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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Revolva(m): 5:01pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Batunphon(m): 5:02pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
I thank God for you bro. We should always pray and be mindful of whom we are committing ourselves with. It was good you discover the person she was in due time and made a hard decision to journey ahead for your suited rib. It well. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Joe171(m): 5:02pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
*in Seriki's voice* salary mi ni budget, omo ma lo ro nu si. thunder fire any girl wey wan chop and never contributing. pathetic girls, some of them cannot even assist you with advice or ideas. 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by NevetsIbot(m): 5:03pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Boss13:Well... I have done my part and the rest is up to her. Ive been drumming this into her ears for years now, I with my elder sis.... ..... The ball is in her court |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:04pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Toks2008: Bros no be me swear for una o. E dey for Genesis, God Don swear say men go labour till una die. So free me a beg. Go out and work. We no go still carry our punishment take join una own. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by EdoBoy90(m): 5:05pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
I know the gold diggers ladies in the house will not comment here because they are all guilty. Nemesis will caught with others. Mr. Seun, tell those your boys not to ban me because if they do I will leave Nairaland for you. 6 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by diva90: 5:05pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Good for you |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by vectoh(m): 5:07pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
apasino01:wetin concern us... |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:07pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
We see them everyday. ![]() We know they want money ![]() They know we want sex ![]() We give them money ![]() They give us sex. ![]() But we camouflage it ![]() With the title Girlfriend. ![]() It's an agreement Not a relationship Just business No strings attached 13 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Lovelynature(m): 5:07pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by akeensbussy(m): 5:08pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
some lady are terrible...That is why I can joke with my wife for a second...This is a lady I met in Surulere, told her I leave at Sango Ota. The day she came to visit me in a room and parlour with no Chair, TV, etc. just a bed in my room. I told her my dreams she believed me and gave me the chance to prove myself. Today, we have made a lot of things happened in our lives. 2 lovely kids, Landed properties, 2 units of 3 bedrooms flats on different land. One at lintel, to be roof soon the other at foundation level and still counting. I don't take her word for a joke for a seconds...before we started building our recent 3 bedrooms, I told her is high time with bought car, she said no that we should finish our house before anything car. U know what, I obeyed without blinking. she encourage me a lot especially when I lost my job. Men cherished woman that has inner beauty, good advice and discipline. Not the one who fake everything... May God guild you in choosing your future partner 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by queenfav(f): 5:09pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Please most guys are worse money mongers than ladies now.When many are looking for a woman that would their bills.I am not supportive of lazy women,but men..try and work hard!I met a guy recently and he was like "i thank God u are working class o,u wont be disturbing me for money". Bottomline,he clearly wanted to enjoy d privileges of dating without picking up some small bills occasionally.My point is,who no like better thing?Men and women alike,learn to work for your own money to avoid insult. 6 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by KevinDein: 5:11pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
akeensbussy:what a lucky man you are. 5 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by EdoBoy90(m): 5:15pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
queenfav:. ur kind out there are the worst. They have caused more harm to guys than d guys to they. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by odimbannamdi(m): 5:16pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by beautiful232(f): 5:16pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
such women are everywhere bro she will remain der na she Want to always take but won't give nonsense lady there is nothing as nice as a supporting wife |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by zuto4u(m): 5:17pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Wow! I can perceive wisdom. Thanks bro for your wonderful advice bennyrazz: |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by golddust6000(m): 5:17pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
moderator u banned me for no reason? God is watching you in 3D. back to the post, for me, i have made of my mind not to date a nigerian girl anymore, i found out that most Nigerian girls are gold diggers. i have been to diff part of the world, dated diff african girls, none have given me headache of money wahala, and they are way prettier than naija girls. 5 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by KevinDein: 5:19pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
