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Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by stephnkem22: 10:04pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
We have been dating for almost 4 Month now, everything has been going fine till last 2 week, he started ignoring my calls and chat, wen he calls he will give excuses that his busy or not chanced, He doesn't care much again about me, He is loving,caring,gentle and God fearing guy, and this is d first relationship 4 both of us, He is after marriage he has taken me to meet his mom and sisters And he is willing to wait till I finish my studies I asked him while he is ignoring me now, he said he scared Dat I might break up with him after spending and waiting for me, dat he has heard many true life story of others relationship Break up, so please I need advice on Hw to convince him or wat to do,so he wudt think of me like that I really love him |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by alobright17(m): 10:05pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Ayam coming to advice. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Nobody: 10:12pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
my dear, u dn't convince a guy 2 luv u, if u guys dated for 4 months nd he cn't trust u then if he wants 2 go, den let him breeze. he shud trust u on his own. BT DAT DOES NT STOP U 4RM EXPLAINING THINGS 2 HIM. IS HE EVEN A KID? 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Icon4(m): 10:13pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Make i siddon here abeg, i no won dey observe anymore. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by alobright17(m): 10:14pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
stephnkem22: Op you need to edit this message and write it correctly,because those prefect people here will only pick out your blunders on this write up and bash the hell out of you without contributing anything to help your current situation. 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Sexxkillz: 10:15pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
4 months is too early to even go meet his family. You both hardly know each other! You don't need to convince him. Let him please himself. . . Good riddance. 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by ernesty20(m): 10:21pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
ignore him too 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Nobody: 10:40pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
I like what he is doing to you.If he shower you too much love,you will start doing yanga. 6 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Tocheagle(m): 10:42pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Take Off Your Top And Stand In front Of Him Nude . You Will Notice HE WILL STOP IGNORING YOU . 4 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by v4victor: 10:58pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
stephnkem22: Nonsense and ingredients! I ain't giving u any advice cus i know u will still leave him in the nearest future. Nobi school u dey? See eh, u berra allow dat young man move on with his life. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Ekehwinz: 11:04pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
i guess he has entered from where he came to the world. That guy is done with you young lady, just find your way |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Nsikan87: 11:07pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
True Talk ![]() |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by ivyy(f): 11:20pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Love Machine: By ignoring her entirely? Very funny ![]() |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Jay542(m): 11:25pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Better focus on your life. After taking you to meet his parent, he's now unsure about the relationship. Is that person a serious person. Just face your book jeje. Naija is hard now. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by vlco(m): 11:27pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Sexxkillz:I feel four months is okay to know someone and take them home if you want them in your life. I for one won't mind taking her home in a month cause it's long overdue, I have to be very sure though. 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Richiy(f): 11:45pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Why do people have to complicate situations at the expense of others? Immaturity everywhere. Op, just talk to him, if he does not change, then he is distracted and in that case, just let him go. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Sexxkillz: 11:45pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
vlco:Bro, that amounts to desperation. Marriage is meant to last a lifetime. No need rushing into it. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by rawpadgin(m): 11:45pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
don't blame the dude he just need to trust himself that no woman can dump him |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by wordbank(m): 11:46pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Make d guy run no look back, any guy wey say him dey wait for girl wey still dey school na mumu, any guy wey dey train girl for school na mumu. Guy, I say run |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Fela40: 11:48pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Sexxkillz: Dude why are you running na ![]() |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by vlco(m): 11:56pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
Sexxkillz:If both individuals are matured, have focus and direction towards same goals, they can decide to kick start it asap. People do change behaviors due to one factor or the other but like they say "learning in marriage is for a life time". |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Sexxkillz: 11:58pm On Aug 01, 2016 |
vlco:Then they're both desperate. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Florblu(f): 12:03am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Has he slept with you?I think he only staged the visitation to his parent.He will even show you his ancestors just to get down with you. Be focus!Reduce the affection you have for him,divert the time and energy you've been using to nurture the relationship to something else. If he truly wants you he will come back begging. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Nobody: 12:08am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Face your studies please.... The guy is not serious. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Richy4(m): 12:53am On Aug 02, 2016 |
What we have to convince you will be for you to face your studies... Yes, he heard stories about girls abandoning the step ladder they used in climbing to the top... No one knows if you can do the same or not...U can wake up one morning and say u were not feeling the vibe any more.... even people that married for 12 years or more does that.... No one can question the matters of the heart... But if u want to win him over, and prove to him that u can not do that, It is really simple..stop collecting any kind of gift from him, No recharge card, Nothing...act independent as if u do not want any thing from him...Even if u are in need, do not show him that u were... Do not act so clinging...if he wants to buy u anything, tell him no....let your parent do that for u and live within your means...trust me he will be singing your praise all day long...And no more sex with him except when u feel like it. with u being indepent, he will not ask u to do what u don't want to...he will respect u and he will see a new u... I just hope i am talking to some one serious... 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by stephnkem22: 8:49am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Richy4: Thanks, this what i need to do. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by stephnkem22: 8:50am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Florblu: Nope and he is till a virgin |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Richy4(m): 10:30am On Aug 02, 2016 |
stephnkem22:Just try it....Although it is not African way of having a relationship, ladies in africa are programmed to depend on their men even as little thing as a body cream... But for your own dignity and respect, i suggest u try it....The meaning of this type of relationship is "I am in it for u. not what i can gain from you" And any time u do not feel like it any more, u call it off..... He will never open his mouth and claim he trained u or anything....And your respect will be there.. Goodluck |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by ehix89(m): 12:29pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
stephnkem22:Virgin Syndrome, scared of commitment, don't push it, when he settles it within he might return |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by sainttwist1(m): 1:23pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
op sorry ooo....."he is still a virgin" abi sorry ehhh...face your studies |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by Regya(m): 10:48am On Aug 17, 2016 |
Regya:My dear sister , if you love him then you really need to convinced him but first are you a true Christian or a flash on the pan? Your way of life can be a contributing factor on convincing him and do not blame for his recent attitude towards you rather help him over come his fears. You need a counseling of a Pastor and both of you need to see a pastor together and one pastor supposed to mentor the two of you. I am a relationship expert and a consultant but not a pastor but I am a child of God. if you need my service then write me at rajoku@yahoo.com or call me on 081 894123 27. But you to see your pastor. God bless you. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice, My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me Now by MadCow1: 10:50am On Aug 17, 2016 |
stephnkem22: Have you fhucked him yet? If no, then do so.. ![]() |
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