My sister, don't be dismayed. Your surprise is coming!!!!!

ayashow:
Where do I start dis from.I have no one to talk to and it feels like God has refused to hear my cries.

After a week of vomiting and stooling only water every second with very painful stomach pains that I wldnt wish on my enemy.I was rushed to the clinic...diagnosed of ULCER.to say I was shocked is an understatement.I never imagined I would have it.

Why I'm so sad is because too much fasting led to it.d nite the pain started I had just broken my fast.I weep so much as I type this,fasting and prayer has always been the only weapon that I have ever known to solve every problem or so i think....
Whenever something bothers me I fast and pray.

I have fasted and prayed a lot for God to bless me with a child but instead I had ulcer.the pain is so unbearable at nite....It all just makes me so sad and i feel betrayed.

Despite my fasting and prayers I suffer a lot,it's hard to feed dat I don't feel hunger anymore ,I have only one slippers,all my clothes are worn out,when I go out I have to walk some miles home because of transport fare.and the most painful of it all no child almost 5 years of ttc.despite that fact, i dont even have moni to treat the problems causing my infertility.then now another illness which is eating the little moni hubby kept.I rily pity hubby.he's trying so hard for us and nothing is just not working.just yesterday he had a little accident with his boss car and hit the bumper of the car in front of him and d owner refused to hear our pleas.he said dh must repair his car.

Hmm,I'm tired of everything,where do we get 30k from to repair car when we can barely feed.ha ! I'm trying hard not to say words that I don't know if it will offend God,but God I tot they said you r merciful,why is ur mercy far from me.I just want to sleep and not wake up sometimes.I don't understand my purpose.

Please my sisters what do I do,I'm confused,depressed and I feel like there is no helper
Please sisters I need help.I'm at the edge and I'm slipping off

Its too hard surviving like this and to commit suicide na sin.
Pls sisters what do I do.
The only thing that can console me right now is a bfp.I feel so worthless

Yes my sisters.I never tot I would do this but I need your help.if u can't help me for money for food
.Pls I beg you help me to get pregnant.that wld be my greatest joy.to feel a baby growing in my womb.
I've never done hsg because I've never been able to save for it.

I was diagnosed of pcos in march when I was rushed to the clinic for stomach pain.I have leaking boobs.no moni to treat it.
They said God is the ultimate healer.I still keep calling on him for help and I await it every single day.

Many things to do that I feel that if I try them I will become pregnant.or maybe it's not my time yet,but when will my time be?

I'm tired.

Same with DH.. ours is obstructive azoospermia resulting from testicular torsion. i think both of you should go to a urologist for further investigation as to his root cause. best wishes dear

Glurssymum:
Hi able mamas. Just discovered this forum and was very excited. Kindly advice: DH recently went for semen analysis and the result from two different labs says 0 million sperm count, 0% motility, 0% active, 0% sluggish infact everything was captured as zero. Please i am depressed what can be the solution to this as the doctor we met says he has no single sperm. How is it possible that a man has no sperm in his semen?
Please help a sister.

@ ayashow,dont worry u will smile soon,hang on dear,its well

ayashow:
Where do I start dis from.I have no one to talk to and it feels like God has refused to hear my cries.

After a week of vomiting and stooling only water every second with very painful stomach pains that I wldnt wish on my enemy.I was rushed to the clinic...diagnosed of ULCER.to say I was shocked is an understatement.I never imagined I would have it.

Why I'm so sad is because too much fasting led to it.d nite the pain started I had just broken my fast.I weep so much as I type this,fasting and prayer has always been the only weapon that I have ever known to solve every problem or so i think....
Whenever something bothers me I fast and pray.

I have fasted and prayed a lot for God to bless me with a child but instead I had ulcer.the pain is so unbearable at nite....It all just makes me so sad and i feel betrayed.

Despite my fasting and prayers I suffer a lot,it's hard to feed dat I don't feel hunger anymore ,I have only one slippers,all my clothes are worn out,when I go out I have to walk some miles home because of transport fare.and the most painful of it all no child almost 5 years of ttc.despite that fact, i dont even have moni to treat the problems causing my infertility.then now another illness which is eating the little moni hubby kept.I rily pity hubby.he's trying so hard for us and nothing is just not working.just yesterday he had a little accident with his boss car and hit the bumper of the car in front of him and d owner refused to hear our pleas.he said dh must repair his car.

