gbade11:


I quite I agree with the word endurance but u need to know that some ladies of our generation lack the 'basic manners' they need to be with a man and they r not ready to change all in the name of 'equality'.


we are the guys, we know better.

whteva rocks ur boat sir..evrylady dt wants to marry will definitely b located by her man dazzall...and marriage is a package. u cant evn know it by cohabiting in d name of trying to know ur partner well bc people can pretend jst to achieve a goal

SAINTSAMURAI:
IM not refering to virgins that masturbate. any virgin that masturbate will jump on any dick if the opportunity rises.

OK. I underztand ur postulation.

MzLarem:
its a matter of choice bro..she might not have a reason to celibate then and she should now..

And if she carry her proposal reach your side,you no gree..no lele..make everybody find their square root.

Our ladies should have the power to decide how they want their life to be not how our men or how the society views it.

exactly at ur last sentence

MzLarem:
they are still very much around bro..its all about preference..there is nothing wrong in you wanting a virgin.

thanks... I know u have a younger sister, I can wait for her if u don't mind... Pls link us up

So just Bcuz yhu are not a virgin then everyone too mst not be a virgin?

issorite..

Zceesneh:
african mentality, thats why we will never be smarter than the white men

na you know!

Vikky014:
kisses

double my dear...

DatCuteGuy:
thanks... I know u have a younger sister, I can wait for her if u don't mind... Pls link us up

Actually,i dont.

This just confirmed my doubts, op must be a male.

Vikky014:
whteva rocks ur boat sir..evrylady dt wants to marry will definitely b located by her man dazzall...and marriage is a package. u cant evn know it by cohabiting in d name of trying to know ur partner well bc people can pretend jst to achieve a goal

OK ma'am, pretend to achieve a goal? that's another topic dear.

Chikpat:
Dear Adaure4ever(f).
No thanks for dis thread u have created on virginity. I do know you have a reason for it. Whatever, no thanks!
I sincerely wish to tell u dat ur thoughts as succinctly expressed here truly reflect the level of debasement or moral decadence that our society is presently besought with.
But then ;

You CANNOT change the moral lessons and values handed to us by our forefathers, our religious indoctrinition etc because you have obviously, assumably, willingly allowed ursef sleep arond wt some guys.

In d good old days, d bride price n marriage procedures of virgins were different from non-virgins.

VIRGINITY Z A THING OF PRIDE... GREAT PRIDE . Get it into ur head!!!

Pitiably, u have forever lost what u shud hav treasured forever.
Keep ur defence n excuses.... You r not gonna sell a reasonable person a dummy.

How can a gurl who has no regard for d teachings of her parents, her religion, her society etc have a better attitude dan a gurl who greatly regards same? A gurl wu cannot honour the words of her elders, her faith, society!

What do u call attitude?

Do not allow prostitutes to mentor you and wen u hav d opportunity to bear n raise kids ; do not mentor dem like a prostitute or to become prostitutes!!!

I get ur point, but no one is above mistakes, if a girl is no longer a virgin, She should go and be crying abt it?
Or develop a low self esteem?
Do you know that many girls who turn into hardcore lesbians were hetrosexually virgins?
I am not against Virginity but the overrating of it.

ireneony2:
This just confirmed my doubts, op must be a male.

don't get u.. Are u trying to crack a joke?

MDsambo:
So just Bcuz yhu are not a virgin then everyone too mst not be a virgin?


issorite..

And why are you guys concluding the OP is not a virgin..what makes you think a virgin cant stand up for a 'non-virgin' based on d virginity ish..change that mentality..its a fallacy!

BTW,she didn't say its wrong to be a virgin or no one should be.

fairlyusedpant:
Babe, you are right, that was how iya ronke told baba jimoh that she is a virgin and she is proud of it, baba jimoh was surprised and shocked because she had 3 kids, he kept on wondering whether the kids were plants or animals, but to cut the story short, iya ronke has won 7 awards for her virginity, the latest one she won was '' award for the purest virgin in osogbo'' when baba jimoh decided to enter iya ronke promised land, we did not know when baba jimoh was shouting '' mo gbe, i have die, mo ku, edakun epp me'' people were asking ''kilode na, what happen?'' he said he entered iya ronke promised land and his thing disappeared, buh we thank God that he later saw his thing after he walked out of the promised land safely

D first tym we met on a thread, we disagreed... But here i lyk ur story if its a joke and... nothing else

MzLarem:
Actually,i dont.

see how yr mouth is shaking with ur reply... So obvious U're lying!


