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What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 3:18pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Uhnmm there is this girl at my school that i do have a crush on, she doesn't know anyway ,I pretty kept it to myself until last two weeks. mind you, we were not even talking before then apart from greetings,so a day came when we were in the laboratory, we happened to be taking selfies then, she requested I should come take selfie with her,after that day i don't really understand her anymore ,she began calling me names like sweetie infront of people,i didn't take it seriously anyway despite the fact that I am crushing on her,when we meet at school she began holding my hand when we are walking, when sitting, she did sit real close to me, I mean you gotta be real close with a girl before you can get to that stage right ,anyway i collected her digits, but i don't know where i do stand at the moment ,is she being friendly or it's the other way round ,I need your help please |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by ojnnaco(m): 3:22pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
My advise...: strike while the iron is still hot. if she is been friendly,friendly let her know your intention . African China said and I quote "if you love somebody,walk up to her and tell her you love her,it does no crime.."" 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Pouyan: 3:24pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
What other intention? You said it yourself that a woman doesn't do all these without being attracted or something like that, and you have a crush on her, what else do you want us to say? Good lord! Where's the folded organ you install inside the skulls of men?! |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 3:37pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Pouyan:she does relate with guys but not that much, the stuff might be pretty normal for her,its just that i don't want to make a fool out of myself, it might all seem innocent to her |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Pouyan: 3:39pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Realslimshady:Then make a move, you wouldn't be impaled, I'm certain of it. |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Essence6055: 3:43pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
maybe her friends told her that you have a crush on her.. and she is interested.. either way she is interested... The highest thing that can happen is that it may be a prank... (seriously some girls still do it).. So go for it |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Royle2014(m): 4:02pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
u like her...she seems to start liking u out of the blue... Obviously one of her frnds have told her u have a crush, so she's making ur job easy since u are a scared little girl. Ask her to date u or better still just play along without defining your relationship... its up to u |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 4:06pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Essence6055:I don't think it's a prank, she is too mature for that |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 4:07pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Royle2014: lol am not scared, I just don't want to make a mistake |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by firstking01(m): 4:07pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Nairalanders and spelling of "seat" as "sit"...yawns out of thread. 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 4:13pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
One more close sitting with her will land u in a country as big as Russia aka friend zone. My advice 4 u is just diss her 4 like one week; after which u can make a move on her. 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 4:18pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Your english tho! well well public school! Girls are sweet like that! Dont ever conclude that because she is nice she likes you, funny enough girls are never nice to guys they like openly, personally i think that she is just being sweet as any girl would to a friend! if you want to date her, this is what you will do! before i waste my energy typing! do you want to date her? |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Samted69: 4:38pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Realslimshady: this one don pass green light ooo!! she's obviously interested in you or she's making it seem that way. Don't let your crush on her make you foolish. Think with your head...not with your testicles!! Make your move. Get her to a private location and go in for the kiss after some fluff talk. That's the fastest way to know if she's into you. A kiss never lies. |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 4:52pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Samted69: lol u want make i chop slap |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 4:53pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
2BB4CB3E: yeah I wanna date her |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Samted69: 5:00pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Realslimshady: lol. depends on how you handle the situation brother. Even if she's not into you, she'll let you know without having to leave her finger prints on your face. |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 5:04pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Samted69:thanks man, I will put that in mind suppose the opportunity came ... |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 5:22pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Realslimshady:[b] alright! find out whats her favorite food and get it for her for lunch when she least expects it! don't go and ask her, what she likes that's lame, just notice what she buys when she has cash or at beginning of the semester, that's what you would get! now when you take it to her don't stand there and allow her to praise you! that's dumb, drop it on her table with a smile, after she says thanks smile and walk away! *now you have been noticed by her* next step is to surprise her! Saturday evenings in universities are usually boring So on Saturday, if their are cinemas in the town that you are schooling! call her up! Don't bath, Dont even dress up self i will explain why! call her as thus : hey whats up? how many minutes will it take you to get dressed? she will be confused, push till she gives you an answer! then tell her to get dressed! thing is this, you have to be sure that she is chanced before getting dressed! so after some minutes she calls you that she is ready "take a cab" go to her hostel, when she comes out stare at her and tell her that she is beautiful, open the door for her when she enters and when she drops! when its time to pick a movie allow her to choose ![]() now to create that spark btw both of you! she has never really looked at you as someone she will date so you have to quickly put that in her head! when you are watching the movie! use one bulb of pop corn to stone her nose! she will laugh and definitely stone you back! when she talks listen to her and look at her! when she wants to go pee escort her and wait outside the bathroom door! ( dont worry be a mumu till you win her) after the movie take a cab back, get drinks and stop the cab 5mins from your school and you guys should stroll, get her to talk about herself and her family and listen, tease her and crack some jokes when you get to school walk her to her hostel and wait for her to say thanks for the evening, smile, hug her, allow her to enter her hostel then walk off dont call her! wait for her call! trust me she WILL call you, when she does! the rest is up to you! you have successfully escaped friend zone [/b] 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 5:31pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
2BB4CB3E:this is the only thing you know woman aside from woman nothing inside your head |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 5:32pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
NairalandEFCC1: ![]() |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 5:49pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
2BB4CB3E:shut up this is all you know arent you ashamed of yourself |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 5:50pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
2BB4CB3E: thanks very much dude, I will try my possible best and see how i can apply it |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Realslimshady:you are welcome ![]() |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 6:00pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
NairalandEFCC1:dont mention me again ![]() wont warn you again 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by IamLEGEND1: 6:20pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
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Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by goonsmi: 6:34pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
2BB4CB3E: baddest !!! |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Nobody: 6:36pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
goonsmi: ![]() |
Re: What Should I Do? A Nairalander Needs Help by Realslimshady(m): 8:31pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
1 year later I slacked off and now she is f""*** dating my friend |
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