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Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by sadieq: 12:25am On Aug 28, 2016 |
This is what Allah said in the Qur'an...23 verses 5-7 " 5. And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts) 6. Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, for then, they are free from blame; 7. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors;" so if we can do justice to ourselves, masturbation is beyond what is stated in verse 6. 1 Like |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by aagon: 12:29am On Aug 28, 2016 |
the bible says in hebrews 12:1 that we should lay aside every weight and sin which easily beset us.looking at this verse very closely the term WEIGHT here means talkativeness,masturbation,coveteousness,hypocricy and the likes. this things re nt sin but they can weaken our spirituality. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by Dpearlz: 12:30am On Aug 28, 2016 |
MisterKings: Bross, I understand you well. If it were to be some months ago I would've totally agreed with you but now I know a bit better. You sure can control it, I'm not saying it will be very easy or you can do it by your strength alone but it is not impossible. Trust me you will live a more joyful life if you can put it in check till you get married. |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by pussypounder(m): 12:44am On Aug 28, 2016 |
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Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by Felixtuta(m): 12:45am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Is better to have sex than to masturbate...reasons are because a man that masturbates usually Jek off faster during the main sex due to unnecessary pressure he puts himself during masturbating. |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by TMANO: 12:52am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Toks2008: SO, Pls explain, if the married is thinking of his wife and doing it, how do u think about sex {as a single} without an object in mind i.e ur partner} 1 Like |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by paulbabu(m): 12:54am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Ops, I disagree with the basis of your points here you said masturbation is a sin when it involves pornohraphy or sexual images cos human wil lust after them in masturbating, that a person who self-services doesn't commit a sin cos he didn't lust after image, u claimed it could be thinking of sex with his spouse but come to think of it, sex is a thing of d mind likewise masturbation, d body processes what u have nurtured in your mind, if that's right, can't a human lust in his mind, and in doing this , he has fornicated in his mind, for example , you think of having sex with someone who is not your wife, that's fornication... I have read here before about someone who revealed he masturbated even at d sight of an image of Mary(mother of Jesus) in d church! 2 Likes |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by Coolgent(m): 12:54am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Toks2008:Islam forbid it, u should have google it |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:56am On Aug 28, 2016 |
lol....bunch of "masturbators" everwhere. lol Op you mean a single guy can self-service w/o lustful thinking...? How abeg? How can a guy burst his nuts over thoughts of intimacy?. I am off the opinion that you cant self-service without lusting over a girl/woman/pic you saw..etc. What are the thoughts of intimacy you mentioned? How does it differ from lust? Grabs...soap...and vaseline 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by gees02(m): 1:26am On Aug 28, 2016 |
munchi: Thank you so much for this. some people just say nonsense 2 Likes |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by AAinEqGuinea: 1:38am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Jesus saved me. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by tete7000(m): 1:53am On Aug 28, 2016 |
You must be perfect just as your heavenly father is perfect - Matthew 5:48. Does God think about sex? I doubt. We are humans, we live in the flesh and do suffer imperfections of the flesh.So God understands as Christ himself lived in the flesh. Does that stop us from seeking perfection? No. So what do we do? We do not use out human fraility to justify our imperfection, rather we everyday confess our sinfulness and look up to God to give us strength to live as Christ commanded us to - to be pure, spotless and blameless before God. Where sin abounds, grace abounds even more, Apostle Paul wrote. Let's take the advantage of this grace. A food for thought. Cc Toks2008 1 Like |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by gj22(m): 2:00am On Aug 28, 2016 |
firstking01: Because you feel guilty after doing it doesn't mean everyone does. And how is it defiling your body when all you are doing is playing with yourself? Your points didn't even counter OP's points at all, it's still the same human ideology /philosophy AKA point of view he is talking about. Also, you lost the right to make an argument or point since you didn't even read the post. |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by gj22(m): 2:04am On Aug 28, 2016 |
