I fell deeply in love with this married man in 2001. He has 8 kids but He has money which is what attracted me to him in the first place. We go out to eat in very expensive places, we travel alot together. I think he tells his wife that he is on business trips but that is not my concern. The truth is im not actually the side chick. It is the woman that is the side chick even though she is married to by boyfriend because I met him before he met her for some reason he chose to marry her but I stuck with him for his money. I like that there is no attachment. Im not lacking anything so what is the need for marriage? In fact if I want a child I can still have it with him, he will care for the child. The only thing the woman has that I dont have is the wedding ring but I dont care I can have him buy all the rings I want. Girls I hope you are taking note. Just use the mans cucumber and money that is the key to happiness.

UPDATE: for those of you bashing me I dont care. So what if I am just a hole to him? he is just a cucumber and money to me. in fact he put my name in is will. what does that tell you? I am an important part of his life. so good bye haters

Are you proud? oya now put yourself in the woman position and see how you will react on it

That is a complete display or low self esteem and lack of self worth.

kennygee:
That is a complete display or low self esteem and lack of self worth.

I am happy and feel content in life tho even tho i feel bad for the married woman but love is love. put urself in my shoes

This one is lost. SMH

Some cheap 2bit wh0res will use any nonsense under the sun to make themselves believe that they are anything but cheap wh0res... Bwaaaah!

Wake up sista, YOU are nothing to this man, you are just a cuum dump/hole to be used as this man desires. His wife gets everything., the whole package, while you get the leftovers. She get to sleep by him most night (while he leaves after mounting you); she walks down the street with him hand in hand ( while you are only met in hotel and behind closed doors); they build something REAL together and the day it's over she gets a settlement for her hardwork (while you will get shiit the day it's over)

Never ever in your wildest dream believe that you are better than his wife... If you really was, YOU would be his wife, duh!

Sister i believe
continue with ur lifestyle joor
u are d wisest person on earth
ewure
btw hope u know u would be someone's mother 1 day....dat is if man go come ur way
But relax nd see d work of Karma

fart:


I am happy and feel content in life tho even tho i feel bad for the married woman but love is love. put urself in my shoes

Are you a Christian?

Poeple just bashing sister fart anyhow

Op I don't think been side chick is something to be proud of or something that will last forever

You are not the first side chick and you won't be the last but many end up been miserable on a long run

I know the money and every thing may attract and make you happy now but soon you will want more(it is just human nature)

You might even be thrown out
Since you are not legally wedded wife

Biko change your mindset
This your coment will make people here believe you are not ambitious or you have low self worth

Deluded op. You and I know you wish to be more than a side chick. You're living in self denial 'cause the reality of things is you're sad.

fart:


I am happy and feel content in life tho even tho i feel bad for the married woman but love is love. put urself in my shoes

Am sure you made that up to seek attention cuz women are naturally jealous beings.
In real cases you won't be contented just being the side chick. GET A LIFE!!

Enjoy jare!
He can afford it.

'Not actually the sidekick' but 'chose to marry her' 'for some reason'?

'Deeply in love' but there's 'no attachment'?

And some deluded girls will agree with her.


Anyways na una business.

U are doing ur fellow woman.

What has the guy man got to loose? Nothing.

Just like my mother will say, the act of making money is spending it.






U will come here to tell another story about pity.

ibkayee:
'Not actually the sidekick' but 'chose to marry her' 'for some reason'?

'Deeply in love' but there's 'no attachment'?

That's confusing...

Is she doing it for d sex den?

Very excellent piece yhu got there "OP"

Ah gotta ask tho, cos from ya write up...tiz like yhu may never get married ...So let's say it happens that this man wakes up one morning and just decides enough z enough..can't deal no more...wah will yhur reaction be??

kennygee:


Are you a Christian?

...my friend bash d idiot if u want to please,leave Christianity out of dis issue pls,must she b a religious person bf she knows dat she is doing a bad thing.back to d mumu op,d karma dat will visit u is still wit d devil studying ao to finish u.ewu gambia,oloshi oloriburku,shege banza kawai.Mtchewwwwwww

Silkmoth33:


That's confusing...

Is she doing it for d sex den?

