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See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 7:22pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Friend zone is one position every guy has experienced in one time of his romantic life or other. (Even me). You might be wondering the reasons why ladies friend zoned you or why women sees you as just a friend. Friend zone is definitely a cage any guy would wish not to be place in, especially by the girl of his dreams. But sadly enough we eventually get friend zoned when we approach our dream girl in the wrong way. Don't worry because we will be covering all the strong reasons and more. This is how this post is structured; 1. Signs that you've been Friend zoned. 2. Reasons why you were Friend zoned. 3. Major strategy of getting out of the Friend and appearing as a boyfriend material. There are many signs that you have been Friend zoned but I'll dish out the two major signs. • When your dream girl tells you all her problems. It may seem right but a girl who is attracted to you romantically will hide some of her problems from you so far you guys are not yet dating. • When your dream girl discuss the guy she wants with you. If the girl you are attracted to keeps talking about a guy she wants or like with you, then its 85 percent possible that you've been locked up in the friend zone part of her life. Why was I Friend Zoned? You are handsome, tall and all that but gets friend zoned by your dream lover. This signifies that being in the friend zone doesn't dispute the fact that you are not handsome but only shows that you are not a boyfriend material to your dream girl. The reasons includes: <B> Revealing Too Much</b> Ladies, psychologically get attracted to guys who they cannot really predict what their next line of action will be. These unpredictable guys, according to them is seen to be filled with life and fun to be with. When you reveal too much of yourself to the girl you are attracted to without expressing what you feel right from the start, she tends to get to know you as a friend and nothing other than that. With time, it gets boring and finally you get caged under the friendship cage. It hurts, I Know. You Are A Nice Guy You probably know who the Nice Guys are? Now, are you one of them? You are a Nice guy when you are ALWAYS, - Sacrificing your last for her - You call and text her every moment like you are needy - You would do anything for her just to make her happy (You lack decision) - You respect all her wishes (Ladies don't always want their wishes respected, they like Guys that are daring). How many of the above mentioned points are you guilty of? You would be lying to your self if you say none, but if you are guilty, then congratulation, you have seen how to make amend. Being Nice isn't bad but the controversy is that ladies tend to get attracted to Guys who don't bend to their wishes at all time. These are the bad guys, even if Ladies know that they are likely to get hurt by associating with these bad guys. They still love them and find them to be romantic and fun. For you to keep off that Friend zone sh*t. You better stop being too nice. Ladies hate it. You Act More Like A Friend It's true that relationships should be built on the basis of friendship. It might surprise you that ladies are set of creation with many controversial characteristics. You can keep your relationship with your dream girl on average to maintain your attraction or risk losing your worth when you become too attached to her, thinking she will figure out your feelings from your action. Ladies share everything with their friends and that's not a good sign if you wish to be the man for her. So wake up and get off that zone. Not Her Type When we analyze Ladies (Women) we consider their uniqueness and differences. The need of a young teenager approaching 20 or a career lady of 29 and a widow or divorced woman of 40 all differs. A young teenager who loves to party won't want a bookworm as a match. A career lady who has the ambition of settling down won't want a guy who clubs all night as a match. The same goes for a widow or divorced woman of 40, as a widow will be grieving for her lost one as need someone who will matched her beloved one. A divorced woman won't want a man who is anything like her former husband who probably abused her. Make a check on the lady you are crushing on, if you fall within her type, else you can't escape her friend zone if you don't match. Mama's Boy Men or guys are guilty of this Mama's boy thing. They tend to love their mum or put their mother's wish ahead of theirs. Ladies find men who make decisions themselves attractive and more capable to manage the outcome of their decisions. This doesn't imply that you should not pay held to advice of your mother, but be capable of taking decisions yourself. Extra?? Check www.relationshipinary..com/2016/08/reasons-ladies-friend-zone-you.html Click here 3 Likes
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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by SweetieConstie(f): 7:24pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 7:28pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 7:34pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by SweetieConstie(f): 7:37pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by cruzita(f): 7:50pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
I no dey like long sermon for evening mass |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 8:29pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Royle2014(m): 8:45pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Spot on! U hit d nail on d head bro |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 10:30pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Royle2014: I'm glad, you saw the points frm my angle.. No more Friend zone for you ![]() |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by donMIG(m): 11:20pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Shez gat a guy already n he can boast of his culinary skills while u can't even make eba... Omo a friend zone catch u my guy 1 Like |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Lexxyburg(m): 11:23pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Friend zone is one position every guy has experienced in one time of his romantic life or other. Not every guy bro. I don't have any female friends. It's either we're dating, fvcking or just saying Hi when we see on the street and I waka pass afterwards. |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 8:37am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Lexxyburg: I See ![]() |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Deejay777(m): 10:11am On Aug 20, 2016 |
True talk op,it seems u re a veteran @friendzone community.Dz thread is FP worthy. Well let me use dz oportunity 2 celebrate dz man
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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Nobody: 10:52am On Aug 20, 2016 |
SweetieConstie:True talk right?...so dat's wat u guys do to us abi? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 2:52pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 2:55pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
STEVE1996:what women do to guys are many. My brother ![]() ![]() |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Deejay1000(m): 3:03pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
bleep this shit I've been friendzoned twice now .... the thing is am a nice guy who wanna find love and am also caring ... the first time I confessed to feeling to her she neither told me yes or no ... she didn't say any... @ op am tired mehn how can I free my self from this friend zone stuff ... edakun nairalanders epp me @iLegend and the other badoski in the house epp a brother here biko |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by SweetieConstie(f): 3:04pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 6:52pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Deejay1000: On a serious note? Then stop being the nice guy.. Try to be unpredictable and cocky with your talks but keep it on a moderate note tho |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by DaviiiD(m): 6:53pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by jashar(f): 7:24pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 8:28pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
jashar:Hope I didn't disappoint you ma'm? ![]() |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Deejay1000(m): 8:56pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
NuelChesby: thanks man |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 9:17pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Deejay1000:Read this www.attractioninstitute.com/recovering-from-being-a-nice-guy/ |
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Deejay1000(m): 9:54am On Aug 21, 2016 |
NuelChesby:big ups man |
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