queenfav:what a whacked mentality. Pray tell, what are the privileges of dating you are talking about in your post and is the man the only one enjoying those privileges? You ladies should keep up with the whacked mentality. men are becoming smarter these days and I doubt any intelligent man with dignity will want to wife a woman who thinks that having sex with him is a privilege he needs to compensate her for. Wtf 9 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by lastpage: 5:19pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
jopretty: Your post is very sensible but the bitter truth is that WE DONT LIVE IN A SENSIBLE WORLD! Let us assume that the Lady does all the above "NOW", Does that guarantee that they would be together TOMORROW? Does that guarantee that the marriage would last more than a year or two? Does that guarantee that he would not cheat or marry a second wife? Does that guarantee that he would be alive in the next five years so she can "get a compensation" for all that sacrifice of the past? Does that guarantee that she would not cheat on him later? What l am driving at is that "What happens NOW is not a guarantee for what will happen in the future (LATER) Since we are talking about MONEY/WEALTH and SECURITY on this topic (the idea of the @Op), l will restrict my arguments to that. Like l said earlier, what you suggested are very, very good and shows you are a good lady but l will like to add that the bottom line is that No ONE should hinge their Life's happiness on another person or what the other person can provide for them. If you must hinge your happiness on resources (Money), make sure you are able to provide it FOR YOURSELF. Women should study hard like Men Women should work hard and get a good job (not necessarily one that jeopardises their marital chances..... Bar-Lady! ![]() Women should have the mindset of "providing for themselves", ...whatever your husband brings should be a PLUS. Women should think about also "bringing to the table" in a marriage, not waiting for the husband on all things Money While an ambitious are hardworking man is desirable (as that trait affects other aspects of his lifestyle) a man that respects you (I did not say one that is AFRAID!), loves you for "who you are and as you are", shares your goals and vision about life or at least you both are on the same plane as regards those things, one that does not worship money (desperadoes), believes-in, respects and fears God (not a religious fanatic or religious "Mugun" that needs his Pastor's permission to even make love to his wife, those ones are even worse! ![]() Many a women have lost good potential spouses because they are "thinking of what the Man can do for them" and not "what they can do for themselves ....and then to the Man". Just like Men, Women should "develop themselves" first, to the point where they can pay their way (but not using that to become arrogant to their Men).... then think about Marriage after. Lastpage! |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:19pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
akeensbussy: Oga speak for yourself. The fact you appreciated her doesn't mean there are wives who are not living in regret after standing behind their husbands. Some men forget the pasts when they finally "arrive".Bless your home. 8 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:22pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
OP maybe someone advice you to took the step or you yourself wise up early i congratulate you the best of life don,t you know sometime you need your brain to calculate everything is not about being smart i thank God for you girls no go kill us sha |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by GossipHeart(m): 5:23pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Is her name Uniqueness01 ?? That one is a big time Diamond digger Spits 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:24pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
jopretty: 99.9% of them ![]() |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by lastpage: 5:25pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
queenfav: It is not a must, that he must pick the Bills! Why dont you pick it or dont you also enjoy the privilege of dating him? This is exactly what l am talking about. Women like you think dating a man is a privilege tot he man ONLY and he should pay for it by picking the Bills. Get real and pay your own fare! The Man in question was just happy that being a "working class girl", you will be willing to pick yoru own share of the Bill and not turn hom to an ATM....... but l guess he was wrong! You still want to dig into his purse. ![]() ![]() Lastpage! 9 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Lovelynature(m): 5:25pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
akeensbussy:Wow! This is so lovely. I pray to meet that kind of woman |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Mypeople2(m): 5:26pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kennybabs1980:I want to thank God for your life.So many of them is money money and money. Any lady that can not plan life with a guy or assist in making a guy a better person is trash. Op instead of celebrating with you,she began to ridicule you..TRASH! 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by amalder: 5:26pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kennybabs1980:sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by bennyrazz: 5:27pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
zuto4u:u are welcome |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:27pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
jopretty: Spot on! U must d daughter of a gud mother!!! |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by yommysure(m): 5:27pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
LynnPetra: 1 million gbosa! for you.... 3 Likes |
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