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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 7:20pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Boss13: When it comes to culinary skills, what happened to your hands, brain and ability? You get my point now? Or would you change your argument when that is brought up? You can't eat your cake and have it. 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by iwatch: 7:22pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
LynnPetra:hian. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:22pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Boss13: You don't know my type. Your mother did a good job covering your father's shameful self.If you dare insult me again, you won't like my next comment. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 7:22pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
JuanDeDios: If you agree that cooking is for men and women, then we're on the same page. Most don't agree, and that's where my issue with them not having money comes in. I mean, marriage is give and take shey? If you want food, then I want money. Simple. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by jopretty(f): 7:24pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Thanks, again! But take your bitterness to another thread.like I said earlier, this comment aint for you. naijafeminist: 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by queenfav(f): 7:24pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
JuanDeDios:I am not a feminist.I believe a man should be the head of a home and he has specific responsibilities towards his woman.Even my younger brother while he was in secondary school used to save his break money to buy his class girlfriend novels as a gift.The girl reciprocates moat times by buying him snacks for break and other small stuff.Love is give and take.If you are broke,work hard till you van afford to do little stuff for a woman,even if its 100 naira card,she would know you are meeting a need in her life.I really pity the crop of men we have around sha!If they give them chance,they would ask a lady to pay her own bride price so they can marry her free of charge.Its common sense that if you take ur girl to the movies,you should pay d 1k for movie ticket,even if she reaches for her wallet.No woman enjoys spending her money on small things her man can afford,that's a fact!! Those that do end up being tagged as controlling and trying to emasculate the man.When tiwa savage's saga went down,very few applauded her for being the breadwinner, rather she was blamed for encouraging teebillz to be a lazy man. I am done with this issue abeg,for those who want o quote me,save your breath and energy.. I am out of here.Let me leave the trash for lawma. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Ugosample(m): 7:27pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
3sexy: You did what ![]() You are a brave person 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:28pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Fourwinds: Na the broke ones see dey carry STD pass ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Because they chase after everything under skirts because they have too much time on their hands. Unwanted pregnancies Na broken-ess cause am ![]() ![]() ![]() Abeg leave that thing. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:30pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kennybabs1980: My guy, continue to thank God for the grace he showed you and spawned you to action and you left. Many aren't as lucky. I know many not just a few. Many made the mistake of marrying pay-as-you go / cancer worm as wife due to beauty which eventually fades at a giving time. God help us all make good decisions. 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by jopretty(f): 7:32pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
You bet I do! ![]() Eaa247: |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Boss13: 7:35pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
naijafeminist: I am not complaining I am just disgusted. I started out as an employee but now I have a company with workers who work for me. I am not extremely rich, but I have a strategic plan and I am grateful I have workers and a partner committed to achieving the long-term strategic goals of my company. Thank God the recession has not caused much of a strategic drift and hopefully, we shall get close to our annual objective for the year. I stay in a lovely secure estate in Lekki paid for by my company as part of my benefit in kind (B.I.K) and two cars (though finance leased, but not from my pocket). I am also married with kids, so I do not belong to the mental categorisation you probably would have placed me and you can clearly see I am not also your age mate. I strongly criticise girls of your type because I dislike lazy girls and there are lots of them around especially in Lekki, always trying to stare right inside your vehicle. I say this not to brag but to show that money is just a tool and not a master and anybody, even a dog can get rich or accumulate some money for themselves. Hence, I wonder why ladies should pressure young men to sort them out, whilst they, themselves are equal to sort themselves out. I met my wife as a young man still dreaming and she believed, analysed with me and assisted in saving my money for me. She was and still of huge value to me. Hence, I don't get why women these days think differently. So get your priorities straight and be of value. 11 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Cathony(m): 7:37pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kushme:chairman....we're saying same thing, she'll definitely amend her ways,she might have realised her mistakes then prolly end up get married again. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:40pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
queenfav: Thanks for your clarification, but the comments are not borne from hunger and frustration, when we see something wrong, we say it. Whether recession or no recession, it has nothing to do with the fact that Most women see relationship as their way out of poverty. Anyway, i clearly understand your point of view, atleast you work for your own money. 3 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by iwatch: 7:40pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
blesoh:hahahahahahhaha... I can't stop laughing ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:40pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
60k? isn't that good? hmm some ladies sha.. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Cathony(m): 7:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
kushme:chairman....we're saying same thing, she'll definitely amend her ways,she might have realised her mistakes then prolly end up get married again |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by gidjah(m): 7:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Why would you say so?is any price too much to pay for love? ?haba na! Even the holy bible said' love is as strong as death, and if a man shall give all he has for love, it will never be enough' ... (can't remember that bible portion ),every one should be able to pay any price for love ...but if the recipient later abused it...then it is up to them.Let carma handle that part. I truly did what I did out of love and believe me when I say I still have this deep thingy for her deep inside! WHAT DO YOU CALL THAT ![]() Odunharry: |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by N101: 7:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Flashh: Most of the ladies who have commented have been called names and insulted, can you blame others for avoiding this thread? All I can see here is lightly veiled misogyny and name calling - talk about "birds of a feather". The irony. Lemme see if I can find the girlfriend equivalent thread "I Thank God I didn't marry him" 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by iwatch: 7:42pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
