yomi007k:
Lol...its psychology.....u never value what u dont pay for..

whn she starts working hard for money, bet me her phone will always be intact.

My sister relates to this.

eph12:
Get her a phone she cannot loose, a second hand Nokia torch light phone. Even if she loses it, people will call her to come and collect it.

even that phone badt guys go still thief am.

A lot of people keep saying she loses those things because she doesn't work for it n so on. Thankfully op mentioned that she also lost the one she bought with her salary. In reality, it may just beyond her, talking will help a bit. I am partially like that, although I have never lost a phone carelessly, but I forget things a lot n start finding dem about.

I guess the reason I have not lost my phone is because I am always using it as long as its with me, so I will probably notice if its missing in a matter of minutes. I still misplaced my trainers in the gym a couple of months, my towels n stuffs like that...I will take dem to the gym n come back empty handed, stuffs like that.There is hardly anything U can do about it , just keep loving her n don't buy her anything U can't afford to lose. My baby ti gba kamu, d day I told her I lost my shoes in the gym she just smiled n never even repeated it.

alexistaiwo:

Funny thing is I failed to mention in the post that she once bought a phone with her salary. She also lost it

When my sister's case got worse then, her next phone was taken to my church altar by my mum.
Believe me she passed the phone to my brother after 2 solid years.

Buy her new one nah..

olagold79:
A lot of people keep saying she loses those things because she doesn't work for it n so on. Thankfully op mentioned that she also lost the one she bought with her salary. In reality, it may just beyond her, talking will help a bit. I am partially like that, although I have never lost a phone carelessly, but I forget things a lot n start finding dem about.

I guess the reason I have not lost my phone is because I am always using it as long as its with me, so I will probably notice if its missing in a matter of minutes. I still misplaced my trainers in the gym a couple of months, my towels n stuffs like that...I will take dem to the gym n come back empty handed, stuffs like that.There is hardly anything U can do about it , just keep loving her n don't buy her anything U can't afford to lose. My baby ti gba kamu, d day I told her I lost my shoes in the gym she just smiled n never even repeated it.

Bros this is *highly spiritual*

It happens, i have a friend like her. She should avoid going to places when the phone is likely to get stolen or misplaced.


Things like this happen frequently when you let it. It can always be avoided

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is too careless. She loses things most especially phones anyhow . I gave her my former phone on July 1st, she lost it early this morning. I bought her a new phone last year, she damaged it after two months. Her sister bought a new phone for her this year, she also damaged that one too within three months . This girl case haf tire me gan ni.

She seriously needs deliverance!

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is too careless. She loses things most especially phones anyhow . I gave her my former phone on July 1st, she lost it early this morning. I bought her a new phone last year, she damaged it after two months. Her sister bought a new phone for her this year, she also damaged that one too within three months . This girl case haf tire me gan ni.

lol she go soon lose her period...congratulations in advance

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is too careless. She loses things most especially phones anyhow . I gave her my former phone on July 1st, she lost it early this morning. I bought her a new phone last year, she damaged it after two months. Her sister bought a new phone for her this year, she also damaged that one too within three months . This girl case haf tire me gan ni.

So what do you intend to do ?Manage her or dump her?But my guy most of them are like that. They can't take care of electronics.So abeg manage her.Just give her some tips on how to take care of a phone

Guy buy her torchlight fone na

eph12:
Get her a phone she cannot loose, a second hand Nokia torch light phone. Even if she loses it, people will call her to come and collect it.

I am a lady but I say kuddos to you. This is the best solution for now. Buy her a Nokia touch.

Buy her a turaya

Guy buy her torchlight fone na.. .she is not serious

Liedetect0r:
break up and let everyone has peace

Weldon, mr technical adviser.

JESUSBOIY:
Man up and put her in her place !

Vex for her, Tell her you are not buying her a new phone anytime soon, .since she doesn't value common material things.


Thats how i treat my girl. If i tell her NO, its a NO ...She go cry, beg, touch ,call me stingy and broke, romance and do all the girlie things she want do. I no go still gree....



