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"Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 11:59pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
I looked back at myself eleven months ago and i was like "wow!, is this me?", i know quit well that people fall in love on daily basis just as marriages are recorded on daily basis, while a whole lot of people fall out of love on daily basis too, "the struggle isn't an easy one".This is to encourage someone who's heartbroken to cry in the closet, share your feelings with a trusted friend and move on with your life. I met this prince charming at my formal place of work, have known him for about a year but had no idea he was interested in me and knew nothing about his personal life, he told me his intentions...to cut it short...we started dating, had a lucrative business and was in his final year in school, while on the same year i also gained admission to run a programme, we both had busy schedules but makeout time to be with each other, i love being faithful in my relationships, he said he does too, few of his siblings knew me cos at some point he told me he would love to be involved in my personal issues, i saw that as a sign of commitment on his path. All my friends knew him, a year into the relationship a text was sent to him from my phone by an acclaimed friend of mine that i was a lesbian, i called and his countenance changed towards me...could feel it on phone, only to be told by his friend that this is what was going on...all was going through my head was " whether i'm or not and he heard it from somebody was he not suppose to ask me or investigate it?", so i told someone i was close to who called him over to get his own side of the story, and a whole lot got back into my ears, we ended the relationship. But i never stopped loving him, that we reconnected after eleven months, talked about our differences and moved our relationship to the next level, at the time he was serving, called one evening and he didn't take my calls, called the day after and same thing, dropped a message no response, became worried...decided to stop by the house later that evening which i did, but found him in the company of another girl, i behaved cool, he's younger brother who was living with him just became busy with assignments, i looked him in the eyes and he couldn't stand my gaze...he walked out of the house, i followed 5 minutes later, and he laid a whole lot of excuses and how he wished we were not quarrelling cos i found a girl in his house, i left and on my way home i was convinced she was his girlfriend he denied. I confided in some male friends i have and some of them said i should let him know how i was feeling, so i dropped a text on his phone but didn't get a reply, went back to his place and found another girl waiting for him to get back from work as i was leaving he was driving into the compound, waited and inquired from him who the girl was and he said " the last time i checked i haven't introduced any girl to you as my girlfriend", and tried playing with me but i left angrily. Told my friends about it again with their advice, though they asked me to keep the relationship since i was in love with him, i decided to end it, but felt like giving him the honour of ending it on seeing him, went back to the house on a Wednesday, the same house i left on Monday and this was what happened. His protectors are always on locks, it was a bed room apartment but the parlour lights were on and i could see anyone who stand from outside, i knocked his little brother came out and saw me...with that shock he ran back inside to tell him, i remained standing there for more than 10 minutes and was getting impatient, then the brother came back and opened the gates, walked into the house and a different girl was adjusting her wears in the room, didn't bother to ask her anything, told him i want to see him outside and his playful mood was activated cos his been busted and out of lies to tell me, but when he saw the seriousness in me, he became reluctantly to go out with me and sat on his sofa, the babe came out and was asking me what the matter was, told her nothing but within me i was like "if i slap you eh!", but wouldn't do that though!, not for any man, it was very painful but i managed to end it, walked home in tears, have never been treated in that manner, cried myself to sleep that day, all i had in my head was our amazing moments, still couldn't believe it for a week and kept abusing him, yeah!, i became dramatic for all the lies and pretence i endured for two yrs with him, but today, i'm glad i took that step. He/she never buzzes your line, when you summits a resume, and they're aware they never ask you, how it went?, you were in this relationship that was fun filled at some point and suddenly you're unhappy for countless reasons, he buzzes you at his heat period and you've observed, You're obviously on their priority list for the wrong reasons/not. walking out can be a pain in the ass but "difficult times leads to better days", you always have this feelings that on leaving him/her you will never have a better spouse or one as good as who you intend leaving...that's a lie the devil whispers to your ears for you to remain in sorrows with who doesn't give a bleep!...Just Take A Walk If You're Unhappy. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:06am On Aug 27, 2016 |
hahahahah I pity this our generation 1 Like |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:11am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Maxiii:I am 100% certain you didn't read what's up there but just chose to comment anything that's in your mouth. Smh!. 1 Like |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by MzPecs(f): 12:13am On Aug 27, 2016 |
I laugh Op is such an audacious fellow, not everyone is capable of taking such bold step of leaving a mediocre relationship! 2 Likes |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:15am On Aug 27, 2016 |
asuo27:I'm 100% sure you all to be in bed by now, but due to lack of electricity in your vicinity, mosquitoes are really dealing with you right now whatever its up their, don't have time to stain my eyes 2 Likes |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:31am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Maxiii:this my guy |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:39am On Aug 27, 2016 |
NairalandEFCC1:you never sleep? |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:43am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Maxiii:nooo i dey down poli |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:44am On Aug 27, 2016 |
NairalandEFCC1:hope not cause of mosquito? Cause that babe is facing similar thing right now |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:45am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Maxiii:wee*d |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:47am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:48am On Aug 27, 2016 |
[quote author=Maxiii post=48834400]you must be a naughty boy You do weed too?[/quote no be weed i mention before |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:51am On Aug 27, 2016 |
[quote author=NairalandEFCC1 post=48834412][/quote]i think you need some rest your eyes are playing tricks on you |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:53am On Aug 27, 2016 |
sleep no free catch me, football 2moro dancing |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:55am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Maxiii:no be lie |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:57am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 12:58am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Maxiii:i dey cook indomie so |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 1:01am On Aug 27, 2016 |
NairalandEFCC1:i should have known by now You eat late? very bad to your health |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by alobright17(m): 1:04am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Is Terrible dear,The step you took really saved your ass big time.Thank God for life. 1 Like |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 1:10am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Maxiii:after downing hunger blow me |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 1:10am On Aug 27, 2016 |
alobright17:where the step dey |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 1:22am On Aug 27, 2016 |
NairalandEFCC1:Hope you know i don't have anything with you?, don't seek for trouble where there's none, allow maxi to mess himself around. 1 Like |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 7:28am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Na copy and paste be this |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by IamLEGEND1: 7:40am On Aug 27, 2016 |
wetin be this? |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 10:08am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Oyind17:Copy and paste from where?. |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by YourMajesty(m): 2:10pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
I learnt something from this your post asuo27. Sorry about the ugly ordeal. |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 2:17pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
Op I hope this is not God's punishment of the sins you committed today. Lolz |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 2:51pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
YourMajesty:Good you learnt something. Which ordeal are you referring to?. |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 2:53pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:That's my past, i'm completely over it. And God is a merciful God. |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 2:58pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
asuo27:True He's able! 1 Like |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by YourMajesty(m): 3:05pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
asuo27:"Heartbreak" and "Disappointment" |
Re: "Drastic Times Calls For Drastic Measures". by Nobody: 3:08pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
YourMajesty:We learn lessons from our past mistakes, retrospectively i'm wiser. |
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