naijafeminist:The woman who would use that against me is wasting her time lol. I could get into the kitchen and do my things. 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by queenfav(f): 7:46pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
truthsayer007:Good,so its better to first of all ask for clarification ,before casting aspersions on the personality of someone you know nothing about.Its a forum and we are all entitled to our diverse opinions.No hard feelings though.Enjoy the rest of your evening. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by tabithababy(f): 7:47pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
what of ladies that stood by their men when things were not too rosy , only for the guys to dump them for a "better" chick when money comes. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by CaptainCodes(m): 7:48pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
LynnPetra: Madam' didn't want quote you before, but after reading all your irresponsible jargons, I had to. Wht is your problem, really? What do you want?. Attention??.. Or are you in a category where you left a "once broke, now comfortable" man before. Your anger seems so deep. Tell me, don't be shy. The OP didn't generalize, he just gave an advice based on his experience. If your fiance is broke, kuku leave him na., Abi?? 3 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:50pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
CaptainCodes: Junks. ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Boss13: 7:51pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
LynnPetra: Smile! You continue to depict how lowly you are. It is possible that your parents tried to do a good job with you but you derailed and I will not insult your parents, who are certainly not the same age category with mine. I am extremely glad to inform you have got a wrong mindset and a wrong mindset is a disease. I don't know you and I am not interested in knowing you, but you have a diseased mind that requires a psychologist. Why do I say so - You have never met me, neither have you met my father and not sure if he is alive or dead, but you are quick to insult someone you have never met before, never wronged you and someone you would probably will never meet. Such kind of person truly is sick and needs to see a doctor. I can also tell you with verified facts that I am also not your age mate, do not belong in the same class with you, you likewise, do not have the same educational status with me nor belong to world-class professional associations nor well read or traveled than me. I do not say I am better than you because I don't believe one can be better than anyone, some of my workers are more skillful than me - but I believe I have and still living a privileged life, and all thanks to the sacrifices of my hardworking parents, who are now at peace with themselves, gave to me. I will strongly advise you to look inward and do a self-assessment of yourself - what are those values you lack because it appears that you lack a lot of them. There is still time for you to help yourself out. 6 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Destined2win: 7:51pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
jopretty:That's the kind of woman I want; a woman who strives to make me walk tall at all times out of love for all that concerns me. Keep keeping it real dear |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Liability(m): 7:52pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
truthsayer007:am here |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 7:53pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
[s] Boss13:[/s] Didn't bother to read. Go meet your wife, she needs you more. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Boss13: 8:05pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
naijafeminist: I do not know how to cook, though I would love to. When I visited Mauritius with my wife, we went to a restaurant owned by an Australian or New Zealand, can't remember. I think he is from New Zealand but grew up in Australia. He is a great chef, my wife teased me about it and I decided to ask him to teach me a few skills. He was extremely glad, laughs. I only did that to hide my face from the embarrassment. There is absolutely nothing wrong for a man to know how to cook. I did not learn because I lacked the interest plus we have maids who did the cooking and I was much happy to eat, than stay in the kitchen. It also affected my sisters but they have gone to culinary schools and are doing well for their family plus I have tasted their food, that is why I advised you to do the same if you do not know how to cook. There is no shame in it. It only becomes a shame when you do nothing about it. I will certainly learn how to cook and prove to my wife that I can cook and probably let her enjoy my new acquired skills, but that should be when I retire. For now, I am busy, the market is tough and cooking is NEVER in my thought process, except now that you brought my attention to it. However, to make you happy, I can boil water. Though it's being a while I did that. Any skills can be acquired, it takes the will and persistence/determination to acquire the skill. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by joey150(m): 8:09pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Hahah. Watch how guys are claiming girls left them and they made it later.. Lol.what of those that left you and made it elsewhere! Life can swing any way.. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 8:11pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Liability: Ha ! na wah o, please change your moniker, this is not good for your status. btw, why would you call yourself that? |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Boss13: 8:13pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
LynnPetra: You cannot take criticism/advice - laughs. Seriously, jokes apart, you do need help. I am in my study room working and unfortunately this thread caught my attention. I will definitely be with her, we sleep on the same bed, plus I kissed her like I said and returned. She was wondering. So back to you getting some self-help. You have to be urgent with it. If you are serious, I can recommend some good doctors, but I will not pay for it because I am not a philanthropist and you have been rude to me. 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by diplomatvicky(f): 8:17pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
wat of d guys whom leaves d girl who truely loves dem in bad times...let's b partial in our judgement.. both sexes r involved..some guys prefer those girls who wld suck Dia pocket dry Dan d one who loves dem without d money bin Dia.... 1 Like |
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