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| The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Rapmoney(m): 9:04pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
"I'd rather spend foolishly on my wife than spend foolishly on a girlfriend" (Rapmoney, 2016). You can quote me on the above as long as I remain a member of this forum, Nairaland. I know there are many folks out there who would want to argue the above that a girlfriend is still the one who would metamorphos into a wife but remember, a 'girlfriend' is just a woman you are having a romantic affair with...there are no cultural, religious or family strings attached. She might 'love you crazily' today and fancy someone else tomorrow. With the way most young women openly exhibit the character of dependency and lust for materialism, love is no longer enough to invest financially on most of our present crop of young ladies. Very few would value you for your financial commitments/investments! Majority would not value it; they might see it as your responsibility to shoulder their responsibilities all in the name of love. She will leave you when she wants to and get married to whoever she feels like getting married to. You go kill am?  Her palee and malee no know you nah!I always say it that women admire successful men. Invest in yourself and your future; be it your career or your business and see the places such feats can take you to. I bet you, there are young industrious women out there you have not met that would change your perception about life. Except it is a 'symbiotic' relationship, investing financially on a girl when you have not paid her bride price might turn out to be a huge financial loss!!! If you must invest your money, invest it on your wife; the money remains in the family. Your girlfriend could be everybody's friend. It is such foolishness that would make you pay for professional certifications for a woman and the only thing that has added to your certificate after graduation is the lamination! Women hardly lower their standards when it comes to romantic affairs; you'd have to be cautious before you make financial commitments. That her siblings know that your name is Idemudia and you are dating their sister is not recognized under law, tradition or religion. Don't spend your money trying to make the life of another man's wife comfortable. It's better to be called 'stingy' than to be a loser! God know say u no be stingy guy because na wisdom dem dey take lick soup wey dey An English proverb says "Lend what you can afford to lose". 21 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by IamLEGEND1: 9:08pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
the only implication is the guy's stupid!ty. 1 Like |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:08pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Talk from now till tomorrow they still won't listen, some of them go as far as trying to use their money to woo another guy's babe and when she doesn't dance to their tune later, they'll come and cry foul forgetting that they brought it upon themselves. Its not bad for a guy to give his girlfriend stipends and whatnot but taking over all the expenses in her life like you're her father doesn't make sense. Op I sha hope you practise what you preach, its not the one that you'll talk one thing and tomorrow we'll see your story on nl  11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:08pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
@OP fork it, i mean die it. when u have the money, you spend on bitches without looking back. according to davido, your body dey shake, my money dey shake. rain the money on the ladies nigga, nobody says ure going to marry them. |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by SUPERPACK: 9:10pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
the sun on this rubble after rain fall. |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Rapmoney(m): 9:14pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAII:Music, look what you have done!!! 4 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by jamex93(m): 9:15pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Op God bless u I saw a topic of one foolish driver wey steal over 2m and spent it on women I dey craze No b small thunder go fire d gal wey go want try make me do such 4 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Rapmoney:LOL its not about music bro, we work hard, we play hard. i spending money on a girl, does not mean im stvpid, i just want my girl to look good and presentable becaus everybody knows she is my girl. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Rapmoney(m): 9:19pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
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| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:21pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
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| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by stan241(m): 9:22pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
I think it should be more spending "foolishly" that's the problem especially the way things are at the moment in this country But, before approaching any lady especially with serious intentions towards her, at the back of your mind,you'd have to know you'd spend that's a given ,how much you invest in the relationship though depends on you and to a large extent the girl in question |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by hungryboy(m): 9:24pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAII:hmmmmm 1 Like
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| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Rapmoney(m): 9:24pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAII:So she can't make herself presentable without your 'kind gesture'? 5 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:26pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
hungryboy:LOL that moment when people start admiring your girl and they say for example, Sinaj i can see saintsamurai's handwork on your body. |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by UrWorstNitemare: 9:27pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
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| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:30pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Rapmoney:yeah she can, but bro, a man must be a man. even though my girl is the daughter of dangote, its my duty to take care of her and make her look sweet. She might have a lot of cars but that wont stop me from buying a private jet for her. 1 Like |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
UrWorstNitemare:Hi joke!!! Try your monster stunt on someone else. it isnt getting to me |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Rapmoney(m): 9:38pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
skarlett:Babe, leave wetin dem write for motor body make u enter motor o! 1 Like |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:41pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
As a pro feminist I won't spend on a girl because I would be oppressing her by encouraging dependency on a man. Can't have her bowing to the patriarchal society 5 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by MzPecs(f): 9:42pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
[size=15pt] Why the hell will you invest on a girl? Who does that? Invest on a WOMAN and not on a girl. Kapish!!! [/size] 3 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Rapmoney(m): 9:43pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAII:Why not think of buying private jet for your wife? You can take a trip to ask Timaya  1 Like |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:44pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
#modified 4 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by dollyjoy(f): 9:44pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAII:What about taking care of yourself first Your comment is funny and quite ridiculous, coming from a dude who is still dependent. 4 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:45pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:45pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Rapmoney:the lady in question can be my wife tommorow but if things turns out bad, then i move on. there are many fishes in the river. 1 Like |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by dollyjoy(f): 9:48pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
pcguru1:There is absolutely nothing wrong in helping your girl friend out financially once in a while, that is different from investing on a lady. Just say you don't have, that is understandable. 1 Like |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:50pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
dollyjoy:A guy that can afford a private jet for himself, should be able to take care of himself na. Even though i make money on my own, that wont stop me from taking from my parents when they give to me. But when the time comes, i will turn them to royalty. |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Rapmoney(m): 9:50pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
MzPecs:Wonderful. What an August visitor in the month of August!!! I can see the BLOCK LETTERS. |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by Nobody: 9:52pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
dollyjoy: That was meant to be a joke o, but then again guys spending on girls is not a problem it's the other way that's the problem, I don't spend on stingy people or even date one makes no sense , sadly alot of girls fall into this category, I have no problem spending in people as I always have good Intentions |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by UrWorstNitemare: 9:53pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: So you actually av fingaz dat can type ?? Instead you choose ta show ya paranoic state and immaturity Making fun of a discussion involving "Matured minds only" Anyways I won't blame you I'll blame TELEMUNDO 3 Likes |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by dollyjoy(f): 9:54pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAII:Can you be real for once 1 Like |
| Re: The Bitter Implications Of Investing Financially On A Girl by MzPecs(f): 9:54pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Rapmoney:Yeah, you can say that again! Been so long, you know.. |
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