firstking01:re Wtf is this upvoted? |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by gj22(m): 2:09am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Isaacmacdon: I honestly do not understand humans. Someone said something that you obviously disagree with but it never dawned on you to atleast counter his argument? You are basically telling people not to listen to OP but to listen to you, yet you can't tell them y. 2 Likes |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by dayspring24(m): 2:09am On Aug 28, 2016 |
You may look at it from any angle you want, but one sure thing is that you can't finish masturbating and go off immediately into a worship or prayer session. Masturbation is a work of the flesh and it fights against the Life in the spirit. 2 Likes |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by gj22(m): 2:11am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Isaacmacdon: How is masturbation sexual immorality? 1 Like |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by Leez(m): 2:31am On Aug 28, 2016 |
firstking01:was agreeing with u till u got to the porb part sex as u said is natural and all sex starts from the brain there must be a stimulus/li for your urge to kick in that is the reason when you see a lady u like your brain reacts gerrit so whiplashing to porn is NO sin my broda.besides didnt u say married men whiplash thinking of their wives by ur logic they are sinning too masturbation is not a sin and will never be a sin ffs animals masturbate |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by pweetyz(f): 2:32am On Aug 28, 2016 |
If during church programmes,people with self servicing problems are called out and prayed for then I think it's a sin Besides I doubt if one can self service without having lustful thoughts so by that act they would have also sinned in their thoughts 1 Like |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by funmercy1(f): 2:37am On Aug 28, 2016 |
SEX is between a man a woman ordinance by God, not between self, or the same SEX..... Anyway people like you are here to prove the Bible is ture.......... Running away before he called me am hypocrite..... |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by Leez(m): 2:44am On Aug 28, 2016 |
MisterKings:also increases your timing during sex i feel d main reason why ppl feel whiplash is a sin is dt in africa sex ed is mainly given to d females thus dy tend to b sexually mature and wiser compared to males cuz even doctors will advise u to do it from time to time as with all tinz in life too much of evrytin is bad oh and all thse w/lash is a sin crew newsflash:we live in a sinful world that is God taught us how to pray and receive frgivness of sins ohhhhh 1 Like |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by Leez(m): 2:45am On Aug 28, 2016 |
funmercy1:i hope u knw women have higher sex drive compared to men |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by clitah: 3:05am On Aug 28, 2016 |
@ Toks 2008, Your write-up is a highly contradictory and your responses far from polite and I plead with you to have a re-think of your journey to heaven.A holy spirit filled ,heaven bound believer ought to be peaceful in his/her responses. You seem to justify masturbation. What if you get to heaven on the last day to discover that masturbation is a sin and that nothing impure enters there? What will you do my brother/sister? Why not burn with a little passion now (according to your write-up) than that of hell because the truth is certain. Toks2008: |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by egojiokwu(m): 3:16am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Abusers of themselves shall not inherit the kingdom of God. 1corintians 6:9. Correct me if abusers of themselves are not those that masturbate 3 Likes |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by benjibabs(m): 3:53am On Aug 28, 2016 |
John 16:13 When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own but will tell you what he has heard. He will tell you about the future. For any controversial topic in the bible, our best bet is to consult the author - Holy Spirit. He is in us to guide us into all truth. |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by TradeAssistPOS: 4:01am On Aug 28, 2016 |
I hear when doctors require semen for artificial insemination they ask the man to masturbate. If you look at sperm as a human fluid which it is anyway. It may just be as simple as releasing fluids that trigger hormonal reactions. For example when a child doesn't suck breast as much as the breast priduces, mother can extract the milk out of her body without the child necessarily sucking it out. The fact that a knife can be used to kill doesn't make it bad. I understand when God specifically instructs a person to desist from the act that one should adhere out of obedience cos it's just like a child being stopped from playing video games because of tendencies. I stop my first son from playing video games outright because he doesn't even know when to stop but my daughter and second son treat video games like another toys so I hardly stop them. Now there is a main issue here. That u dont masturbate doesn't make you more righteous before God because the concept of righteousness is not what you do or don't do.It is a gift from