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Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by andyanders: 6:29pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Op, why must you in the first place, collect any form of assistance from him? Why are you saying you love him so much? Ladies will call a guy names and tag him as been stingy if he is hard for ladies to extract cash from his pocket.pocket. You ladies feel good accepting financial assistance from guys and sometimes, call him your Maga". You are into relationship with someone and you don't want any s3x from him, good, but why collect any financial assistance? That is why most ladies get killed, rapped, or been bathed with acid if they meet the wrong guy. Op, it is better you let him be and walk out of the relationship if you cannot meet up with his demand. And please, since you are No S3x till marriage, never date any man. stay by yourself until a man discover you, pay your dowry and marry you. That night, open your legs. It will be so sad if at the end of the day, you are not the so called virgin, the rest will be history. 2 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by fitinwell: 6:29pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Glory12345:[size=18pt]Op you have not mentioned in your story how you have also recipocated the kind gesture from your Man friend...or is he your maga friend answer me and i will come back to advice.[/size][size=8pt][/size 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by falconey(m): 6:29pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Ishilove: every mention I got from that post came from ladies and they were solely antagonizing the remark. my notion is tenable because I was being practical. i gave my best reply, I hope you'd read them from subsequent pages. 2 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Harinholar(f): 6:31pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
So LOVE is now a give and take issue......MONEY in d case of the guy and SEX in the ladies part.... chaiii.......anywaz it all depend on ur mutual agreement bfor u venture into it....as for me, u support me financially emotionally physically all whatever I wll also do d same so that wen I stand on my decision it wll be respected....Ladies gat to receive brain diz dayz ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Nightingale(m): 6:32pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Some girls have the mindset "No sex for you but you can keep helping me financially." Some would even phrase it like this,"If you really love me you'll wait." That's crap. First you are not a virgin and he is your freaking bf. It's only if you have ulterior motives. Some just like to have their cake and eat and when the table turns they start playing "victim". 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by dubbiskelly(m): 6:33pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
From my experience, most folks who talk no sex before marriage don groove live sotey dem taya come dey old. My dear give him some cookies joor, it's not as though the cookie is still intact and sealed the way it came off the line. After some ruff guys don tear tear the packet finish u wan come use tape to hold am dey tell my poor guy gibbrish. Free the guy abeg. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Feanah(f): 6:33pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
lilmax:This is the best advice for you |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by bukalis(m): 6:34pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:I stand with you on this.....U said it all 2 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by MyPicsSaysItall: 6:35pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ: rosalieene: My dear, you are getting it all wrong. Yes, there are few guys out there who just want the sex & that is it BUT to most guys, Its not all about sex. The question is 'What has/can she offered/offer in the relationship?' A relationship is meant to be symbiotic not a 'one-way' thing @ the highlighted....I guess you are joking 2 Likes
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Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by GoodSide: 6:37pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
biach if u a virgin..then three gbosa for you. if u one of dose lame,shoprite hang out typa biach who got her pekus busted by a big ass dhick long ago,making u a dhic sucking ho.non virgin. nothing like no sex till after marriage 4a bich bich please.u must got some mental disease. lazy ass supermarket bich.hopin to prey on rich kids.bich 4 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 6:39pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
MyPicsSaysItall: I am most definitely not joking, it is literally exhausting reading what some guys type here, the way they think makes me wonder why they are surprised they end up dating girls that have nothing to offer them. 2 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by 2odd(m): 6:40pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
dubbiskelly: LIKE chai, this girls are damn funny,she wont state it clearly from onset o, guys are always clear about what they want. Virtually every guy love to have sex with his gf . A guy have to b sexually active with his gf. Am so sure the girl go later dey create threads like my husband dvck is small , i am falling in love with my husbands brother, help am sex starved. The thing wey dey vex me pass is dat she referred to him as her supermarket bf. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Revolva(m): 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: Una go buy. Gift taya for una self until the. Relationship goes boring. Girl go suck. His. Pole n. Let him bang ya brain out |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by zubinike(m): 6:43pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Glory12345: After reading this am pasting and you don't have a clue, know that u need the village heads meeting GIVE IT TIME... When someone comes and tells you, I can't sleep without you, I love you the way you are and I can put up with your good and bad attitude. Before you commit your heart please GIVE IT TIME. When You just met someone today and feel like marrying him/her tomorrow, before you do remember you needed to GIVE IT TIME When you visit your uncle and you will stay there for 2months holidays, don't be carried away that they serve you your preferred food and give you hot water to bath during your first two days and you start making arrangement to relocate to their house, First GIVE IT TIME. When a brother visits you and wakes you up by his shouting of prayer from 12am to 6am, please don't shut him down, first GIVE IT TIME. When a bro joins your fellowship in First year and he is in every group/wing, please don't rush and make him a leader rather GIVE IT