Vikky014:
ok virginity is nt the pride of a woman. hving sex wt a guy dt is nt ur husband is the pride of a woman right .well the issue is the first question guys ask a lady bfore they decide on any form of relationship wt u is Are u still a Virgin?..so mayb ur answer will determine whether it is ur pride or nt....so forget d whole story


the bitter truth is sex outside any form of commitment is foolishness on the part of d lady bc sme1 will want to marry u one day. and u cant rewrite ur past no matter what

I consider it an act of folly to ask a woman about her virginity and making conclusions based that,. Its absolutely unreasonable.
Why would I want a virgin over a non virgin for a wife?
What's the advantage there?
An employer will always prefer an experienced applicant over a fresh man.
In my opinion, I would say that the virgin will most likely commit adultery since she's never had multiple sex partners,she would always fancy the thought and even act upon it.

MzLarem:
Lol..how many have you been with?

Five...Two Lost It With Me But The Other 3 Are Guiding It Like Gold Though.The Youngest Is 24..They're Scared Of Guys And They Act Like 12yr Olds.

Vikky014:
GOD BLESS YOU.

God bless you plenty! Plenty!!

kullozone:
Five...Two Lost It With Me But The Other 3 Are Guiding It Like Gold Though.The Youngest Is 24..They're Scared Of Guys And They Act Like 12yr Olds.

Jesu!!! Bad baddo baddest
...they willl noh guide it na..Alakoba.

Vikky014:
Tnx swthrt

Uwc Vickky dearie

gbade11:


that's the real me.... I hate deceitful people. and I wont deceive u..
maybe that's y I'm straight forward.


I've met a lot of virgin celibate ladies in the last few years ....
trust me, they didn't impress me, maybe cos they think that will keep a man.

Dats where the misconception is .. u met virgins dat dint impress u soo.. havnt u met non virgins dat dint impress u either. A man is not meant to b impressed by evry lady.. it only means she aint yours. For heavens sake virgins are normal basic humans with their own inherrent faults and weaknesses. People place too much expectations on them expecting them to be all perfect. They aint saints na.. being a virgin is jst a very simple personal choice wch can be very inconsequential to one person and to another, a thing of preference.
Damn!

MzLarem:
Lol..how many have you been with?

they are the most annoying people to date..... spending without benefits and they r not scared of breaking up cos they think they've got nothing to lose.

MzLarem:
No one is doubting that..infact it saves you from unwanted pregnancy,Stds and in most cases,it makes the husband value her more.

Hahaha. We r nw on d same page it sims.

Adaure4ever:
I get ur point, but what abt Ladies that have lost their own, they should go to a lonely corner and start crying about it?
TeamV is nice but should not be overrated.

now I Gerrit

kobosmalls:

I consider it an act of folly to ask a woman about her virginity and making conclusions based that,. Its absolutely unreasonable.
Why would I want a virgin over a non virgin for a wife?
What's the advantage there?
An employer will always prefer an experienced applicant over a fresh man.
In my opinion, I would say that the virgin will most likely commit adultery since she's never had multiple sex partners,she would always fancy the thought and even act upon it.

Dats ur thinking

itunu8:


Dats where the misconception is .. u met virgins dat dint impress u soo.. havnt u met non virgins dat dint impress u either. A man is not meant to b impressed by evry lady.. it only means she aint yours. For heavens sake virgins are normal basic humans with their own inherrent faults and weaknesses. People place too much expectations on them expecting them to be all perfect. They aint saints na.. being a virgin is jst a very simple personal choice wch can be very inconsequential to one person and to another, a thing of preference.
Damn!

didn't really expect something big from them... all I want is just for them to act like a human and not a saint that fell from heaven.

MzLarem:
Jesu!!! Bad baddo baddest
...they willl noh guide it na..Alakoba.

No Naw, I Let 3 Go Atleast.I Don't Even Know If They'll Ever Have Sex Sef...Because They Now See Men As Monsters That Are Out To Devour Their Pvssy Only.

gbade11:

they are the most annoying people to date..... spending without benefits and they r not scared of breaking up cos they think they've got nothing to lose.

egbon..chill now..hahan..
A lady should have a lot to offer in a raltionship other than sex..so don't judge all types with the type you dated.

MzLarem:
egbon..chill now..hahan..
A lady should have a lot to offer in a raltionship other than sex..so don't judge all types with the type you dated.

I'm not taking it personal dear..... but it's a fact that they can quit at anytime

this is not about 1,2 or 3..... I've met a lot of them and I have friends that av also dated them.

mean no harm dearie

Chikpat:


Hahaha. We r nw on d same page it sims.

We were..you just didn't take your time to see that the only thing i'm against is the slut-shaming of ladies who ain't virgins and the broadcasting of your virginity status.

kullozone:
No Naw, I Let 3 Go Atleast.I Don't Even Know If They'll Ever Have Sex Sef...Because They Now See Men As Monsters That Are Out To Devour Their Pvssy Only.

Lol..i can relate.. thanks for your time.

kobosmalls:

I consider it an act of folly to ask a woman about her virginity and making conclusions based that,. Its absolutely unreasonable.
Why would I want a virgin over a non virgin for a wife?
What's the advantage there?
An employer will always prefer an experienced applicant over a fresh man.
In my opinion, I would say that the virgin will most likely commit adultery since she's never had multiple sex partners,she would always fancy the thought and even act upon it.