Hmm,I'm tired of everything,where do we get 30k from to repair car when we can barely feed.ha ! I'm trying hard not to say words that I don't know if it will offend God,but God I tot they said you r merciful,why is ur mercy far from me.I just want to sleep and not wake up sometimes.I don't understand my purpose.

Please my sisters what do I do,I'm confused,depressed and I feel like there is no helper
Please sisters I need help.I'm at the edge and I'm slipping off

Its too hard surviving like this and to commit suicide na sin.
Pls sisters what do I do.
The only thing that can console me right now is a bfp.I feel so worthless

Yes my sisters.I never tot I would do this but I need your help.if u can't help me for money for food
.Pls I beg you help me to get pregnant.that wld be my greatest joy.to feel a baby growing in my womb.
I've never done hsg because I've never been able to save for it.

I was diagnosed of pcos in march when I was rushed to the clinic for stomach pain.I have leaking boobs.no moni to treat it.
They said God is the ultimate healer.I still keep calling on him for help and I await it every single day.

Many things to do that I feel that if I try them I will become pregnant.or maybe it's not my time yet,but when will my time be?

I'm tired.

Aaaw sweetheart so sorry about everything. For me I have noticed that just when I'm about to give up or mess up that's when my blessing is aroundthe corner. Evil forces know how tooverwhelm one with all sorts just so u mess up andgiveup. Please don't joy always comes in the morning especially for us in Christ Jesus. Don't give up on God cos He'll never give up on u. Maybe u should switch things up a bit and do more of rejoicing,praise and thanksgiving like you can see the answers to ur prayers already. He inhabits the praises of His people. Bring His presence into your home strongly with praise especially in these times that it's harder to do so. Our joy is here! without a doubt.

Welcome to all newbies,Darlynn,Glurrsymum,Frankdoho,may your stay be short and fruitful.
@omoyeni3601,ayashow and everyone in a one kind one kind mood cos of this phase,e.hugs to you.I love the hymn below so much and i sing it when i am in a one kind one kind mood and wen words fail to come out from my mouth in prayer and then feel good with myself after singing.

Through the Love of God our saviour
All will be well
Free and changeless is His favour
All, all is well
Precious is the blood that healed us
Perfect is the grace that sealed us
Strong the hand stretched forth to shield us
All must be well

Though we pass through tribulation
All will be well
Ours is such a full salvation;
All, all is well
Happy, still in God confiding,
Fruitful, if in Christ abiding,
Holy, through the Spirit's guiding,
All must be well.

We expect a bright to-morrow;
All will be well;
Faith can sing through days of sorrow,
All, all is well,
On our Father's love relying,
Christ our every need supplying,
Or in living or in dying
All must be well (Amen).

A big welcome to all newbies, may ur stay be very short and fruitful.

Congratulations Sugah, God Bless Ayomide.

Ayashow: Sis it well. In life I have learnt that when it feels like nothing is working anymore and u are about to loose it, a blessing is already by the corner just don't loose faith in God. Very soon this phase would be history and we all will carry our bundles of Joy in Jesus name.

My dear sisters,am new in this forum,pls I jst got married n hv bn ttc,had stomach issues n was tld I hv fibroid,intramural n honestly surgery is a no no for me, pls my fellow women,wat oda options do I hv,n hv noticed I hv not been ovulating.pls help am really depressed.

pweetymii:
Who did it?Jesus oh my God waoh!congratulations Sugah,welcome baby Ayomide.May the birth of baby Ayomide usher more good things into your home.
@Blessedmum and other september maamas the Lord will make it easy for you.

Amen, thanks Sis can't wait to celebrate with you too.

Good Morning wonderful Mummy's.
Update
Went to hospital, the doctor said I will do "Therapeutic D and C because it seems I was pregnant and lost it but still have part in my blood.

But to be sincere i dnot think so ( i might be wrong) ,I told the doctor that maybe its my hormonal imbalance causing it ,he said we should do the minor surgery first and if my blood is still testing positive then they will look somewhere else.

I want to try some things out myself before I moved done to another general hostipal to know whether its same.

I want to start with vitex my menses not regular ( How much Is't?)
And any drug that can regulate my hormonal imbalance.
Cos when I did it then it was not good maybe that is what is causing it.

