Hello guys.... I Wil make this as short as possible. Pls read and advice. Thanks you. Don't mind my errors because I'm not reviewing it.

I'm so much attached to any girl I fell in love with or I'm into a relationship with...
This started with my first luv Janet (not real name) in the high institution who was way older than me. I so much loved her that I nearly could not hold myself the discovered she is into something else with another guy. I later was ment to understand that she did that because, age was alarming on her side as a girl and she had to leave me for another guy. NO PROBLEM. ALL ENDED.

I later met a very special friend Mercy(not real name too), a sister to Janet's best friend. I made her understand what I was going through and I pleaded with her to allow me have conversions often with her for the mean time until my trauma is over. Mercy agreed and we became close friends. Though Janet wasn't really happy when she heard I was visiting Mercy.

As time goes on, my friendship with Mercy grew and landed into a relationship. I fell for Mercy so deeply than I can ever imagine. I thought It happened because my heart was chattered by Janet, unknown to me, Mercy hadequally fallen for me too more than her ex. One night she called me out and told me something shocking. She said to me, "Do you know that you have not asked me out"? Wow! I was like Uhhhh..Yeah, I can remember asking u to be my friend only and not girlfriend. *laughs* We ended the night well. Fast forward.

Now, I'm so much attached to Mercy that I don't even think of any girl or reason any other girl. I walk with pride that I have Mercy and thus, don't need any lady's companionship. I'm becoming worried of how attached I am to her. What if the relationship ends today, how will I cope?

My mind tells me to get used to other girls around, but I'm not interested in such and don't value such behaviour.

The funny thing is this..

Mercy is a beautiful girl (good christian), good shape (medium beast and big bum), very intelligent especially mathematical aspect of studies, very very tough to get and guys - I mean real niggas with cool cash have tried to get her but to no avail. Top men and lectures and big guys (sugar daddy) types have tried and failed too.

But I here she is as my girlfriend and even puts ours pics on her social networks as profile pics. I spent not even a kobo to get her.

Pls you guys should tell me what to do ooo.. My attachment to Mercy is becoming worrisome. This kind of things can be dangerous if things goes otherwise..

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I have a girlfriend that I love and so much attached too. My fear now is that she is setting some rules in our relationship and I'm worried if my so much attachment would Yield negativity in my life. How do I lean back a bit or refrain a bit. I love the relationship to the core and she loves me badly.

kai..... Its too long

rosalieene:
kai..... Its too long

Pls dear, Just read paragraph 2 and 3

Fvckboys everywhere. Acting all whimpy and upset cause a girl left him.

rosalieene:
kai..... Its too long

i was hoping you could summaries it for me

You want some real advice? Grow some balls where that vagina of yours is.

Follow your heart Be wise Think for urself

AccidentalGenius:
Fvckboys everywhere. Acting all whimpy and upset cause a girl left him.

Read my post again. Good girls/women should be given Respect!.

To my topic, I never said my current love left me..

tobisco29:
Follow your heart
Be wise
Think for urself

Thank you sir. Actually, my heart is in inception right now. A dream inside a dream in another dream

AccidentalGenius:
You want some real advice? Grow some balls where that vagina of yours is.

Pls are you Edward or Derrick? I don't seem to understand you at all. You Moniker though

inveco:
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Mercy is a beautiful girl (good christian), good shape (medium beast and big bum), very intelligent especially mathematical aspect of studies, very very tough to get and guys - I mean real niggas with cool cash have tried to get her but to no avail. Top men and lectures and big guys (sugar daddy) types have tried and failed too.....

are you advertising her?

inveco:

Pls are you Edward or Derrick? I don't seem to understand you at all. You Moniker though

bruh... I aint derrick or edward. Grow those balls bro. Eventually she gon leave you. No girl wants a wimpy wimp

Kip on deceiving urself

'Guys wit kul cash ask her out nd she says no'

So na ur gurl b mirabel d president daughter

lhawarl1:


are you advertising her?

Not at all.. I'm just proud of what I gat. Showcasing some preferences only

Fidelismaria:
Kip on deceiving urself


'Guys wit kul cash ask her out nd she says no'


So na ur gurl b mirabel d president daughter

Pls Sir, I don't seem to understand your advice. Can step down to a lower level pls

AccidentalGenius:
bruh... I aint derrick or edward. Grow those balls bro. Eventually she gon leave you. No girl wants a wimpy wimp

Tnkx Mr. Genius. In other words u mean, I should leave her now or I should start planning to leave her or I should break up or I should just forget about her?

inveco:

Tnkx Mr. Genius. In other words u mean, I should leave her now or I should start planning to leave her or I should break up or I should just forget about her?

every car has a spare tire. If you don't understand what i mean you're too young to be dating.

