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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by kennsville(m): 11:44am On Aug 25, 2016
Word
Haute:
Why are you opening threads out of frustration? What's stopping you from making your own money? Smh


Checkout Caprigal's boyfriend here:

https://www.nairaland.com/3309418/yahoo-boys-caught-girls-pants/1#48786227

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Menzy86(m): 11:45am On Aug 25, 2016
Serious poverty (of both mind and body) is d biggest problem of most Nigerian ladies. U go outside d country and see really sophisticated independent women not caring how much u earn and just flow with you in a rship based on ur basic qualities (humour, simple care, ambition and adventure). U come back here and meet a girl who lives in a face me I face u flat, cooks with firewood and has never in her twenty something years on earth seen her father buy a car want all those things from u. Truth is as a guy, d day u meet a WORTHWHILE woman, u won't needa soothsayer to tell u!

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 11:46am On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:


Honestly it time women start speaking up and being selective about what they want.

A man will demand your loyalty and respect in a relationship to prove that you are wife material but at the same time wants you to put up with a mediocre relationship where he cannot play his role as a man that can take care of you after marriage.

What nonsense.
What exactly are u selecting young lady This your mentality won't take you far.

I know of a lady that was dating a broke guy( according to you), she is swimming in millions now. The broke guy is so wealthy that all their maids and drivers have their own flats in their compound. Pays rent for widows and those in need. She's my aunt, don't look down on a guy cos he is broke. If you can't date them. Do this

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by PaulIdu: 11:46am On Aug 25, 2016
For ur info mən never forget the girl that stuck with them when dey were broke
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by SeyiAyorinde(m): 11:47am On Aug 25, 2016
agrovick:
Baba, you self dey here gringringrin Have you heard of Stanbic's trainee program?
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 11:48am On Aug 25, 2016
Haute:
Why are you opening threads out of frustration? What's stopping you from making your own money? Smh


Checkout Caprigal's boyfriend here:

https://www.nairaland.com/3309418/yahoo-boys-caught-girls-pants/1#48786227

Maybe someday she'll get a Date Trophy!

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Emmahunk(m): 11:49am On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
Let me be frank here and say its different if he is genuinely trying to come up and still does what he can to make you feel special but some dudes are just perpetual failures and try to make it seem like you are asking too much.

Beautiful piece my dear but don't you think it takes a never do well of a girl or actually the weather beaten retired LovePeddler to be cdudeaught in the Web of the so called perpetual failure of a dude?
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by slex(m): 11:50am On Aug 25, 2016
Ladies that help their BROKE guys in times of need are they not humans also or maybe they are from mars.

Op pls leave the broke guys and stay with sugar daddies and yahoo boiz.

No need to thank me.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by alobright17(m): 11:52am On Aug 25, 2016
asuo27:
Disrespecting you, when you decided to join your folks. grin

Mrning!.
Join which folks dear? Haba who chooses folks over a darling wife?So for night na folks I go beckon when cold go dey catch me? But baby on a serious note you know what am talking about,you will warn me to stop fighting and I will listen,but u no dey listen to me when it reach ur turn.That is not quality of a good wifey na grin
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by monlawal(m): 11:52am On Aug 25, 2016
Abi? Anyhow d hustle go still pay one day, and any bae wey fit endure with the guy na she go enjoy pass.
JeffreyJamez:



There are some guys that have unrealistic hustles tho and refuse to hear word lol... grin
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AlphaPegasi: 11:53am On Aug 25, 2016
[quote author=CrazyQuinn post=48783774][/quote] if you are a fine girl you can have your hearts desires because there will be many men wanting to carry your burden. however if you are ugly or just OK looking your name is OYO. you will either have to make your own money or settle for broke guys lolzzzz

QUESTION IS HOW FINE ARE YOU ? DO YOU LOOK LIKE BEYONCE ?

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Bizibi(m): 11:54am On Aug 25, 2016
Things are changing now.....single guys like me find it difficult to get someone worth it now,I better just marry my biz,I hate headaches.

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Bizibi(m): 11:54am On Aug 25, 2016
Things are changing now.....single guys like me find it difficult to get someone worth it now,I better just marry my biz,I hate headache.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by edimahgurl(f): 11:54am On Aug 25, 2016
grin cheesy cheesy reading comments tho! undecided
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by omoikea(m): 11:55am On Aug 25, 2016
Thank God am not broke oh....
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 11:55am On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
Let me be frank here and say its different if he is genuinely trying to come up and still does what he can to make you feel special but some dudes are just perpetual failures and try to make it seem like you are asking too much.

thot women ar suppose to b partners,,wat kind of partners contributes nuttin to a r/ship,,all they think they av to offer is sex,,sum ladies wil b working n earning gud salary yet stil billing there bf ...yet u demand such guy to see u as a partners,, valentine days all yu get frm dis gurls naa cheap boxers n singlet u cannt even wear,, they r xpecting an iphone 6 or a car in return.. naija babes want done soup ....we wil serve it but kip treatin una lik housegurls dt yu are.. #ebiinaas
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by officialmcfresh1(m): 11:56am On Aug 25, 2016
Well said! Well said.

tsilva:
Where do I start from. Looking at it the ladies have a strong point for not dating broke guys but in the real sense, the few guys who are already made are in their 30's who are looking for ladies that are doing well for themselves.And these guys are about10% that is if it has not dropped because of the economic conditions we are at the moment.Guys this same ladies will come running after you when they feel the need to settle down.But that is not an excuse not to work hard cos it is to your own advantage at the end of the day.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 11:56am On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.