What do you think?
What can I do?

Cc
Fvine , 4realwoman and other mamas

@Sugah a big congratulations to you on the arrival of your bundle of joy. He will be a source of blessing, joy and happiness to your family! he will live to fulfil destiny.

@ayashow, please dont give up despite all odds it's all lies of the devil, be still and know that He's God! no matter what you're going through i want you to know that God still answers prayer your miracle is close it shall no longer tarry the lord will visit you.

God will see us through. Ttc for 5years
now, I had two miscarriages.but what baffles me most is that it takes me time to conceive. Pls I need a hospital around surulere for check ups.

Thnk u all so much my lovely sisters.

You all brought my attention to sometin haven't been seeing all along.
That it's actually the devil Dts trying to make me feel as if my prayers are not heard.

I'm bringing myself back up again.
Thank you all.
That's why I come here to say how I feel because you guys are the only ones dt understand how I feel.

Cherrymum I stay in lagos.

@Ayashow, its well, your lamentation brought tears to my eyes, i will suggest you stop the fasting and self pity and rejoice instead, God answers the state of our heart more than religious rituals and most times when you want to handle things by yourself the devil comes in to frustrate you more...relax and let God fight for you.....Also i dont think a bfp is what you need most for now, first you need to put things in order so that when your baby comes, he or she will be well taken care of, get a job or a business that can help you earn an income..when your mind is focused on something else, everything will start working out for your good.


@All, please lets make a little contribution for Ayashow, not for the car repairs but for her welfare..... i humbly request that each of us should send at least #1,000 contribution or more to her account as an e-family member and God will meet us at the point of our needs as we respond to her needs. God bless you, we can as well donate other things we think she might need at this time....

@Ayashow, please post your account number, i will send 5k

TemitopeAlways:
Good Morning wonderful Mummy's.
Update
Went to hospital, the doctor said I will do "Therapeutic D and C because it seems I was pregnant and lost it but still have part in my blood.
But to be sincere i dnot think so ( i might be wrong) ,I told the doctor that maybe its my hormonal imbalance causing it ,he said we should do the minor surgery first and if my blood is still testing positive then they will look somewhere else.
I want to try some things out myself before I moved done to another general hostipal to know whether its same.
I want to start with vitex my menses not regular ( How much Is't?)
And any drug that can regulate my hormonal imbalance.
Cos when I did it then it was not good maybe that is what is causing it.
What do you think?
What can I do?
Cc
Fvine , 4realwoman and other mamas

@Temitopealways, vitex is 4k, you can contact me

Ayashow, your post brought tears to my eyes. I know how you feel but please encourage yourself. This is not the time to give up on God no matter the situation. You can complain to your God, Yes, Job did and yet he was a righteous man. But please don't let your trust in the Lord and your love for him go down because he will never forsake you no matter what. He sees your pains, he hears your cry. You may ask me why he has not responded all this while. the answer is that He is God, He does whatever pleases him and He cannot be question. But I know there is nothing he does without a purpose and he make all things beautiful in His time. When God permitted the devil to shake the faith of Job, Job complained on many occasions but never gave up on God. Job 7: 11 “So I will not be quiet! I will let my suffering spirit speak! I will let my bitter soul complain! Vs 20 - 21 ".... If I sinned, would that hurt you? Why have you made me your target? Have I become a problem for you? Why don’t you just pardon me for doing wrong? Why don’t you just forgive me for my sins? in Job 23: 1-7 “I am still complaining today. I groan because God is still making me suffer. I wish I knew where to find him. I wish I knew how to go to where he lives. I would present my case to him. Yes, Job complained but he did not give up. Job 13:15 I will continue to trust God even if he kills me. But I will defend myself to his face. and in Job 27:6 he said "My righteousness I hold fast, and will not let it go: my heart shall not reproach me so long as I live".
Please hold on to God. You said you don't understand your purpose any more? assuming God make you pass through all this so that when he lift you up tomorrow you will be able to tell others in similar situation that God is a faithful God. 2 Cor 1:4 -4 What a wonderful God we have—he is the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the source of every mercy, and the one who so wonderfully comforts and strengthens us in our hardships and trials. And why does he do this? So that when others are troubled, needing our sympathy and encouragement, we can pass on to them this same help and comfort God has given us.
My sister, I will leave you with Psalm 20: 1-5 "In your day of trouble, may the Lord be with you! May the God of Jacob keep you from all harm. 2 May he send you aid from his sanctuary in Zion. 3 May he remember with pleasure the gifts you have given him, your sacrifices and burnt offerings. 4 May he grant you your heart’s desire and fulfill all your plans. 5 May there be shouts of joy when we hear the news of your victory, flags flying with praise to God for all that he has done for you. May he answer all your prayers!
And so shall it be in Jesus Name. Amen. God bless you.