What Tha Fvck Did I Just Read..Sorry To Say This Man But You Are A Wimp.

AccidentalGenius:
every car has a spare tire. If you don't understand what i mean you're too young to be dating.

Wow.... Mr. Genius. I understand u now. I arnt young to be dating

inveco:

Pls Sir, I don't seem to understand your advice. Can step down to a lower level pls

What I mean is u put alot of praise on her


Here u re tellin us she z perfect


Dere is notin lyk perfection


Jst try to get her off ur mind a little


Mingle wit other gurls



Over reliance on sumtin or sum1 is not gud

Fidelismaria:





What I mean is u put alot of praise on her


Here u re tellin us she z perfect


Dere is notin lyk perfection


Jst try to get her off ur mind a little


Mingle wit other gurls



Over reliance on sumtin or sum1 is not gud

Thank you very much.. I grab your serious points here

Abso1uteZero:
What Tha Fvck Did I Just Read..Sorry To Say This Man But You Are A Wimp.

How does this make me a Wimp? That I don't fancy associating with many girls or what? I love to stick to one and that's my nature and that's how I was natured. I cannot even stand to imagine having more than one.

inveco:

How does this make me a Wimp? That I don't fancy associating with many girls or what? I love to stick to one and that's my nature and that's how I was natured. I cannot even stand to imagine having more than one.

Nah Not That..I No Get Strenght To Explain

Ill tell you the truth. U dont find hapiness in yourself and in your own company. U always seek validation from d eyes of people (opposite sex to be precise) and that makes u 'over value' those that give u such constant validation (at first it was Janet nd now it is Mercy). U are going to continue being overly attached to every girl that makes herself emotionally available to u because there is a deep hole in your heart (figure of speech) and u need emotional validation to fill dat hole. This ur relationship would end and it is going to be your fault as u would end up being too emotional with this your gf then u would turn overprotective and she would feel caged nd leave u. My advise? Seek fulfillment in yourself... seek validation in your own eyes... Dont be the 'girl' in the relationship by being overly emotional, that is not ur role. U are a man, nd nature expects u to reveal less emotion... STOP BEING A SISSY nd MAN UP. Dont stop loving Mercy, but dont show her all dat 'scared little girl' emotions that is building up in ur mind...

Royle2014:
Ill tell you the truth. U dont find hapiness in yourself and in your own company. U always seek validation from d eyes of people (opposite sex to be precise) and that makes u 'over value' those that give u such constant validation (at first it was Janet nd now it is Mercy). U are going to continue being overly attached to every girl that makes herself emotionally available to u because there is a deep hole in your heart (figure of speech) and u need emotional validation to fill dat hole. This ur relationship would end and it is going to be your fault as u would end up being too emotional with this your gf then u would turn overprotective and she would feel caged nd leave u. My advise? Seek fulfillment in yourself... seek validation in your own eyes... Dont be the 'girl' in the relationship by being overly emotional, that is not ur role. U are a man, nd nature expects u to reveal less emotion... STOP BEING A SISSY nd MAN UP. Dont stop loving Mercy, but dont show her all dat 'scared little girl' emotions that is building up in ur mind...

Chaii..OMG
How did u just study me from my write up? How did u read my mind? Are u a psychologist sir?

You've nailed everything about me 100%. I always seek validation and when it comes from my opponent, then I'm more than satisfied.. This have been mu problem right from childhood. I maybe physically strong and combative but emotionally unease.

This is one of the major reason I can't have more than one. I'm easy to get emotionally. It's just way part of me. I'm trying to get past it.

Even in my dreams, when ever i have a bad nightmare like fire incident, instead of me running for my life, I would rather go back and try to help victims at that instant.. This and that.

My heart beats increased as i'm reading your post.

Thank you once again and God bless

good you know your problem...Problem solved.now go out there mingle ...those your coursemate and co that you chat with ...give a call and plan date..try something new you dont even know what you are missing...always have plan A B C to Z when dating-always be prepared like thief wey wan go steal money for central bank

You are a lucky man ah swear.

ojay2053:
You are a lucky man ah swear.

Thank sir.. But I don't really get the point you are making here sir

2dice01:
good you know your problem...Problem solved.now go out there mingle ...those your coursemate and co that you chat with ...give a call and plan date..try something new you dont even know what you are missing...always have plan A B C to Z when dating-always be prepared like thief wey wan go steal money for central bank

Thank you too. I will try as much as I can to start such

Abso1uteZero:
Nah Not That..I No Get Strenght To Explain

OK.. I will be waiting patiently for the day ur horse power is ready to elucidate. Thanks

inveco:

Thank you too. I will try as much as I can to start such

good...dont dull bro