TIME. When you enter a new environment and everybody worship you and eat your mess don't be carried away just GIVE IT TIME. When someone comes with a new business with unbelievable promises, please before you involve your money, first GIVE IT TIME. When you see a new church in town and you hear their waves, before you conclude about how hot they are first GIVE IT TIME. Finally when you are in a cross road of decisions, you don't know what to do, ask the people or person involved to please give you time. The wise priest in the Bible in Acts told them to leave Peter and John...Rather, give them time. You can be good in giving people tests and trying out who they are...some people know how to pass them all but the test of time they fail. Time tests Love and proves it. Time tests businesses and authenticates it. Time tests spirituality and reveals it. Time, a good tester. Don't say that NEPA in your area is now the best until you have GIVEN IT TIME. Your Uncle or Father told You that you are useless and worthless and can't amount to anything, just laugh it away and ask them to GIVE YOU TIME. 2 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by pat1612(m): 6:45pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Bad investment by guy i think he invested and is not getting returns so will not blame guy better if you don't wanna give him just leave him alone. my view no offence ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Feanah(f): 6:48pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Pls don't give it to him o...There's nothing wrong with waiting till after marriage,even if he's helping you financially,ipt doesn't matter ...I'm from the north,and it's the norm here to wait till after marriage.There are men here who not only financially take care of the girl , but help her family too as much as they can if she's from a poor background...Or some that even wait for years,especially if she has to get done with her higher education.If he really loves you,even if he doesn't see anything wrong with doing it before marriage;he'll respect your decision and wait. If he's not willing to wait,pls let him go. And even if you're not a virgin like some claim,still wait till after marriage ...no need sleeping with someone that's not your spouse;at the end of the day, he'll still leave if he wants to. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by GeniusDavid(m): 6:55pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
If you know you "CANT" then maybe break up? Cos honestly he'd go ahead to eat from another Garden if he hasn't started already!! On the other hand! If he truly loves you, he should TRY HARD to respect your views! Although it gotta be tough! Best Option = Quit. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Nobody: 6:55pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Glory12345: Your first post ![]() ![]()
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Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Irishrena1(f): 6:56pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
But why did you feel the need to lie and say that you have been following NL in ghost mode only? You have created so many threads and have been very active here. This makes me wonder if you are also lying about this particular topic. Lying is a huge turn-off for me. Lie better next time and not on a national forum and you'll get very reasonable turn out |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by MyPicsSaysItall: 7:01pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ:lol ![]() I'm happy you admitted that some ladies have nothing to offer. Some ladies are seen as sex objects by some guys because of the impression they (the ladies) create. The truth is 'Real Men cherish/respect ladies who are independent with high self esteem' 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by AlanSugar(m): 7:08pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: See tiff! 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by tivta(m): 7:12pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
falconey:Beautiful, absolutely beautiful, if only Nigerian girls would understand the way a man thinks, I have been in a no sex relationship because the girl is a virgin, but to claim celibate while not a virgin, most men won't agree. There needs to be a compromise. 2 Likes |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by mastelbiz: 7:13pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
If he loves you, he will wait for you. Once you drop the goodies, you are done with. Lastly sex will affect your will to know if he is really your soulmate. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by AlanSugar(m): 7:16pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Na waoh, kids everywhere! |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Nobody: 7:18pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by femi4: 7:24pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:Abeg which one be emotional needs |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by iwatch: 7:29pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
rosalieene:I am impress |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by winkmart: 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
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Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by CioAngels(f): 7:32pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
If you are 18 and above, then you are not a teen that has to be overly monitored. You know what is allowed and what is not, So, the DECEISON is SOLELY yours to take as No Advice will mean anything to you becos you are in love already as you claim. Please FOLLOW your heart depending on how seriously you both are. Unfortunately, the mind is Very deep that you can never know the TRUE face of LOVE. |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by stuffs4me(m): 7:34pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
beautiful232: Reminds me of my NYSC days in Ogun state. There was this girl living downstairs to my house, she was a student of Tai Solarin University. She was in a no sex till marriage with one dude like that. But mehn, I fvcck this girl like say tomorrow no dey. For nearly a year I was fvccking heavily. She even had aborrtiion sef. But she still kept the dude in a no sex till marriage. Sometimes when I see this guy come around to see her I used to feel sorry for him sha. 1 Like |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Nobody: 7:40pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
winkmart:Correct guy! |
Re: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by Compliant(m): 7:40pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
lilmax: YOU MUST BE THINKING VIA YOUR ANUS GUY NA PERSON LIKE YOU WOMEN DEY USE AS HOUSE HELP 1 Like
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