Darlynn:
Same with DH.. ours is obstructive azoospermia resulting from testicular torsion. i think both of you should go to a urologist for further investigation as to his root cause. best wishes dear

Ok we will visit a Urologist because everybody is advising us to visit one.. How far about ur DH, any success yet?

Ayashow, hold on dear sis, please don't give up on God, I promise HE would come through for you, though sorrow may endure for a night joy surely comes in the morning.

I am sure some of us are just doing everything we can to stay afloat and not drown in this ATC and economy issues, God sees our struggles, HE has promised to never leave us nor forsake us. HE is not man that HE should lie, HE is too faithful to fail dearie. Just continue to declare what you want from God, don't let the devil shut you up or wear you out. God will bless and strengthen you are dh and show you favour.

Kindly send your email or contact details.

Thanks God bless you

NB: I sent you a PM please respond.

Fvine:


Hi Dear, you're welcome to the thread. may your stay be fruitful and short. Sorry you're going through this, I pray the good Lord surprises you soon. Zero everything as you put it is not the end of the world. He should see a Urologist that will conduct further testing to determine what could be holding the sperm back. It could be an atrophy (blockage) or Varicocele or whatever but do know that there is always a way out. Finding out the root cause will help you determine a solution, if its something that will require surgery or what drugs, antibiotics and/or supplements can help out with.

At the worst cases of Zero counts, IVF with ICSI and TESE can be done where they use a fine needle to go into the scrotal sac of the man to extract sper.m from the production source because most times at least a couple of sperm can be found there. This option is for couples who are bent on having their own Biological Kids. There are options of fathering with Donor Eggs, Donor Spe.rm and even adoption but I won't even go into this controversial and touchy zones.

Its human nature to be sad, cry and be depressed, cry small if it will make you feel better but don't over cry like you have no hope. But in all of this God has the final say if you believe in God or He who holds the Higher Power in whatever Religion you practice and if you're an atheist then the best Dr. / Medical Art you can find it is. So do all you can and pray all you can or just Do all you can. You ain't hopeless, so don't be depressed, depression won't help a thing rather it will spoil things. You need to be strong for your husband. If you're depressed, imagine how he will be feeling. He needs your support.

We're always here for you to support and comfort you whatever your TTC journey is. You have a kind e-family here, you're not alone. Kisses and Hugs Sis. Do take good care of yourself and your Hubby.

Thanks so much Fvine, if not for anything but the encouragement that there is hope. I taught all hope was lost. But has there been any recorded success after treatment? as in the man will start producing sperm naturally? I pray God see us through all these challenges. Baby dust to mamas in the house.

Blest be the tie that binds, our heart in Christian love, the fellowship of kindred minds, is like to that above.

Before our Father's throne, We pour our ardent prayers, our fears, our hopes, our aims are one, our comforts and our cares.

We share our mutual woes, our mutual burdens bear, and often for each other flows, the sympathizing tear.
Almighty God! Wipe away our monthly tears Lord!!!!!! Enough of our tears!

Hi everyone, I had miscarriage on July 28 and saw my period on Aug 25, am already on cap pronatal, can I take M2 Tone tablets with it and when should I have sexual intercourse in order to conceive soon.

Ayashow..your post brought tears to my eyes...it is well dear,God will wipe your tears very soon.

Hello mamas in the house, may you all find favour and comfort in places you don't even expect. It's a tough journey everyone knows, you mamas are strong and you all shall continue to be!