I honestly think the most important thing is the intention.. the reason behind it, the motivating factor. Virginity in itself is not important cos everyone will loose it sooner or later. It aint for keeps neither is is anything exclusive. Having sed that, the real question is y r u virgin? Cos honestly there are different reasons and some can be pointless and dumb. Some dont even av a reason .. thats y in all character and values are what really matter.
Sorry ur analogy of the employer and employee dosnt hold in the marriage sense. Your wife is urs alone to keep and she is equal with you. An employee is bound to leave sooner or later.

gbade11:


I'm not taking it personal dear..... but it's a fact that they can quit at anytime

this is not about 1,2 or 3..... I've met a lot of them and I have friends that av also dated them.

mean no harm dearie

Alright then..

kobosmalls:

I consider it an act of folly to ask a woman about her virginity and making conclusions based that,. Its absolutely unreasonable.
Why would I want a virgin over a non virgin for a wife?
What's the advantage there?
An employer will always prefer an experienced applicant over a fresh man.
In my opinion, I would say that the virgin will most likely commit adultery since she's never had multiple sex partners,she would always fancy the thought and even act upon it.

HELLO..NOBODY TOLD U NT TO MARRY A NON VIRGIN. U CAN AS WELL MARRY A COMMERCIAL SEX WORKER. IT IS UR CHOICE. BT LEAVE THOSE DT WANT TO KEEP DEMSLFS FOR A REASON BEST KNOWN TO DEM ALONE....I WONT B SURPRISED U HV DISVIRGINED A GIRL BEFORE

gbade11:


didn't really expect something big from them... all I want is just for them to act like a human and not a saint that fell from heaven.

Hmm.. u sound like u tried to get some and dey declined anyway some people can be shallow tho.. telling u in order to appear all righteous, that to me is a complex issue. Like i said earlier that where intention comes in. But if I were u.. i will look out for the beauty of the heart and character.. and if God sends me a virgin, icing on the cake it is

Chikpat:


I am not surprised u r a pastor's daughter. D pastor who fathers u, z a gud man and will b proud of u. My rgads to him on d gud work.

Ur head shud not swell in pride. I am saying ; carry on!

I had a gud day... d best in d past 2wks. Am feeling like mysef
And ur day?

Swell in pride ke dt will b digging my own grave nah. my day ws good dearie. gudnight.... TNX MY REGARDS TO URS TOO

itunu8:


Hmm.. u sound like u tried to get some and dey declined anyway some people can be shallow tho.. telling u in order to appear all righteous, that to me is a complex issue. Like i said earlier that where intention comes in. But if I were u.. i will look out for the beauty of the heart and character.. and if God sends me a virgin, icing on the cake it is

I don't search for them my dear ,I only meet them by chance.
and marrying a virgin is not on my wish list, if it was I was available kept one of them I helped.
mind u, it might not be an icing on the cake, it might just be.........

oriegwu. .its a thing of choice
no biggie in it..wether v or not
if u are a v and ur character doesn't help,to me u are less a woman ..ladies that are v should not see it as the climax of it all..likewise non v
well everyone has their own perception on this issue but to me...being a v doesn't make u more or less better
than others who are not...as the op said there shouldn't be any need whatsoever broadcasting ur sexual life here..I find it so appalling. .let's be careful


thanks for the info op

very true...it shuldnt b a topic of discussion...it shldnt b a general knowledge

gbade11:


I don't search for them my dear ,I only meet them by chance.
and marrying a virgin is not on my wish list, if it was I was available kept one of them I helped.
mind u, it might not be an icing on the cake, it might just be.........

Lol.. i get ur point jare.. issokay na.. everyman to his own
And i hope God dosnt give u one either cos the good ones deserve someone who wl appreciate and value the effort at least cos e no easy no b lie..

kobosmalls:

I consider it an act of folly to ask a woman about her virginity and making conclusions based that,. Its absolutely unreasonable.
Why would I want a virgin over a non virgin for a wife?
What's the advantage there?
An employer will always prefer an experienced applicant over a fresh man.
In my opinion, I would say that the virgin will most likely commit adultery since she's never had multiple sex partners,she would always fancy the thought and even act upon it.

LoL... dont worry ur daughter wont be a virgin she wud be sexually active b4 she gets married

I want to marry a virgin, but if u re not then dont even try practising dat celibacy nonsense with me?
After jumping from c0ck to c0ck u want use me do celibacy practise.
Let us be having d sex since u re not a virgin if it ends with marriage better if it doesnt ur luck.

kobosmalls:

I consider it an act of folly to ask a woman about her virginity and making conclusions based that,. Its absolutely unreasonable.
Why would I want a virgin over a non virgin for a wife?
What's the advantage there?
An employer will always prefer an experienced applicant over a fresh man.
In my opinion, I would say that the virgin will most likely commit adultery since she's never had multiple sex partners,she would always fancy the thought and even act upon it.

May you marry a prostitute. Say Amen now to claim this blessing.

MzLarem:
We were..you just didn't take your time to see that the only thing i'm against is the slut-shaming of ladies who ain't virgins and the broadcasting of your virginity status.

We never were! Forget abt hw eva way u paint it. Sincerely u dont believe dat virginity z a thing of pride. I do!
U r apparently supporting d right arguments so dat u can comfortably make a case for d wrong sides.

Vikky014:
HELLO..NOBODY TOLD U NT TO MARRY A NON VIRGIN. U CAN AS WELL MARRY A COMMERCIAL SEX WORKER. IT IS UR CHOICE. BT LEAVE THOSE DT WANT TO KEEP DEMSLFS FOR A REASON BEST KNOWN TO DEM ALONE....I WONT B SURPRISED U HV DISVIRGINED A GIRL BEFORE

U nailed it wen u told him; "he cud as well marry a prostitute and dat he shud allow ppl wu want to kip dirs to kip dirs "

Adaure4ever:
ya. But broadcasting it is not cool.

Ada, you are from Abia state right? Please let me know. I need your help on something.

Chikpat:



U nailed it wen u told him; "he cud as well marry a prostitute and dat he shud allow ppl wu want to kip dis to kip dira"

lol. gud am