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Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by sisisioge: 7:09pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Nothing is wrong o. How could something be wrong? Is she fearful of catching some skin diseases or what from you? Nothing is wrong with it. |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by thorpido(m): 7:19pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
uboma:Can't share a sponge but share body fluids?Which has more health implications? For strangers and even family members,it is understandable not to share. @bolded,it actually shows you lack a sense of humour. 1 Like |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by thorpido(m): 7:40pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
inemani:only the mouth kwa? 1 Like |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Nobody: 7:40pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Sharing towel, sponge, plate, spoon, cup, comb, clothes, socks etc is not an issue for us Back in the day before threading, I used to steal his razors to shape my brows ![]() neither of us has craw craw or lapa lapa so kini big deal ![]() However as your wife certainly doesn't want it, then you need to respect her wishes and buy your own sponge. They are not that expensive Moreso its not something that you both did from the onset. Different strokes for different folks. I couldn't siphon snot from our babies noses but my husband could ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Nobody: 8:39pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
There's nothing wrong with sharing a sponge, there's nothing wrong with choosing not to share, I understand some people do not like it... My sisters used to attack my towels and sponge anyhow they like, I'd get a new one and they'd do the same thing, I gave up eventually... What I can never accommodate is sharing toothbrushes... Your case is quite unique though, most times, it's the lady that tries to use the man's stuff while he objects... |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by inemani: 10:10pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
thorpido: Huhnhuhn, which other one dey to suck kwa? |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by mastermaestro(m): 12:27am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Look at the huge number of preposterous responses so far! With views like what we have littered all over this thread, I am not surprised why most modern marriages fail in less than a decade. Selfish, self-centered, individualistic tendencies detrimental to a successful marriage. For you selfish peeps who are spewing health reasons for his selfish wife's individualistic behavior, what is worse than unprotected sex and mouth to mouth kisses that both of them engage in day in day out? Some people should actually die single instead of dragging someone else into their miserable selfish lives! If you can't share, you do not deserve to be married! Die single! ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Nobody: 12:51am On Aug 27, 2016 |
nickxtra: many things could be attributed to your wife not comfortable sharing a sponge with you as her husband 1.some men are unhygienic...so she risk body infections by sharing a sponge with you if that's the case 2..you guys didn't introduce it earlier in your relationship...many couples loves batching together, share tooth brush,eat together and almost almost in everything they do 3...both of you could be two individuals cohabiting for the purpose of procreation hence there are limits and conditions guiding your union...true lovers has unrestricted access to their partners belongs if your wife isn't comfortable sharing her sponge with you pls respect her wish and get yours. ..no be by force. oo |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by EfemenaXY: 12:56am On Aug 27, 2016 |
nickxtra: Let me ask you this: Assuming your wife is a heavy bleeder with thick blood cloths, would you feel comfortable using your wife's sponge when she's on her period? Additionally, re: the bolded part of your sentence, you do not tell your wife what to do or ram your opinions down her throat. Are you a control freak? For now, she should leave that sponge for you (seeing as you've started using it) and buy herself a new one. However, next time you stay away from her toiletries and go get yours oga. 1 Like |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Nobody: 2:04am On Aug 27, 2016 |
While you're at it, use her toothbrush too. ![]() That's nasty! |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by thorpido(m): 6:34am On Aug 27, 2016 |
inemani:Haaa,your work never finish o.Maybe oga never ask or you no like am. 1 Like |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by bukatyne(f): 8:30am On Aug 27, 2016 |
OmoAlata1: Lol@ pour like say na drum. ![]() Some people were not brought up to share & did not learn to. |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by inemani: 11:16am On Aug 27, 2016 |
thorpido: Story for another day Sir |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Nobody: 11:35am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Lol, funny thread. I use whichever sponge that is closest to me whether it's my hubby's or mine, we're one. I've even used his toothbrush before, I do everything intimate with him and to him so there's no big deal. But since your wife ain't comfortable with it, get yours for peace' sake. |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by nickxtra(m): 11:50am On Aug 27, 2016 |
sisisioge:Dont hav any skin diseases on me |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by nickxtra(m): 11:57am On Aug 27, 2016 |
EfemenaXY:In this case, she is not bleeding and when she is in her period, i am always in the Know. Secondly, am not a control freak, but atleast i am not a weakling and i think i should keep certain level of authority over her, without prejudice to her freedom. 1 Like |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by EfemenaXY: 12:18pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
nickxtra: That doesn't answer my question. I asked if you're comfortable using her sponge when she's on her period and not whether you're in the "know" of when she's on or not. So once again, Are you comfortable using your wife's bathing sponge when she's on her period?? Yes? Or No? And IF you don't use her sponge when she's on, what do you use then? Secondly, am not a control freak, but atleast i am not a weakling and i think i should certain level of authority over her, without prejudice to her freedom. You say you aren't a Control Freak and yet in the same breath claim it's your right to weild your authority over her? A bit contradictory isn't it? Re: your last statement, care to explain? She already told you she isn't comfortable sharing her toiletries with you, yet you insist and feel it's your right to go against her wishes and you claim it's without prejudice to her freedom?? I suppose you won't mind sharing her sanitary pads too? 2 Likes |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by byvan03: 12:37pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
nickxtra: No authority on earth permits you to decide sponge for her, let it go if she doesn't like it. Otherwise you are calling for trouble, there are things you can't force people to do. You have to work on your idea of authority. 2 Likes |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Berbierklaus(f): 12:39pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
VolT0xic:I wanted to ask this Marriage na wa o ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by nairaschool01(m): 2:04pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
abeg anyday mak ur boxer dirty u fit wear her pant go work why are u married u share the same surname |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Oluwashegunnn(m): 3:12pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
nairaschool01: ![]() nairaschool01:lolz ...this nigga get craze 4 head gan |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
My wife and I share the same sponge and toothbrush. She wears some of shirts at home. This is how we live our life and we love it that way. Op just try as much as u can to respect ur wife's view. |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Seahawk: 10:27pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
Buy your own sponge 1 Like |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by Seahawk: 10:33pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
nickxtra: Mtchew. Iberibe 1 Like |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by EfemenaXY: 6:39am On Aug 28, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Backstabbing, 5minsmadness? |
Re: A Worried Husband Asks If It Is Proper To Share A Bathing Sponge With His Wife by EfemenaXY: 6:40am On Aug 28, 2016 |
nairaschool01: ![]() ![]() |
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