@Ayashow sis you post brings tears to my eyes but we can't question God, he definitely sees your pain and sooner than you taught we will send help...Please, please and please stay away from fasting for now, eat healthy... Love you

@Sugar congratulations on the birth of Ayomide

Ayashow,its so touching,i dnt even no what to say but in all things always remember this song.
God will make a way where there seems to be no way,he works in ways we cannot see, he will make a way for us...............................
Am sure some of our mamas here especially those that are living in lagos will do something to help.
We all love you buh God loves you more.

mamas, please let's not be weary. I noticed the thread has not been vibrant this days probably because we are tired, I know it is not easy especially when you have prayed and tried everything you could without result. I read somewhere that the value of persistent prayer is not that God will hear us, (He is not deaf) but that we finally hear him. Please learn to listen when you pray and ask Him to speak to you, He might have different answers than what we expect from him, but in all, He will come through for us. While ttc, we should remember that God did not create us just for the sole purpose of bearing children else he wouldn't give us uterus and brains. Let us find out other roles God put us on earth to play aside from motherhood. Let us see how we can function in these roles because motherhood will come to us one day, God does not lie. I hope by then we wont realized we have failed God in other roles. According to Albert Schweitzer "in the hopes of reaching the moon, men fail to see the flowers that blossom at their feet". Look around, see how you can contribute positively to the society, see how you can be of help to that your neighbour, see how you can help the teens so they don't make the same mistakes we made growing up. just see what you can do in that your spare time. Life isn't about destination, it's about what you did during the journey. And finally, Let us try and find happiness where we are no matter the trials because it will pass one day. Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfection. Remember, no matter how bad you think you have it, someone else always has it worse.
Fertility blessings.

@Ayashow I've read through your story and its really sad. I always tell couples and people with infertility problems, never to give up on God, because even medical experts seek the grace of God to carry out treatments. The PCOS and some other things you are suffering can be fixed through some medical treatments. We've solved some cases of infertility problems and have patients happy at the end. Try visiting an IVF Centre for help on how to resolve your infertility problem or you can contact me on my email......THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH.

It is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed. In the name of Jesus, I declare to you that the enemy will not consume your family, business, marriage and children. You are covered by the Blood of Jesus, therefore, the evil one cannot destroy your life. @Ayashow there is a God in heaven and He reigns supreme in the affairs of man. It is well.

Thanks @Fvine. God bless you

Fvine:

Omega 3,6,9 is safe all through the cycle including the Luteal Phase. What you should watch out for is if it has Evening Primrose Oil. Some brands of Omega 3,6,9 have Evening Primrose Oil as part of the ingredient. Even though I think its a minimal amount, I wouldn't personally take any thing containing Evening Primrose Oil after ovulation because it causes Uterine Contractions and can disturb implantation and pregnancy.

Hope this helps.

I was diagonised with uterine synachiae ,
Adhesiolysis procedure was done an iucd (copper t ) inserted, microgynon prescribed to be taken for 3months .

I was told at would show up a month after the procedure , as I type these it's been a month and 15days and no actual af .

My question is has anyone or someone you know gone through these ?
I'm a bit confused here .

LIFE IS LIKE A GAME. DON'T BE DISCOURAGED

Kirusky4life:
LIFE IS LIKE A GAME. DON'T BE DISCOURAGED

I watched a local football match in a school playing ground. As I sat down, I asked one of the boys what the score was.
With a smile, he replied; "They are leading us 3-0"!
And I said, REALLY!!
I have to say 'you don't look discouraged.'
"Discouraged?" the boy asked with a puzzled look ...
''Why should I be discouraged when the referee has not blown the final whistle?
I have confidence in the team and the managers; We shall definitely overcome!"
Truly, the match ended 5-4 in favor of the boy's team!
He waved at me gently, with a beautiful smile as he left; I was amazed, mouth wide open; Such confidence; Such beautiful faith;
As I got back home that night, his question kept coming back to me:
"Why should I be discouraged when the referee has not blown the final whistle?"
Life is like a game.
Why should you be discouraged when The Almighty God is your manager? Why should you be discouraged, whist there's still life? Why should you be discouraged when your final whistle has not sounded? The truth is that many people blow the final whistle themselves;
But as long as there is life, nothing is impossible and it is never too late for you.
Half time is not full time and HIS calendar for your life is not man's calendar.
Don't blow the whistle yourself.
BE ENCOURAGED! DON'T GIVE UP!
With God, all things are still possible!

am inspired by this God BLESS U,Na true Talk be this!!

Pls mamas,help me interprete that fibroid size...pls no pass me ooo