LynnPetra:


Na the broke ones see dey carry STD pass
Because they chase after everything under skirts because they have too much time on their hands.
Unwanted pregnancies Na broken-ess cause am
Abeg leave that thing.

Boss13:


I do not know how to cook, though I would love to. When I visited Mauritius with my wife, we went to a restaurant owned by an Australian or New Zealand, can't remember. I think he is from New Zealand but grew up in Australia. He is a great chef, my wife teased me about it and I decided to ask him to teach me a few skills. He was extremely glad, laughs. I only did that to hide my face from the embarrassment.

There is absolutely nothing wrong for a man to know how to cook. I did not learn because I lacked the interest plus we have maids who did the cooking and I was much happy to eat, than stay in the kitchen. It also affected my sisters but they have gone to culinary schools and are doing well for their family plus I have tasted their food, that is why I advised you to do the same if you do not know how to cook. There is no shame in it. It only becomes a shame when you do nothing about it.

I will certainly learn how to cook and prove to my wife that I can cook and probably let her enjoy my new acquired skills, but that should be when I retire. For now, I am busy, the market is tough and cooking is NEVER in my thought process, except now that you brought my attention to it. However, to make you happy, I can boil water. Though it's being a while I did that.

Any skills can be acquired, it takes the will and persistence/determination to acquire the skill.

Boss13:


You cannot take criticism/advice - laughs. Seriously, jokes apart, you do need help. I am in my study room working and unfortunately this thread caught my attention. I will definitely be with her, we sleep on the same bed, plus I kissed her like I said and returned. She was wondering.

So back to you getting some self-help. You have to be urgent with it. If you are serious, I can recommend some good doctors, but I will not pay for it because I am not a philanthropist and you have been rude to me.

Fourwinds:
dey there dey deceive yourself...


when I was a student., d guys with dole dey fvckk any girl they like... I mean their numbers are uncountable... how much more a man dat work with good pay or business...


if camp three girls at a time dey bang dey go

naijafeminist:


On a lighter note, yes I can cook. And there's no shame in not knowing how to cook. It's not a crime. See how you felt bad about the lady that didn't want you because you didn't have money, that's how women feel bad too if they think all what a man wants from them is their culinary skills. When I imagine my marriage, I see myself bringing in a 100% percent to the table beyond being able to cook. But so many young men are so focused on cooking that I keep asking myself if it's all worth it to srife to acquire several skills and build myself career wise and all. People can just like to kill your morale these days.

naijafeminist:


On a lighter note, yes I can cook. And there's no shame in not knowing how to cook. It's not a crime. See how you felt bad about the lady that didn't want you because you didn't have money, that's how women feel bad too if they think all what a man wants from them is their culinary skills. When I imagine my marriage, I see myself bringing in a 100% percent to the table beyond being able to cook. But so many young men are so focused on cooking that I keep asking myself if it's all worth it to srife to acquire several skills and build myself career wise and all. People can just like to kill your morale these days.

LynnPetra:


Unfortunately, that's the kind of men we have these days.
They want women magician. If I can work like a man, cook, raise the kids, clean their mess, then I have the right to call my husband stupid if he dares calls me such. After all , I'm also a man by what I bring to the table as well.

Boss13:


I have told you that you need help and the more I read from you, the more I shake my head. I probably will excuse you if you are student, which would make you still young, but that is not an excuse. You will certainly remember my comment especially when you do not change your priority.

LynnPetra:


Men fyck, weda reach or poor.
That "men are polygamous in nature" isn't exclusively for the well to do. Tell me another tale.

Fourwinds:
jhahahahahahaaaa...dats what I'm saying...


u cannt compare d opportunity a rich guy have in banging and a broke guy...


so girls with rich guys should expect as much banging in house and outside house...

because money is what d girls want especially now dat recession as set in...

do u know d kind of rampaging sex dat is going on for d guys dat have d money.?

LynnPetra:
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You're not wise at all . Keep quoting me. Wife lover.

Boss13:


Go and get some help. Your priorities and mindset are mixed up. You are in desperate need of a psychologist and possibly your environment might have been the cause. I do not say this to mock you, but out of deep concern for you. Help yourself.

LynnPetra:


I no understand you ooo
Girls Bleep a guy for money, it's a mutual satisfaction. It's happening every where and in all continents. You fyck girl, give her money, EVERYONE IS HAPPY!

Fourwinds:
get my gist...


d kind of guys u seek are d most guilty.. dat is d summary of what I want to put across to you

joey150:
Hahah. Watch how guys are claiming girls left them and they made it later..

Lol.what of those that left you and made it elsewhere!

Life can swing any way..

LynnPetra:


Oga speak for yourself.
The fact you appreciated her doesn't mean there are wives who are not living in regret after standing behind their husbands. Some men forget the pasts when they finally "arrive".Bless your home.

