.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:

This is out of question. She isn't that kind of girl.
tell her when she is in your presence that you have a friend in the police who has helped you track the phone.then observe her reaction

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by ayusco85(m): 5:31pm On Jul 31, 2016
Liedetect0r:
break up and let everyone has peace

"has peace "?

Really
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by K9blunt(f): 5:31pm On Jul 31, 2016
Op, I've never had free phone from anybody, I always worked for my phone but until recently, I have never been careful with them...

Either my phone gets stolen or it gets spoilt (I was working and earning considerable salaries back then) or I got tired of it (this time reality never too show face) ....


Now the phone I have I am managing it like say tomorrow no dey, why? Because I realized the money I was wasting on phones back then we're enough to buy land in my name cry.


Tell your babe to sit down and reflect on why she behaves the way she does, there is no excuse for carelessness, most especially when money is involved.

You can't change her but she, so just talk to her once and then free her. Reality will set In if she is the reasonable type.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by ladyF(f): 5:34pm On Jul 31, 2016
Sometimes we don't value things that didn't cost us a dime. I'm sure if she had used money she worked for day and night to buy the phones, she will be more careful.

That's the "unimportance" we attach to free things sometimes. Buy her phones of like 2k for calls and SMS. When she has money, let her buy her things from her own pocket! angry

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by charlsecy(m): 5:36pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is too careless...
I guess some people are not lucky with phones. Is this carelessness replicated in other areas of her life?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by addizzle(f): 5:39pm On Jul 31, 2016
wahooo!!! she's dah careless all she needs is prayer.. there's a strong force behind it
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:
As for you. My siggy says it all

Chisos!!! shocked shocked See finishin.. I don dieee
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by MrTour: 5:40pm On Jul 31, 2016
Give her my house address to come and collect two new phones, one for you and one for her wink
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by linearity: 5:40pm On Jul 31, 2016
OP, na sign God dey show say, it is high time you break up with and that whatever you do, do not marry her.

Otherwise, no bi only phone she go lost you oh? She host gold abi na diamond ring, necklace wey you go buy for am and you have to replace it.

She go lost house rent, car, house key...in fact, this one fit lost a whole house and her kids--break up with her and thank me later.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by mrsfavour(f): 5:43pm On Jul 31, 2016
[size=8pt][/size]loved up[color=#006600][/color] angry
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by 3sexy: 5:43pm On Jul 31, 2016
Get ready when u marry her ,

She will lose feeding money on her way to the market shocked

She will lose pampers money and baby food money

She will lose house key and call u to come and break the door everyday

She will forget the foodstuff she bought in the market and come home empty handed !

And one day she will lose your baby and eventually loose u,
!
Just kidding


On a serious note: your girlfriend has a bad upbringing . you will get to know more about her when u married !not now
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by biggie73(m): 5:46pm On Jul 31, 2016
Problem identified is problem solved. Stop giving her gift.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by uzo4real(m): 5:47pm On Jul 31, 2016
Let she start buying with her money.....she will improve
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by biggie73(m): 5:48pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:

Brother, I have tried all that. On July 1st, I told her if she loses the phone that I will never give her anything again. Wetin man go do
...so fulfil your vow...
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by NEROSKY(m): 5:48pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:

Brother, I have tried all that. On July 1st, I told her if she loses the phone that I will never give her anything again. Wetin man go do

Buy her peter touch.... #TeamNokia grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by pippimp(m): 5:49pm On Jul 31, 2016
JESUSBOIY:
[b]Man up and put her in her place angry!

Vex for her, Tell her you are not buying her a new phone anytime soon, .since she doesn't value common material things.angry angry angry


Thats how i treat my girl. If i tell her NO, its a NO ...She go cry, beg, touch ,call me stingy and broke, romance and do all the girlie things she want do. I no go still gree....angry angry



She has started calling me hitler sef grin grin grin grin [/b]

