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Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Nobody: 10:33am On Aug 24, 2016
its a known fact that the best players are average looking guys or even ugly guys! they are always so smooth talking,have killer dress sense and are often funny. have u ever seen a very fine guy being the life of the party? making everyone laugh and happy? very rare. most fine guys will just sit in the background smiling like a mumu and talking slow. its the average guys that always have game. fine guys most often dont have girlfriends because of their lack of game. now why is this always so? ladies u know i am 100% correct...so why?

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by 007Nasky(m): 10:51am On Aug 24, 2016
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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by SuperSuave(m): 11:09am On Aug 24, 2016
well you can't have it all

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Muvacci(m): 11:12am On Aug 24, 2016
Where's LuvU2, is this true?
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by LuvU2: 11:16am On Aug 24, 2016
Muvacci:
Where's LuvU2, is this true?
No i dont agree. If he had said shy, dat would be correct
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Muvacci(m): 11:19am On Aug 24, 2016
LuvU2:
No i dont agree. If he had said shy, dat would be correct

Touche! grin


But I think it correlates though... Being shy can really make life suck. undecided
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Nobody: 11:25am On Aug 24, 2016
iwanttoknnn:
its a known fact that the best players are average looking guys or even ugly guys! they are always so smooth talking,have killer dress sense and are often funny. have u ever seen a very fine guy being the life of the party? making everyone laugh and happy? very rare. most fine guys will just sit in the background smiling like a mumu and talking slow. its the average guys that always have game. fine guys most often dont have girlfriends because of their lack of game. now why is this always so? ladies u know i am 100% correct...so why?
really? grin I doubt that tho grin
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by agohmamuda(m): 11:31am On Aug 24, 2016
The reason(s) varies from persons to persons. In the cases i know of:
1: They are shy
2: They are too proud to reach out
3: They feel since they are fine/cute, their fineness shld speak for them.
4: Scared of being rejected; some girls just hate the fact that u look good. Lol
Etc

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by LuvU2: 11:47am On Aug 24, 2016
Muvacci:


Touche! grin


But I think it correlates though... Being shy can really make life suck. undecided
O u think shy guys re usually cute? smiley
Yea shyness sucks
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Muvacci(m): 11:55am On Aug 24, 2016
LuvU2:
O u think shy guys re usually cute? smiley
Yea shyness sucks

Nah babe.. Its in reverse; cute guys are usually shy. Trust me, I know.

People tend to objectify you a lot. They'll envy the attention you get and often try to downgrade you to make them feel good about themselves and superior to you. It takes a shxt load of mental fitness to withstand the inferiority complexity that's bound to take over you in no time.

I think this is a fragment of the answer the OP seeks.

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Nobody: 12:08pm On Aug 24, 2016
probably because they're usually dumb? undecided

Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by LuvU2: 12:15pm On Aug 24, 2016
Muvacci:


Nah babe.. Its in reverse; cute guys are usually shy. Trust me, I know.

People tend to objectify you a lot. They'll envy the attention you get and often try to downgrade you to make them feel good about themselves and superior to you. It takes a shxt load of mental fitness to withstand the inferiority complexity that's bound to take over you in no time.

I think this is a fragment of the answer the OP seeks.

O okay.
Before now, i knew goodlooking people dnt suffer inferiority complex no matter how downgraded they are (which is kinda rare). They get lots of compliments. For girls, these come overtly nd covertly. Nd guys, they get body language compliments.

I know really cute guys dnt shy away or feel less. Except u mean guys wif a kind of look that is not really fly but re overhyped by media.

But i like ur view anyway smiley

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Aug 24, 2016
ugly or not....... money is the equaliser cheesy.When u start shooting ur money from ur spray gun like E money all the babes will be rolling all over u and they wont care wether u handsome or u ugly as a goat.babes will even begging u to give them belle grin.
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by naija1stpikin: 12:22pm On Aug 24, 2016
becuz all they hv is their gud look. It takes more than gud looks to get a girl's brain reprogrammed.

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Laveda(f): 12:23pm On Aug 24, 2016
Struggle?