Boss13:


Smile! You continue to depict how lowly you are. It is possible that your parents tried to do a good job with you but you derailed and I will not insult your parents, who are certainly not the same age category with mine. I am extremely glad to inform you have got a wrong mindset and a wrong mindset is a disease. I don't know you and I am not interested in knowing you, but you have a diseased mind that requires a psychologist. Why do I say so - You have never met me, neither have you met my father and not sure if he is alive or dead, but you are quick to insult someone you have never met before, never wronged you and someone you would probably will never meet. Such kind of person truly is sick and needs to see a doctor.

I can also tell you with verified facts that I am also not your age mate, do not belong in the same class with you, you likewise, do not have the same educational status with me nor belong to world-class professional associations nor well read or traveled than me. I do not say I am better than you because I don't believe one can be better than anyone, some of my workers are more skillful than me - but I believe I have and still living a privileged life, and all thanks to the sacrifices of my hardworking parents, who are now at peace with themselves, gave to me.

I will strongly advise you to look inward and do a self-assessment of yourself - what are those values you lack because it appears that you lack a lot of them. There is still time for you to help yourself out.

SnowJay92:


You keep reiterating this forget the past, I don't get it.

LynnPetra:


Bros no be me swear for una o.
E dey for Genesis, God Don swear say men go labour till una die. So free me a beg. Go out and work. We no go still carry our punishment take join una own.

Tellemall:


Pardon, but you keep emphasizing your age and how "successful" you say you are and you talk about "class"and how "privileged" your life is and how "educated" you are.

There is no point beating your chest here.

From your first posts on this thread, you have been rather misogynistic and have given very demeaning posts to female commenters because of your perceived self importance. You believe you, and only you, have the only good woman in the world and that all others are gold diggers. I hope you extend this view to every single female you see, since the ones you don't know online are lumped together with the "types" you do not like.

The reason you two are bickering online(despite your famous age and "class" and "privilege" is because you have not respected another person's view. You have tendered your opinionated views on women, branded them all persons of nothingness, and she had tendered hers too.


If you're so educated and successful and privileged, why do you hold such a narrow view on something that people of the world should try to address? You should be open to know that you cannot, in the manner you have so far done, generalize the women of the world. You emphasize your age, do you wish for men to have such narrow views on your daughter?



No offense. But all the attacks on the women who commented aresimply misogynistic. So no women who left men of bad character made it?

LynnPetra:



Na you sabi.

greatgod2012:
Many of those ladies that love money too much do not know the future. They usually use today to judge tomorrow, whereas, it's not supposed to be so.


@op, I'm happy for you that you knew what you wanted and follow your heart, if not so, she'll have made life so miserable for you due to her incessant demands of money and material things that you can hardly afford.



Besides, if they like money too much like that, why can't they work for their money and spend it the way they want instead of expecting their fellow human being to go work while they spend.

Yeye!

Op, go for Thanksgiving, I rejoice with you.

LynnPetra:


Exactly
If viola married a "Dangote" after dumping him, he won't be writing all that.

ICAMETOWIN:
Such pathetic schadenfreude!!

Fourwinds:
So expect more STIs and HIV from such guys....after all money answereth girls request

Boss13:


Laughs, read my previous comments. I did not talk about ladies not wanting me because of financial capabilities. On a more serious note, some ladies stopped dating me during my bachelorhood because they said I was arrogant and that made me express the willingness to want to change my behaviour. I am still a bit obnoxious and have a very visible overtly confidence. I have come to understand that in the Nigerian market, you need that confidence, what is it again they call it, PACKAGING - YES. However, it can put some people off and then I adjust and protrude a humble part of me especially when I know on the food chain ladder, you are higher.

It is good you know how to cook, but cooking is not everything. Build some skills, add some value to yourself. Learn a new language, add more to your education, build a business. I don't know where you are on the cadre of life, but you need more and if you certainly do want a rich dude, nothing wrong wanting good things - RIGHT, but you must be worth it.

Taryur3:
I just remembered the one that told me she can't settle with me managing 23k job far back 2012....she gave a text message that she CNT continue with me,I pleaded things gonna change buh ask for how long will things change.her next picture on facebook shocked me.she happily uploaded her pics and one Edo guy...and tagged me lols.she wrote the man of my life.fastforward the following year...I left the country for one of the best country to make living in the world.am living large and so comfortable. I was in Nigeria 4months ago and coincidentally we met at one hospital in Lagos where I came to pick my friend that is a medical doc. She couldn't believe her eye when she saw me and a brand new Toyota car I drove in.we related a little bit and I told her this is the car I bought for my mum...she couldn't close her mouth as she opened it.am in a rush while I drove off.I dropped my no with her and she keep calling for hanging out till I traveled. She explained what she is passing tru but i cnt just help.To cut it short...she is still single and seriously searching now.To the ladies ....never u underate any man even your fellow gender.nobody knows tomorrow.

naijafeminist:


See all you are asking me to do, however after all that which man will be worth me?