She said she loves him so I doubt she's one of those side chicks that are solely there for business (sex and cash) and then keep it pushing

fart:
I fell deeply in love with this married man in 2001. He has 8 kids but He has money which is what attracted me to him in the first place. We go out to eat in very expensive places, we travel alot together. I think he tells his wife that he is on business trips but that is not my concern. The truth is im not actually the side chick. It is the woman that is the side chick even though she is married to by boyfriend because I met him before he met her for some reason he chose to marry her but I stuck with him for his money. I like that there is no attachment. Im not lacking anything so what is the need for marriage? In fact if I want a child I can still have it with him, he will care for the child. The only thing the woman has that I dont have is the wedding ring but I dont care I can have him buy all the rings I want. Girls I hope you are taking note. Just use the mans cucumber and money that is the key to happiness.

UPDATE: for those of you bashing me I dont care. So what if I am just a hole to him? he is just a cucumber and money to me. in fact he put my name in is will. what does that tell you? I am an important part of his life. so good bye haters

From the name on your moniker it's obvious you have lost your self worth

ibkayee:

She said she loves him so I doubt she's one of those side chicks that are solely there for business (sex and cash) and then keep it pushing

Hm!!

Love doesn't mean anything

Silkmoth33:


Hm!!

Love doesn't mean anything

Ehn but there's an emotional attachment, unlike the sidechicks that aren't invested emotionally and are just there for the monetary benefits. The side chick in love has more to lose and sounds more deluded than the one just there for the cheque

ibkayee:

Ehn but there's an emotional attachment, unlike the sidechicks that aren't invested emotionally and are just there for the monetary benefits. The side chick in love has more to lose and sounds more deluded than the one just there for the cheque

True! The street girl that potrays herself as the sidechick-init for the cash does sound smarter.

16 years of being a side chick, assuming you were 16 years old when you fell in love, you would be 32 now. Is this really the kind of life you signed up for or you just had to make do with this? If after going through this thread, you don't ask him or yourself for more love or time or kids or romance, etc then I believe you must have given up on life. By the way, hope you know a man's will is contestable in court?

Just look at the way you are talking. You met him before his wife but he decided to marry his present wife and you remain his side chic. No leave no transfer. And you want your parents to be proud of you right? Hey! Let me tell you something, you are very far away from his will. Stop deceiving yourself. Just because he's spending on you, you are so much comfortable with it. I guess u re educated, so behave as one.

I would certainly have a life rethink if the woman that I love/date told me that she was getting married to some other dude, but that we can still fukc on the down low.... What an INSULT!

It straight up means: you are good to fukc but not to marry. here is some change to STFU and keep your broke aass happy

Holy Ghost fire accompanied with thunder and brimstone is all I request Oh Lord to destroy any demon in form of a lady that will pose this kinda attitude towards my future husband. I cover him with the blood of Jesus! Amen.

Im wondering how old this woman is. Since 2001? Ah beg you have wasted your youth on a man who doesn't want you and never will. This man has turned your pussyy into a substitute good. It has no value compared to the authentic one. You would think normal human beings age with wisdom, Ode! You are expired goods. A Cheap commodity. Second hand item. I spit on your shameful life. Nonsense.

force him to marry u as second wife so it will be a gud tin

fart:
I fell deeply in love with this married man in 2001. He has 8 kids but He has money which is what attracted me to him in the first place. We go out to eat in very expensive places, we travel alot together. I think he tells his wife that he is on business trips but that is not my concern. The truth is im not actually the side chick. It is the woman that is the side chick even though she is married to by boyfriend because I met him before he met her for some reason he chose to marry her but I stuck with him for his money. I like that there is no attachment. Im not lacking anything so what is the need for marriage? In fact if I want a child I can still have it with him, he will care for the child. The only thing the woman has that I dont have is the wedding ring but I dont care I can have him buy all the rings I want. Girls I hope you are taking note. Just use the mans cucumber and money that is the key to happiness.

UPDATE: for those of you bashing me I dont care. So what if I am just a hole to him? he is just a cucumber and money to me. in fact he put my name in is will. what does that tell you? I am an important part of his life. so good bye haters

Your username is soo disgusting and besides that, you don't sound like a lady. Probably a guy behind this handle.

kennygee:
That is a complete display or low self esteem and lack of self worth.

Exactly what i wanted say.

She said she is in love. that is it nao.