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Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by jabojafa(m): 5:08pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
thekingisback:waz it a written contract that she must hv sex with him if he provided those things? Mind u d guy wz just doing it out of his supposed care n luv for her. So he has no right to demand for any sexual gratification unless he marries her. She is never obligue to give sex to him not minding wot ever he has done for her. He must hv done it with out any hidden motives. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by engrDTIN(m): 5:09pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Its a good thing to say no sex till marriage but my question is did you define the relationship before you guyz embark on it or its jus a sudden decision of yours? because the guy in question might be doing all that all for sex.. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by omoikea(m): 5:10pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: *yawns* i smell someone who has been hurt several and trying to build nonsense walls let me keep yawning ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by ojnnaco(m): 5:11pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
tellwisdom:Lols. thumb up Bro. . U scored him nice, He has been helpful in all ramifications and yet the one way you can show your own niceness you choose to lock it up. . .Any more delay you might loose him and your case will be tabled for Shiloh 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by herald9: 5:11pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:I'm not concerned with the guy's comment. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I only asked a question you're trying to dodge. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Gus57(m): 5:12pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
flokii: That's fact right there!!! |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by stuffs4me(m): 5:13pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ: What's the difference? She didn't point a gun at his head and said buy me this and that but she was manipulative. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by jabojafa(m): 5:14pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
donbenedict:yeah that wud be better for even you. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Zetra(m): 5:15pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
falconey:100likes I do have that ish with virgin ladies(i don't know but 90% OF my date into serious relationship). I don't know if it's a jinx but last-last I will find out(visual checking after hot romance) she is a virgin and I respect their choice, waiting till marriage. Then I start to relent in my effort because most don't bring anything except that "virginity". I will invest emotionally, mentally, financially(mostly calls/gifts/visiting), even physically(gym things) but if I take stock of the relationship and look at examples, I find I am working and gaining what (virginity shey). I have meet disflowered ladies, just friends no sex/romance but they will make such u you are mentally Ok, one even helped me to job-hunt during service, just that she was engaged already 2 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Nobody: 5:15pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
herald9:if we're so entitled,why won't you allow me 1 have my view/opion about his post? 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Nobody: 5:15pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Glory12345:Who gave you the idea of no sex before marriage?. Let me tell you, that mantra only makes sense,sincerely speaking, if you are a virgin. Otherwise throw it into the bin if you are not a Virgin. It is serious hypocrisy of the highest order for a girl who had had sexual relationships before to tell a guy the silly no-sex-before-marriage simply because he proposed to marry her. The only thing I advise ladies to do is to be discreet enough to be in well defined relationships. One that is mere friendship shouldn't end up in bed except you just wanted to please yourselves where there is mutual respect, love, and trust but one that is heading for the alter shouldn't be destroyed by the no sex before marriage thing except you are a virgin and has decided not to be touched till you are married. An honest man will even love and respect you more for this. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by fineboynl(m): 5:16pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
supermarket boy friend. the op is a player she already made it clear a supermarket boy means she is getting a free supply of super market Goodie's from the dude. 2 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by CosmicJames(m): 5:17pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
kbright2:How did u know? You've being doing it? Guy, forget ladies. I tell u, this same lady that is forming virgin mary for this particular guy ll have unlimeted sex with another guy. One simple truth remains: a man or woman that ll stay ll stay with sex or without sex. 3 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Ghost447(m): 5:17pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Sometimes you look back at girls you spent money on rather than send it to your mum and you realise witchcraft is real -Robert Mugabe- 3 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by AtomAdeyemi(m): 5:17pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Sermwell: You Are On Point |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by vinneyville(m): 5:18pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
ponti93:I believe this is the best advice on this thread. Secondly I really don't support the idea of pple coming to NL to seek for advice on personal issues....there are counselors out there who are specially trained for these things. NLwill only get u more confused and frustrated. 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by achieverme(m): 5:18pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Glory12345: You said he helped you in many ways. How many ways have you helped him in the relationship? Can you mention just one thing you have contributed to his life? Or he is doing all the giving, while you are doing all the taking? And you still expect him to remain without fvcking you? 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by MosesNG(m): 5:18pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Mustack:Then there's something about the "sweet dick giving" that you are doing wrong. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Rushtec(m): 5:21pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Since u love him and he love u, then advise him to pay ur bride price. Dt has established the marriage right. All other is ceremony. So he can bleep all Night |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Ghost447(m): 5:22pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Glory12345:What do you mean by "my supermarket boyfriend"? Does it mean you have other boyfriends who work in other places?, I don't think you're serious with him. 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by jabojafa(m): 5:25pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
MrTruth4real:you dnt knw wot a priceless jewel u jst lost by d brk up. She wz helping u to preserve ur soul frm destruction. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by herald9: 5:25pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:The question was not in relation to his post. I just asked to know. Can you tell me, please? |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Dantee005(m): 5:25pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Am a gy but i'll tell u the truth... If he really loves you, he'll wait for u.... 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by rosalieene(f): 5:27pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Op, don't listen to most of the advices given to you by most guys on this forum. Tomorrow they will still be the ones to call you cheap, slut, olosho, ashewo. since you've decided to keep yourself till marriage, don't give in to your bf, highest he will leave you but you would move on with your life. You will still meet someone who would respect your wish. Giving into sex doesn't mean he will stay with you. We all know that there are some many guys that pester girls for sex, when they get what they want, they flee. I am really disappointed in most comments here mostly by the guys. HYPOCRITES everywhere 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Nobody: 5:28pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
herald9:no but it was 2 my opion/view of his post ,which according 2 you I'm entitled 2. Have you changed yer mind about that ![]() |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by jabojafa(m): 5:28pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
MrTruth4real:he wudnt need to do dt why.... Becos he has prepared a special man for her. And u knw wot that man cnt be you becos Light n darkness cnt be together. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Longman6(m): 5:31pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
jacko4real:Best advice, op be wise and follow this |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by mikhaillibran: 5:32pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Since u noticed hes been acting up,wat effort av u made, did u try calling him to order, tlk to him,xpress ur mind |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by jabojafa(m): 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
dahmie2013:it disheartening alot of us youth dont fear God again but most of us do go church... Op take this advice... Fear God and act like Joseph in d bible. 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
stuffs4me: How did you know she was manipulative? Where you there? Are you the boyfriend in question? See how you just concluded on something you dont know about. Smh |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by herald9: 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:OK.. I condemn his post in its entirety. Will you answer my question now? |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by greatermax77(m): 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Our Nigeria girls and no sex story untill marriage don tire me. why did 't u wait till marriage before u collect his money? The one u love u will not give him, but u may have one small boy u are giving it to. use ur head abeg, to get a man who love u & u love him is not easy. True love is unconditional. 2 Likes |
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