Never heard that grin here in O'town its an advantage.

grin

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Muvacci(m): 12:32pm On Aug 24, 2016
LuvU2:


O okay.
Before now, i knew goodlooking people dnt suffer inferiority complex no matter how downgraded they are (which is kinda rare). They get lots of compliments. For girls, these come overtly nd covertly. Nd guys, they get body language compliments.

I know really cute guys dnt shy away or feel less. Except u mean guys wif a kind of look that is not really fly but re overhyped by media.

But i like ur view anyway smiley

Lol, I'm not generalising hun, but I'm referring to a sizeable majority. Your view is cool as well but its obvious you're speaking from a chics POV which is still acceptable.

Looking good is turnt! As a teenage guy, you'll get all the love letters and chics drooling around you but once that starts to fade and adulthood sets in, every lady you approach finds it hard to fathom why you're still single. To them, its "Un-real" that someone so handsome isn't hooked. They'll either think you're lying or you've got something up your sleeve. Those good-looking guys you know might not wanna admit it, but they may be going through the same thing. No doubt, you'll score ladies but often times they may not be your choice or spec. They'll be random broads who fall into your arms without even asking. undecided

This is another fragment of the answer the OP seeks gringrin

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by LuvU2: 12:48pm On Aug 24, 2016
Muvacci:


Lol, I'm not generalising hun, but I'm referring to a sizeable majority. Your view is cool as well but its obvious you're speaking from a chics POV which is still acceptable.

Looking good is turnt! As a teenage guy, you'll get all the love letters and chics drooling around you but once that starts to fade and adulthood sets in, every lady you approach finds it hard to fathom why you're still single. To them, its "Un-real" that someone so handsome isn't hooked. They'll either think you're lying or you've got something up your sleeve. Those good-looking guys you know might not wanna admit it, but they may be going through the same thing. No doubt, you'll score ladies but often times they may not be your choice or spec. They'll be random broads who fall into your arms without even asking. undecided

This is another fragment of the answer the OP seeks gringrin
Ok makes sense. smiley
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Muvacci(m): 12:51pm On Aug 24, 2016
LuvU2:
Ok makes sense. smiley
Guess who's my inspiration? smiley
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by wheels234(m): 12:56pm On Aug 24, 2016
no girl will leave 6 cars for 6 packs
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by STILESGANG: 12:58pm On Aug 24, 2016
Only the choosy ones are.They want the hottest girls and the hottest ones want money(pretty girls attract rich and powerful men) which some of them can't offer.Cos even the shy ones(who aint choosy)Still get attention from ugly and average girls.

A goodlooking and rich guy would always get any girl he wants though.

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by LuvU2: 1:03pm On Aug 24, 2016
Muvacci:


Guess who's my inspiration? smiley
Who cheesy
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Muvacci(m): 1:05pm On Aug 24, 2016
LuvU2:
Who cheesy
LuveU2 wink

That broad makes me better smiley
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by LuvU2: 1:08pm On Aug 24, 2016
Muvacci:


LuveU2 wink


That broad makes me better smiley
awww Luveu2 is a lucky girl !
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Muvacci(m): 1:10pm On Aug 24, 2016
LuvU2:
awww Luveu2 is a lucky girl !

Really? I wish she shares your sentiment grin
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by TIDDOLL(m): 1:10pm On Aug 24, 2016
Not entirely True.
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by LuvU2: 1:16pm On Aug 24, 2016
Muvacci:


Really? I wish she shares your sentiment grin
She does wink

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Aug 24, 2016
Omo 99 fe bounce lori mi lai se beat cheesy I be like live wire wey dey make ur babe shock tongue
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Aug 24, 2016
Because majority of them are dumb,shallow,vain,self-centered,narcissistic..


I think i should stop now grin

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Section8(m): 1:50pm On Aug 24, 2016
MzLarem:
Because majority of them are dumb,shallow,vain,self-centered,narcissistic..



I think i should stop now grin
Na so dem vex u reach

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Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by seunny4lif(m): 1:51pm On Aug 24, 2016
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Seun come answer ooooh
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Aug 24, 2016
Section8:
Na so dem vex u reach
I was only describing them.
Re: Why Do Fine Guys Struggle With Getting Women? by NevetsIbot(m): 1:57pm On Aug 24, 2016
Estharfabian:
probably because they're usually dumb? undecided

so brutal!!!

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