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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by chigoizie7(m): 5:29pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
I always pray to God so that I will never meet such ladies in life talk more of dating them |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Wryhder: 5:30pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
greatgod2012: 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Cityguy: 5:31pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Thank God for you. However, it needs being corrected that she left you and not the other way round. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:31pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
queenfav: No mind those lazy youths, we know them, very easy to call Niger girls hold diggers, yet women are in development centres learning one skill or the other. They are not like or fathers that worked and laboured under the sun to send them to school. It's just very few of them here are productive oooo, others na polythene bags, small breeze dey carry dem throwaway. 3 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by yommysure(m): 5:32pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kuchikau: Why na bros,whenever I see this your post,I normally laugh like a mad man.abeg stop am bikoo.... 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:35pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
queenfav: No mind those lazy youths, we know them, very easy to call Niger girls hold diggers, yet women are in development centres learning one skill or the other. They are not like or fathers that worked and laboured under the sun to send them to school. It's just very few of them here are productive oooo, others na polythene bags, small breeze dey carry dem throwaway. During this recession dem dey find free food we dem go chop for single ladies house. ![]() ![]() One naira sef, them no bring o. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:38pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
adedayoa2:you talk just the way you look 'uglee' 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by ICAMETOWIN(m): 5:39pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
crackhaus:Such pathetic schadenfreude!! 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by EROMS38(m): 5:39pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
jopretty:you are a wonderful woman I guess... women like u r difficult to come by in dis our badt country. Godbless you! |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
With the way women are working hard this days, I don't expect some stupid comments on here. In fact wetin una won offer to women these days? Many of you can't change your boxers, na woman pant una won Kon change? As men dey find work na so women dey find work. Several idiots here get mama we dey pound fufu sell take feed them. Unu n'eri nsi! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Taryur3:you should have still helped her, God brought you guys together again for a purpose to test you remember let no man he has stood let's he falls. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by AyoolaIgwe(m): 5:44pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
greatgod2012:babe u get sense. i love ur comment. God go help us all make we no enter one chance of a life tym |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by adedayoa2(f): 5:46pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
hatbricker:guess he is a broke ass ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by ngmgeek(m): 5:54pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kennybabs1980: I thank God for you bro! Some break ups can be a great motivational factor for some people. I can relate to your story. 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by AbusM(m): 5:57pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Congratulations is in order for you brother. While some ladies think about now, some over emphasize the whole idea of marriage. I met Elizabeth while i was about to graduate in the University, a smart, pretty, intelligent and a stubborn girl. She was a virgin.. I wasnt into women either. I asked her out and she didnt give me a hearing. We were just there, not really friends and not enemies either. Her cousin happened to be my good friend who felt for me.. Fast forward, 6 years after i bumped into her on facebook, i wrote her and she responded with.. My long lost husband.. . As at then, i was newly commissioned as an officer with one of the paramilitary organizations. I had no relationship so i thought she might have had me in mind all along..we started chatting and we got calling again.. She was now a banker in abuja and still a virgin then and i traveled there to celebrate her birthday with her around this time that year (2010). I hooked a friend up in abuja and we were in the movement together. I did all a guy should do for an assumed to be-girlfriend and all.. .She had arranged a club party that night with her colleagues and we all went there, in the middle of it, we excused ourselves to talk.. I told her i was still down with her.she asked me series of questions like my plans, what the future holds and how i thought the relationship would work out.. It was like a job interview session. I gave all my graphs and she told me she doesnt think it would work out , but i figured it was because she feels i wasnt up to the standard then and i might not live up to being her dream man anytime soon.. .I returned to my base in lagos, a very sad man.. She was someone i really wished was mine.. I begged her cousin to help me talk to her to see reasons with me.. I begged her younger sister also to try to convince her.. Fast forward.. Her cousin advised me to stop hurting myself.. She also later updated me how she fell flat for a guy who did masters in the UK, and who helped her process a UK visa also.. And then jilted her .saying his mom didnt approve of their relationship. I felt for her but i had really moved on ever since the cousin advised me. Its again another 6 years after, to God's glory, I am married to a medical doctor is i would say is the best wife in the word.. We dont live in Nigeria anymore, I have properties here and there, i give to people and encourage people.. However its so sad that Elizabeth is yet to find the man she had a description of. She is 33 now. I pray God gives everyone wisdom to make the right decisions and have faith that tomorrow would be alright no matter how today looks like. Anyone can be great and up to standard. Marriage is not so difficult, infact there is not point focussing on the negative things in life. You need just the basics, faith, patience, supports and prayers. You cant be the judge to destiny. Only God knows everything! 11 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 6:01pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() This forum sef. Everybody with their stories ![]() ![]() Nobody fit talk as them abandon their oldies wey follow them suffer ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by 3sexy: 6:02pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
95% of young girls these days are like that , when they almost expired , they will be forming humble ! Got married as a 200 L student to my hubby who was a fresh graduate , he had nothing , the only thing we had was love and faith ., but today God has blessed us beyond human imagination. I don't know why girls keep running after rich guys as if it a crime for them to make money themselves . 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by nortcentrallord(m): 6:08pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kennybabs1980: Op your thread is inspiring but some will still fall to such. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by kushme: 6:11pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Cathony:. Bros, I no like this kind talk oh, "find which good man" so, the good man could suffer the same way the husband was used and dumped. I reject this selfish woman for any good and reasonable man out there. Let her change her way. 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 6:17pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
queenfav: Look here woman, FYI , if you aren't working as a Lady, you are a liability and nothing more to everyone around you. "he clearly wanted to enjoy d privileges of dating without picking up some small bills occasionally" So your dating him is to be paying some bills for you ? I'm guessing your definition of small bills is buying you a new iPhone 7 and a new Brazilian hair. You are suppose to guide him in ways which he can invest & plan for both your future, Bible call women help mates, not Money suckers ! Chaii. 3 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by raziboi(m): 6:18pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
jopretty: your kinda lady..... are scarce!!! |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Fourwinds: 6:18pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kennybabs1980:She will definitely become ashawo in d quest to satisfy her greed |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by ojuolu(m): 6:21pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
jopretty:God bless you real good. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Orikinla(m): 6:21pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
She is acting her name VIOLA! ![]() |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by LuvU2: 6:26pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
adedayoa2:True talk |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 6:28pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
A song for her type: U think say d world dey revolve around ur bum bum U think say d world dey revolve around ur bum bum U think say d world dey revolve around ur fine face Holl up,Holl up,Holl up :-D 1 Like
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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by chiboy55(m): 6:30pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
just they thank ur god say these girl no send u bark to village |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 6:35pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
thank God for your life. For both guys and ladies never underestimate anybody, train yourself to see good in people until they give u reason not to. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Boss13: 6:36pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
queenfav: Excuse me, please!!! Why should he pick your bills ![]() So why would you want to bother a young man who is still sorting himself out and you are arrogant about it. I shake my head. Please get yourself some exposure and understand what dating is all about. I think you have lost the main context of an intimate relationship, it is one enjoyed by both parties involved and not where one seeks to get paid for opening her legs. 3 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Boss13: 6:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
3sexy: At the bolded, how many young guys are rich? Let's be honest about it. A young man of 25 - 30 is still in the planning phase. They are going after married men, who are willing to spend. Let's call a spade a spade. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Prince16: 6:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
bennyrazz:Gbam @ d bolded! 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by JuanDeDios: 6:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
gidjah:Touching story |
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