She has started calling me hitler sef

she no dey lost dem,na lie she dey lie..na anoda bobo dey collect dos phones!!try buy her car

because she dey damage fone she don dey careless...

you don dey find excuse after you don enter the place.....

buy her Nokia 3310 den.

tosyne09:
hey Dude, you are not alone in such circumstances. are you a Christian? practising one I mean. if you are, the only thing you need is the word of God.
if you are not married to her, set boundaries and let all you do be guided by the spirit.
I know you've told us the bad side of her but down within you I know there are ways in which you are enjoying the relationship apart from the fact that she's careless. let God guide you..... if you are not meant to be, she's gonna leave you after all but on the contrary, it may be your own cross. try the no sex and be Godly in your dealings with her.
prayer is the key. pray for her to change and also pray for yourself to have spirit of accommodation in case it is your cross, you will be able to manage her and be happy ever after.

manage her

Brother, it is simple...
The only way around this is constant communication.
It's cursed by a brain disorder, not psycho things but comes most times as a result of the level of intake of breast milk while she was younger.

Please don't see her as being careless, but see it as a thing you can and should walk her through.

N.B: Make Google your boodie while you fight this together.

I wish you success in your quest.

Are you sure you told us the whole truth, Is she really your g/f or sister. All lizard crawls but you don't know the one that has stomach ache, The person In question might have mental challenge and thus can keep smashing phone thinking the phone is a demon cos they tend to see what others don't see. My advice to you is that phone should be giving to them when they really need it just like you give them medication, for those that are on drugs and are really taking it, you can release it to them but for those that are not faithful with their drugs you make sure you collect it and give to them only when the need arises. All the same keep praying for her she only needs your prayer, love and understanding. Thanks.

alexistaiwo:

She always seems sincerely remorseful to me like the circumstances are beyond her control

......circumstances is beyond her control....by that's she is trying to say owo aiye ti wo ni yen...principalities n powers are involved...I shake my head for her

alexistaiwo:

Funny thing is I failed to mention in the post that she once bought a phone with her salary. She also lost it

kai enough of this abeg. does this place look like a police station.

CarlyX8:

even that phone badt guys go still thief am.

It cost 1.5k to get another one. That should not be a problem to her.

She's a natural destroyer.

Hehehehe bros your babe na learner for my wife side. she has lost or spoilt 7 phones in one year, I had to give her Asha 200 and that one no gree loss. anyway she is still a wonderful woman and the mother of my royalties. if she's good u ain't got a choice bro

Maybe she does not have luck with phones, j like my case, I dnt have luck with laptops, i've bought 3 laptops in 2yrs, all ended up crashing, I aint buying no laptop again

pippimp:


What has manning up got to do with her being careless. This is where you have to teach her the way to do things. You can't bully someone into being careful. Too many Nigerians lack problem solving skills.

actually , been strict sometimes can make people around you extra careful !

Gluthatione:
If u are marrying this lady, is better u think twice because she won't be able to manage ur finance well

Mumu

JESUSBOIY:
actually , been strict sometimes can make people around you extra careful !

Being strict without corrective training serves not purpose. I had this subordinate who could not wake up on time for some reason. Always late. I wrote him up and part of his corrective training was to show up to work at 0500hrs every morning for two weeks. Normal time would have been 0900. Guess what? He never came to work late again. If it were my girlfriend, i would not be that hard. I would use the carrot approach. That is if i had long term plans for her anyway.

Malaky shey you no wan repent?

JESUSBOIY:
Man up and put her in her place !

Vex for her, Tell her you are not buying her a new phone anytime soon, .since she doesn't value common material things.


Thats how i treat my girl. If i tell her NO, its a NO ...She go cry, beg, touch ,call me stingy and broke, romance and do all the girlie things she want do. I no go still gree....



She has started calling me hitler sef

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is too careless. She loses things most especially phones anyhow . I gave her my former phone on July 1st, she lost it early this morning. I bought her a new phone last year, she damaged it after two months. Her sister bought a new phone for her this year, she also damaged that one too within three months . This girl case haf tire me gan ni.

I feel your pain. Here is what I did for missmayorall.

She spoilt 3 android tabs in 4 month. Ain't joking. This was in 2014. No wahala, I gave her touch light phone to use for 2-5 months. After that experience, I got her another tab, She is still using the tab I bought for her in December 2014 till today. You won't know the value of what you have till you loss it. She missed whatsapp, bbm, Facebook.


Missmayorall : mine, need to write my assignment, when is my phone e coming?

Me : Borrow your friends phone for now.

You know the insult that follows that from friend