Let's pretend he gives all you've stated, how would you reciprocate the gesture? What do you have that's worth your desire? Keep dreaming ...
Don't know why I read this till the end, now I feel really sick!!!

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by paragon40(m): 11:57am On Aug 25, 2016
Lol.. suck them like orange and throw them away.. Simple. No wonder sme prefer, olosho no attachement smiley

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by monlawal(m): 11:57am On Aug 25, 2016
dannio:


Thats the thing
you follow me see am ba? A lotta my guys that were struggling are balling now. And dem girls tryna be counted but guys aint gat love left.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 11:58am On Aug 25, 2016
AlphaPegasi:
if you are a fine girl you can have your hearts desires because there will be many men wanting to carry your burden. however if you are ugly or just OK looking your name is OYO. you will either have to make your own money or settle for broke guys lolzzzz

QUESTION IS HOW FINE ARE YOU ? DO YOU LOOK LIKE BEYONCE ?
whether I'm fine or ugly, I will like to make my own money and be independent, I don't give a fvck if any guy comes my way or not cool tongue
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AlphaPegasi: 11:58am On Aug 25, 2016
greggng:



I am an advocate of self servicing. A broke guy should leave women alone pending when you re financially independent. The only word women understand is money. Find something good doing when u made it they will come after u. One has been disturbing me for the past one month now. She even call me a gay. She claimed she hardly see me with women. I am sure she wants to rape me if I gave her the opportunity. She never knew tht am avoiding her cos I believe no money no love. Apart from pussy what else do women contribute to men's life? I am in contact with some Chinese people to manufacture artificial pussy so that broke men can find a way out aside masturbation
grin
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by henrynick(m): 11:59am On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:


Please help me tell them.

Coming to my thread to cry because I told painful truth.





You called this a painful truth?.......pity..no guy trust me would want to have anything to do with you ....even if you have a nigga with you....he's just screwing you......you sound like a gold digging slvt .............which guy go hustle suffer come spend em sweat on top you......u have no atom of intelligence at all.Remember all fingers are not equal

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by SafeDavid(m): 12:00pm On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Op it depends on girl you are always getting involved with, not all girls are like that tongue with time you would find a girls that accept your flaws and stay with you through your ups and downs wink smiley

See a matured lady here. cheesy

Being broke is different from being poor.
Even Billionaires go broke.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Donmulti: 12:00pm On Aug 25, 2016
Haute:
Why are you opening threads out of frustration? What's stopping you from making your own money? Smh


Checkout Caprigal's boyfriend here:

https://www.nairaland.com/3309418/yahoo-boys-caught-girls-pants/1#48786227
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Donmulti: 12:01pm On Aug 25, 2016
Haute:
Why are you opening threads out of frustration? What's stopping you from making your own money? Smh


Checkout Caprigal's boyfriend here:

https://www.nairaland.com/3309418/yahoo-boys-caught-girls-pants/1#48786227

I wonder? Is it not d same school all of u went nd d same one head all of u get? rubbish!

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AMOSBID(m): 12:02pm On Aug 25, 2016
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AlphaPegasi: 12:02pm On Aug 25, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
whether I'm fine or ugly, I will like to make my own money and be independent, I don't give a fvck if any guy comes my way or not cool tongue
Am just schooling you on how the game goes. beautiful women will always get rich men looking out for them, but if you look like funke akindele you are just going to have to make your own money or settle for broke guys. FACTS grin grin

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 12:03pm On Aug 25, 2016
SafeDavid:


See a matured lady here. cheesy

Being broke is different from being poor.
Even Billionaires go broke.

smiley
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 12:05pm On Aug 25, 2016
AlphaPegasi:
Am just schooling you on how the game goes. beautiful women will always get rich men looking out for them, but if you look like funke akindele you are just going to have to make your own money or settle for broke guys. FACTS grin grin
your facts has some truth in it, not bad smiley
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by anigold(m): 12:08pm On Aug 25, 2016
mizzbouqui:

And how do you know I'm not engaged as at now?

yes every Nigerian gal above 25 all says "am engaged" when most dont even have a common boyfriend..

some have been engaged for 5 years.. I hope you engagement no be long term engagement hahahahahaha. the type of engagement that will raise jamb questions.. grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Eminembuz(m): 12:08pm On Aug 25, 2016
Most Nigeria girls with money issues self..ok oo make una continue..

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