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Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by DICKtator: 1:50pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
How can you marry someone at 20? The question to ask is does she want to marry you? She hasn't even entered the university yet and you want to marry and sponsor her? A fair skinned, probably naive girl? After her eyes has opened in the university and she has seen a lot ,she would now dump you and you would come back here spilling and telling stories that touches!!! Use your brain!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by jeffreysawyer007: 1:50pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Definitely it's ok because she is no longer a child and if she commit a crime she will serve the sentence... Mosesbutez: |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by niggi4life(m): 1:51pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
spartoo:G for Goat.. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by schumastic(m): 1:51pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
she is not ready yet |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by ak47yong(m): 1:52pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Mosesbutez: |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Lucasbalo(m): 1:53pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
VolT0xic:You are absolutely right. It depends on the individuals and their state of mind and love and commitment to each other. Yours truly married at 23 and my wife was 21. I was just finishing my MBA and got a good job and I don't want to lose her. The painful part was my mother was against it and she reluctantly came to our wedding through the prodding of my dad. 20+ years and four children after, that's probably the best decision of my life. So it depends on the couple maturity and commitment to each other. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Kaybaba5(m): 1:53pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
If the girl wishes to marry let her go ahead but to prepare to face challenges behind marriage.. Marriage is another institution. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by misshopy(f): 1:53pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Yea It depends on her maturity |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by ak47yong(m): 1:54pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Mosesbutez:Am 20 and doing my IT in 400 level u think if I had money I wouldnt get married whats the big deal |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by yomz1e(m): 1:54pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Why not , she can be a wife and a student, but when she reaches certain age, she might come out and say I married too early, I didn't enjoy life, I did t do this and that...so caution needs to be applied here. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Wetin b their age difference? My miss married @18 ,,,,,,father much older ,,,,,,,now d man don die,,,,, Abeg make una no push her to eternal suffering |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
why not??it is very okay |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by happney65: 1:56pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
When you see a real Post..You know it..This is real not all those ones that come here and say rubbish..My Advice,Let your sister make her own decision herself..Shikena.. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:00pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
I dont see anything about what the girl wants, what I see is what the man and her parents want. Why not let the girl decide if she wants to marry now or finish her school. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by exboyolu: 2:01pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Dear questioner. Please allow the marriage after investigating the guy very well and you find out he is very responsible, God-fearing person and he is from very good home. If the findings are positive then let the marriage hold as soon as possible. It is not compulsory for a person to be in University before getting a better marriage and living a fulfilled life. Don't opposed the marriage please if the above findings are positive in results. Evidences abounds of several advantages of early marriages. In fact scientifically the best age to marry is 18 to 24 years for ladies. I wish her all the best. ******* From experienced married councellor and Professor. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by BABANGBALI: 2:01pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
No try am o. My is for mature people. You must be matured in everything including your toto. Tell your sister to face her studies and enjoy life small. Marriage no easy o. I have tolded you my own |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Some women marry at 18, what's the complaint here? My mother married at 20 to my then 26 year old father. The marriage still exists though not strong as when I remember vividly(40 something for him and mid 30s for her). Marriage is a game of chance; you never know what the future holds. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by ceejay80s(m): 2:02pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Mosesbutez: U don spoil the whole talk with prophets , who are these prophets? Them tell u say dem dey see any vision? Tell ur mom not t waste her time with prophet , u guys should pray to God.. Prophet indeed 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Then during the time of our grandmothers and mothers it was more than ok because their experience,training and knowledge is suitable to run a good home as mothers but comparing to this indomie time....? that is suicide mission. This indomie time,life sets at 16 and begins at 20. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by BIDOO(m): 2:03pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
chiefolododo:with this your moniker, it seems you lack the capacity it require in giving a fortune advice |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by ogawisdom(m): 2:04pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Mosesbutez: Very ok |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Fortune5588: 2:05pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
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Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by ericmor: 2:07pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
See question o |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Abbey2sam(m): 2:08pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
let your sister enjoy her youthful age, let her experience university as a free young girl buh if the guy is serious let him wait, except ofcuz your parent are no longer capable of handling her education if she enters university now, in 4 to 5 years time she will graduate, so the guy can hang around knowing fully well that your sister have him in mind |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by gbeseun(m): 2:11pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Don't allow ur sister to marry that experienced fucker,because she won't enjoy and satisfy him. The aim of this guy isn't far fetched,he was looking for a young, virgin and innocent girl to bleed both day and night,foelrget about all the promises of I will train him.that's his motive 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Greatidonis: 2:15pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
I married my wife when she was 21 graduate, and she was almost concluding her youth service when the wedding held. Age does not matter once he or she is above 18 but maturity and we you want. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Omotola did it, why not ask her |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by C2Ok: 2:16pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
(in Daniel Bryan's voice) NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO awesome(in Daniel Bryan's voice) NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO awesome(in Daniel Bryan's voice) NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO awesome |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by able20(m): 2:17pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
In Northern part of Nigeria a 20year women has stopped giving birth after 4 children. |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Dshocker(m): 2:18pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
CaroLyner: Don't mind the guy,he probably was looking for a virgin wife |
Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Kgdavid(m): 2:18pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Mosesbutez: for the reason he wants to marry your sister, it is his maturity i am worried about, not hers 4 Likes |
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