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I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:07pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Hello guys.... I Wil make this as short as possible. Pls read and advice. Thanks you. Don't mind my errors because I'm not reviewing it. I'm so much attached to any girl I fell in love with or I'm into a relationship with... This started with my first luv Janet (not real name) in the high institution who was way older than me. I so much loved her that I nearly could not hold myself the discovered she is into something else with another guy. I later was ment to understand that she did that because, age was alarming on her side as a girl and she had to leave me for another guy. NO PROBLEM. ALL ENDED. I later met a very special friend Mercy(not real name too), a sister to Janet's best friend. I made her understand what I was going through and I pleaded with her to allow me have conversions often with her for the mean time until my trauma is over. Mercy agreed and we became close friends. Though Janet wasn't really happy when she heard I was visiting Mercy. As time goes on, my friendship with Mercy grew and landed into a relationship. I fell for Mercy so deeply than I can ever imagine. I thought It happened because my heart was chattered by Janet, unknown to me, Mercy hadequally fallen for me too more than her ex. One night she called me out and told me something shocking. She said to me, "Do you know that you have not asked me out"? Wow! I was like Uhhhh..Yeah, I can remember asking u to be my friend only and not girlfriend. *laughs* We ended the night well. Fast forward. Now, I'm so much attached to Mercy that I don't even think of any girl or reason any other girl. I walk with pride that I have Mercy and thus, don't need any lady's companionship. I'm becoming worried of how attached I am to her. What if the relationship ends today, how will I cope? My mind tells me to get used to other girls around, but I'm not interested in such and don't value such behaviour. The funny thing is this.. Mercy is a beautiful girl (good christian), good shape (medium beast and big bum), very intelligent especially mathematical aspect of studies, very very tough to get and guys - I mean real niggas with cool cash have tried to get her but to no avail. Top men and lectures and big guys (sugar daddy) types have tried and failed too. But I here she is as my girlfriend and even puts ours pics on her social networks as profile pics. I spent not even a kobo to get her. Pls you guys should tell me what to do ooo.. My attachment to Mercy is becoming worrisome. This kind of things can be dangerous if things goes otherwise.. [qoute]Please here is the summary[/quote] I have a girlfriend that I love and so much attached too. My fear now is that she is setting some rules in our relationship and I'm worried if my so much attachment would Yield negativity in my life. How do I lean back a bit or refrain a bit. I love the relationship to the core and she loves me badly. |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by rosalieene(f): 11:11pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
kai..... Its too long |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:12pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
rosalieene:Pls dear, Just read paragraph 2 and 3 |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by AccidentalGenius: 11:12pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Fvckboys everywhere. Acting all whimpy and upset cause a girl left him. |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by Fmartin(m): 11:13pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
rosalieene:i was hoping you could summaries it for me |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by AccidentalGenius: 11:14pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
You want some real advice? Grow some balls where that vagina of yours is. |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by tobisco29(m): 11:25pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Follow your heart
Be wise
Think for urself |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:31pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
AccidentalGenius:Read my post again. Good girls/women should be given Respect!. To my topic, I never said my current love left me.. |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:34pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
tobisco29:Thank you sir. Actually, my heart is in inception right now. A dream inside a dream in another dream |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:36pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
AccidentalGenius:Pls are you Edward or Derrick? I don't seem to understand you at all. You Moniker though |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by lhawarl1(m): 11:39pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
inveco: are you advertising her? |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by AccidentalGenius: 11:40pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
inveco:bruh... I aint derrick or edward. Grow those balls bro. Eventually she gon leave you. No girl wants a wimpy wimp |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by Fidelismaria: 11:44pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Kip on deceiving urself 'Guys wit kul cash ask her out nd she says no' So na ur gurl b mirabel d president daughter |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:46pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