What has manning up got to do with her being careless. This is where you have to teach her the way to do things. You can't bully someone into being careful. Too many Nigerians lack problem solving skills.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by ramanisgreen(m): 5:49pm On Jul 31, 2016
ramanisgreen:
Hmmmm...Interesting though. from experience, i have learnt that people could change a habit in an instant. from a non-desirable to a desirable one and all they need is someone that is patient and genuine enough to help them through. complaining and calling the person names won't help. it will just put them in a state of defense. Seeking help from an experienced pro counselor might help, even though they are rare. i recommend empathizing with the person, taking a step by step system to make them understand the results of learning a better habit to improve the way they take care of gifts and other possessions while you dedicate and put efforts in research for possible solutions.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by anibueli147(m): 5:50pm On Jul 31, 2016
Liedetect0r:
break up and let everyone has peace

u wicked ooo shoooo becus she lost phone if person come temper with her temple na him be say na die na tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by goldman777: 5:50pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:

Funny thing is I failed to mention in the post that she once bought a phone with her salary. She also lost it

U better prepare to loose her soon to anoder guy she is d i dont care type
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jul 31, 2016
How many you buy give your mama or sisters for house? This tori just show say the barney don jazz you.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by tosyne09: 5:54pm On Jul 31, 2016
hey Dude, you are not alone in such circumstances. are you a Christian? practising one I mean. if you are, the only thing you need is the word of God.
if you are not married to her, set boundaries and let all you do be guided by the spirit.
I know you've told us the bad side of her but down within you I know there are ways in which you are enjoying the relationship apart from the fact that she's careless. let God guide you..... if you are not meant to be, she's gonna leave you after all but on the contrary, it may be your own cross. try the no sex and be Godly in your dealings with her.
prayer is the key. pray for her to change and also pray for yourself to have spirit of accommodation in case it is your cross, you will be able to manage her and be happy ever after.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jul 31, 2016
Buy her N1000 second hand nokia from Computer village
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jul 31, 2016
JESUSBOIY:
Man up and put her in her place angry!

Vex for her, Tell her you are not buying her a new phone anytime soon, .since she doesn't value common material things.angry angry angry


Thats how i treat my girl. If i tell her NO, its a NO ...She go cry, beg, touch ,call me stingy and broke, romance and do all the girlie things she want do. I no go still gree....angry angry



She has started calling me hitler sef grin grin grin grin

Lol na to find black marker paint Hitler mustache for mouth, nice one
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by Kingzy4pep(m): 6:03pm On Jul 31, 2016
Raydos:
when you buy this kind of bae ferrari


the second day, you go hear


GIRL;- baby, could you believe that the car you bought me yesterday has crashed along lagos-ibadan express, the road is just too bad - well, i know you'll buy me another one, that's why i set it ablaze, because i'm just too angry.


(baby fainted)


GIRL;- baby what happen!!! aaaah! yeeh!
ʞɔɐq əuoɥd ɹnoʎ uɹnʇ ʍou 'noʎ uɹəɔuoɔ ʇou səop ʇɐɥʍ pɐəɹ oʇ uʍop əpısdn əuoɥd ɹnoʎ uɹnʇ əʌɐɥ noʎ
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by richard870(m): 6:05pm On Jul 31, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is too careless. She loses things most especially phones anyhow . I gave her my former phone on July 1st, she lost it early this morning. I bought her a new phone last year, she damaged it after two months. Her sister bought a new phone for her this year, she also damaged that one too within three months . This girl case haf tire me gan ni.
And you feel posting on NL will stop it




This is why Nigeria is in a MESS! undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by matrix1759: 6:06pm On Jul 31, 2016
newsphase:


and when she lost her phone how did she feel... Did she just say I am sorry and its just a phone after all... or did she just plead seriously to show remorse...

it all depends on the way she sees ultimatums... and also some form of discipline.. (I mean before you know it a new friend can buy a phone for her, and all your ultimatums and discipline will be bullshit... so I think you know what to do)
On the flipside, she fit dey sell the fones. Knowing that u'll replace it
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating My Life With Her Carelessness by Raydos: 6:06pm On Jul 31, 2016
Kingzy4pep:
ʞɔɐq əuoɥd ɹnoʎ uɹnʇ ʍou 'noʎ uɹəɔuoɔ ʇou səop ʇɐɥʍ pɐəɹ oʇ uʍop əpısdn əuoɥd ɹnoʎ uɹnʇ əʌɐɥ noʎ

you copied that from me!

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