God. So I will conclude with this if you are truly a child of God.He doesn't leave us without a guide. The Holy Spirit instructs us on matters like this through our conscience so follow his guidance. But if you're not Born Again you won't go to hell not because you masturbate. But you will go to hell because you reject God gift of righteousness through his son.Jesus Christ. And if you as a born again he has instructed you not too strive against maturbation with every blood in your body for there is a reward. The destruction comes to that one who has confessed Jesus as Lord with or without maturbation. If you want to give your heart to Christ. Just say these words after me. Lord Jesus I believe you came to the world to die for my sins, and on the third day to were raised up for my justification. I confess you as the Lord of my life from this day on. Thank God I am a child of God now. I have the life of God in my Spirit now. Amen You have a miracle of salvation to anyone who can mean those words. God bless you. I will like to read your Testimonies. 1 Like |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by horrmorr(m): 4:02am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Isaacmacdon:I thought u said good night |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by TradeAssistPOS: 4:04am On Aug 28, 2016 |
I hear when doctors require semen for artificial insemination they ask the man to masturbate. If you look at sperm as a human fluid which it is anyway. It may just be as simple as releasing fluids that trigger hormonal reactions. For example when a child doesn't suck breast as much as the breast produces, mother can extract the milk out of her body without the child necessarily sucking it out. The fact that a knife can be used to kill doesn't make it bad. I understand when God specifically instructs a person to desist from the act that one should adhere out of obedience cos it's just like a child being stopped from playing video games because of tendencies. I stop my first son from playing video games outright because he doesn't even know when to stop but my daughter and second son treat video games like another toys so I hardly stop them. Now there is a main issue here. That u dont masturbate doesn't make you more righteous before God because the concept of righteousness is not what you do or don't do.It is a gift from God. So I will conclude with this if you are truly a child of God.He doesn't leave us without a guide. The Holy Spirit instructs us on matters like this through our conscience so follow his guidance. But if you're not Born Again you won't go to hell not because you masturbate. But you will go to hell because you reject God gift of righteousness through his son.Jesus Christ. And if you as a born again he has instructed you not too strive against maturbation with every blood in your body for there is a reward. The destruction comes to that one who has not confessed Jesus as Lord with or without maturbation. If you want to give your heart to Christ. Just say these words after me. Lord Jesus I believe you came to the world to die for my sins, and on the third day to were raised up for my justification. I confess you as the Lord of my life from this day on. Thank God I am a child of God now. I have the life of God in my Spirit now. Amen You have a miracle of salvation to anyone who can mean those words. God bless you. I will like to read your Testimonies. 1 Like |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by safetyInspector(m): 4:37am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Even if everybody is doing it doesn't make it no sin. It is an unfortunate situation we found ourselves in this dying generation. My brother there is no way a single person can masturbate without having a picture in mind. The mind picture is what makes masturbation a sin. That of married couple thinking of each other is no sin, but lusting after someone other than your husband or wife is sin. |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by tanning(m): 4:39am On Aug 28, 2016 |
My duty as a believer is to win as many people as possible into GOD's kingdom not by preaching heresy or from my ideology. The bible is silent about it so why should i use human philosophy to decide what is sin or sinless. Then u must an antichrist. |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by cheezy4real(m): 4:39am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Bro stop heresy. No one masturbates without lusting ist. Some images play in ur mind ist and you gratify ur lust Which is sin already. Am glad u agreed that looking at women lustfully is seen already. Bible said we flee youthful lust. I agree gave us sexual urge but should be used as he made legal provisions in marriage. It is normal u have urge like u are hungry for meat-pie but its never an option to break MR BIGGS show glass to take one instead u pay to get one. This same way God wants us to follow due process by getting married and get as many sex we want. Its a major tool in marriage weather for fellowship, reproduction, peaceful home. Pls desist from self opinion to avoid taking many to hell. God bless u |
Re: A deeper look into the act of masturbation. by Toks2008(m): 4:49am On Aug 28, 2016 |
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