Buh no problem

MzLarem:
And why are you guys concluding the OP is not a virgin..what makes you think a virgin cant stand up for a 'non-virgin' based on d virginity ish..change that mentality..its a fallacy!

BTW,she didn't say its wrong to be a virgin or no one should be.

The OP z a virgin like iya ronke. Read fairlyusedpant here

MzLarem:
And why are you guys concluding the OP is not a virgin..what makes you think a virgin cant stand up for a 'non-virgin' based on d virginity ish..change that mentality..its a fallacy!

BTW,she didn't say its wrong to be a virgin or no one should be.

Thank you, broadcasting urself as a virgin publicly sets you up for some chop and clean mouth men. Keeping it secret is the way to go.

Chikpat:


The OP z a virgin like iya ronke. Read fairlyusedpant here

well,i didn't read that and i don't think i'm willing to go back to

Vikky014:
ok virginity is nt the pride of a woman. hving sex wt a guy dt is nt ur husband is the pride of a woman right .well the issue is the first question guys ask a lady bfore they decide on any form of relationship wt u is Are u still a Virgin?..so mayb ur answer will determine whether it is ur pride or nt....so forget d whole story


the bitter truth is sex outside any form of commitment is foolishness on the part of d lady bc sme1 will want to marry u one day. and u cant rewrite ur past no matter what

I luv u Vicky

DatCuteGuy:
see how yr mouth is shaking with ur reply... So obvious U're lying!


Buh no problem

Lol..i don't lie in the night.

Chikpat:


The OP z a virgin like iya ronke. Read fairlyusedpant here

hmmm. I am well disciplined in nature and I do a Girl child youth motivational speaker abt Relationship and Career as part time pet project.
Premarital sex is NO NO.

Adaure4ever:
Thank you, broadcasting urself as a virgin publicly sets you up for some chop and clean mouth men. Keeping it secret is the way to go.

They don't seem to get that..

Chikpat:

I luv u Vicky

I Luv u too dearie

Timflex:
Virginity being the pride of a woman or not is really relative. While I would not want to judge a woman by her sex life, I would be lying if I told you I don't want a virgin for a wife. Then again, I know that being a virgin does not guarantee a good wife. I know a friend who's wife was a virgin when he married her, but believe me when I tell you that woman is the devils incarnate. Put simply, I want a virgin who ticks every box of what it means to be a good woman. That's not too much to ask considering the life of self control I have led. But, if I find a good woman with high morals who is not a virgin, by all means i 'll wife her.

I am wt u on dis!
Its simple n true
MzLarem and her folks cant change it.... endless truths

MzLarem:
They don't seem to get that..

do they expect these opportunistic men to clap for them?
they woo like snakes and pound on a victim like tigerz.

Adaure4ever:
Thank you, broadcasting urself as a virgin publicly sets you up for some chop and clean mouth men. Keeping it secret is the way to go.

exactly. dt is why i tell people dt virginity is never bc of lack of opportunity. it is a decision

Adaure4ever:
talk make we hear,

You too like amebo...

MzLarem:
Lol..i don't lie in the night.

gimme your address lemme coman visit you to confirm...

Chikpat:


I am wt u on dis!
Its simple n true
MzLarem and her folks cant change it.... endless truths

Cant change what exactly? cos the guy made perfect sense and i'm with him on that also..so what's your point?

Let me put my opinion in four sentences..

1. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin(till marriage)..its beautiful and God is pleased with it

2..'non-virgin' ladies are not less of a lady or worthless

3.Your virginity is your personal choice,it shouldn't be broadcasted

4.The pride of a woman is not centred on being a virgin.


All in all..i'm responsible for what i write not what you understand. Good evening.

Vikky014:
whteva rocks ur boat sir..evrylady dt wants to marry will definitely b located by her man dazzall...and marriage is a package. u cant evn know it by cohabiting in d name of trying to know ur partner well bc people can pretend jst to achieve a goal

You are just a great gurl.
I luv ur maturity, and disposition to life as ur views clearly reflect...
You are a daughter of ur mother and am proud of ur home i do not know.

MDsambo:
So just Bcuz yhu are not a virgin then everyone too mst not be a virgin?


issorite..

She z neva gonna sell any reasonable person a dummy!

I really can't comprehend the basis behind this topic. virginity has ALWAYS and WILL always be an unmarried woman's pride, something worth cherishing. you talked about Islam, christianity encourages virginity. Even the legality you talked about is it not related with morality? even in ancient Non-religious societies non virgins were beheaded . .Civilization sha, people will do anything to justify their failings or weakness these days.

I will happily marry a non virgin if I love her, but we shouldn't make it seem cool to throw away our virtues. smh.