lhawarl1:Not at all.. I'm just proud of what I gat. Showcasing some preferences only |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:47pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Fidelismaria:Pls Sir, I don't seem to understand your advice. Can step down to a lower level pls |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:49pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
AccidentalGenius:Tnkx Mr. Genius. In other words u mean, I should leave her now or I should start planning to leave her or I should break up or I should just forget about her? |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by AccidentalGenius: 11:51pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
inveco:every car has a spare tire. If you don't understand what i mean you're too young to be dating. |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by Abso1uteZero(m): 11:52pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
What Tha Fvck Did I Just Read..Sorry To Say This Man But You Are A Wimp. |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:54pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
AccidentalGenius:Wow.... Mr. Genius. I understand u now. I arnt young to be dating |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by Fidelismaria: 11:55pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
inveco: What I mean is u put alot of praise on her Here u re tellin us she z perfect Dere is notin lyk perfection Jst try to get her off ur mind a little Mingle wit other gurls Over reliance on sumtin or sum1 is not gud |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 11:58pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Fidelismaria:Thank you very much.. I grab your serious points here |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 12:00am On Aug 21, 2016 |
Abso1uteZero:How does this make me a Wimp? That I don't fancy associating with many girls or what? I love to stick to one and that's my nature and that's how I was natured. I cannot even stand to imagine having more than one. |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by Abso1uteZero(m): 12:03am On Aug 21, 2016 |
inveco:Nah Not That..I No Get Strenght To Explain |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by Royle2014(m): 12:09am On Aug 21, 2016 |
Ill tell you the truth. U dont find hapiness in yourself and in your own company. U always seek validation from d eyes of people (opposite sex to be precise) and that makes u 'over value' those that give u such constant validation (at first it was Janet nd now it is Mercy). U are going to continue being overly attached to every girl that makes herself emotionally available to u because there is a deep hole in your heart (figure of speech) and u need emotional validation to fill dat hole. This ur relationship would end and it is going to be your fault as u would end up being too emotional with this your gf then u would turn overprotective and she would feel caged nd leave u. My advise? Seek fulfillment in yourself... seek validation in your own eyes... Dont be the 'girl' in the relationship by being overly emotional, that is not ur role. U are a man, nd nature expects u to reveal less emotion... STOP BEING A SISSY nd MAN UP. Dont stop loving Mercy, but dont show her all dat 'scared little girl' emotions that is building up in ur mind... 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 12:25am On Aug 21, 2016 |
Royle2014: Chaii..OMG How did u just study me from my write up? How did u read my mind? Are u a psychologist sir? You've nailed everything about me 100%. I always seek validation and when it comes from my opponent, then I'm more than satisfied.. This have been mu problem right from childhood. I maybe physically strong and combative but emotionally unease. This is one of the major reason I can't have more than one. I'm easy to get emotionally. It's just way part of me. I'm trying to get past it. Even in my dreams, when ever i have a bad nightmare like fire incident, instead of me running for my life, I would rather go back and try to help victims at that instant.. This and that. My heart beats increased as i'm reading your post. Thank you once again and God bless |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by 2dice01: 12:26am On Aug 21, 2016 |
good you know your problem...Problem solved.now go out there mingle ...those your coursemate and co that you chat with ...give a call and plan date..try something new you dont even know what you are missing...always have plan A B C to Z when dating-always be prepared like thief wey wan go steal money for central bank |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by ojay2053(m): 1:05am On Aug 21, 2016 |
You are a lucky man ah swear. |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 7:27am On Aug 21, 2016 |
ojay2053:Thank sir.. But I don't really get the point you are making here sir |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 7:28am On Aug 21, 2016 |
2dice01:Thank you too. I will try as much as I can to start such |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by inveco(m): 7:29am On Aug 21, 2016 |
Abso1uteZero:OK.. I will be waiting patiently for the day ur horse power is ready to elucidate. Thanks |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by 2dice01: 9:18am On Aug 21, 2016 |
inveco:good...dont dull bro |
Re: I'm So Much Attached To My Girl by BARRIKADE: 9:50am On Aug 21, 2016 |
SmH |
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