I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

You took the right decision my sister, leave him to God and you will get yours later.

maggilove:
You took the right decision my sister, leave him to God and you will get yours later.

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his faith, he has a score with whatever God he serves...

You took the right decision.
You come out as someone intelligent. Your time will come. You don't need to feel bad about it....even in your previous thread, you were told. It was obvious where he was driving at. You've cleared the air with him. Now it's your performance at the recruitment process that will be the only deciding factor.

Goodluck.

You did the right thing but would have been more appropriate for you to slap him in front of all people in hotel and cry so when they ask you what happen you could have told them story and embarrass him in full view.
A walk of shame would have followed which would have made you feel better

Just my view no offence intended

tempest01:


You took the right decision.
You come out as someone intelligent. Your time will come.

amen ..happy Sunday

pat1612:
You did the right thing but would have been more appropriate for you to slap him in front of all people in hotel and cry so when they ask you what happen you could have told them story and embarrass him in full view.
A walk of shame would have followed which would have made you feel better

Just my view no offence intended

euchaaria:
amen ..happy Sunday

Happy Sunday...put a smile on that pretty face.

Hmm, some pple sha, I know a way of handling his kind so he doesn't do it to the next lady...

Anyways, it's a good thing they did not offer you a job in such an environment with such 'untouchable' superiors...

euchaaria:

Don't worry you will get a better job offer just keep on trying

And for clarification walk of shame would have been of the guy in question and he would have never tried it again in his life what kind of man want favor in return of job.
As of your prospect of getting job with organisation is over if i were u in your place and had some proof regarding his demand i would have went to office and have shown it to all his co workers so as for them to know what kind of person they are working with and believe me he would have got a lesson for life if even no body can remove him from his job the shame that he would have face would have been enough of revenge
My point of view
Best of luck for your job hunt

Some people will just act as if sex is one big deal. Will the man now say he doesn't have a wife or girlfriend?

pat1612:


Don't worry you will get a better job offer just keep on trying

And for clarification walk of shame would have been of the guy in question and he would have never tried it again in his life what kind of man want favor in return of job.
As of your prospect of getting job with organisation is over if i were u in your place and had some proof regarding his demand i would have went to office and have shown it to all his co workers so as for them to know what kind of person they are working with and believe me he would have got a lesson for life if even no body can remove him from his job the shame that he would have face would have been enough of revenge
My point of view
Best of luck for your job hunt

euchaaria:

not even a head?

please what is greasing of bed biko.I need clarifications pls.
happy Sunday holy and chosen people

wailing:

not even a head?

that is uncalled for dear..happy Sunday

Oh dear, I don't knw who u are, but I will look for you and marry you

Hisduchess:
please what is greasing of bed biko.I need clarifications pls.

happy Sunday holy and chosen people

come here lemme pound u

@ op, do you have a recording of your conversation with the man asking to have canal knowledge of you in exchange of a job?

What is the name of the organisation where this man works in?

If the answer to the first question is YES, kindly send me a PM.

Must have taken alot of guts to turn down his offer. Just keep searching, a much better job would surely come your way. Be strong

euchaaria

tis well babe.am sure if you had given in to his request, there is a possibility of him asking again or passing you among his close friends for a chunk.just keep your heads high & let it slide.better days ahead for you

Abeg move on... The lord will bring a better offer your way.

MilesLamar:
Oh dear, I don't knw who u are, but I will look for you and marry you

Yimu

You still went alone. Just thank God it wasn't something more serious.
Don't worry, there are other opportunities available.
Who knows... Maybe that job is not for you.

You had the opportunity to nail him but you let it pass by.

Now another lady out there will still fall a victim, when that Idiat would've been made to face the full wrath of the recession after he must have been sacked and shamed...

When you see something, say something.

Change begins with you, Ma.

herald9:
You had the opportunity to nail him but you let it pass by.

Now another lady out there will still fall a victim, when that Idiat would've been made to face the full wrath of the recession after he must have been sacked and disgraced...

When you see something, say something.

Change begins with you, Ma.

She may neither have had the strength nor the time to pursue a lawsuit.
And it's not as if it would get her the job afterwards.

DrayZee:

She may neither have had the strength nor the time to pursue a lawsuit.
And it's not as if it would get her the job afterwards.

On her other thread, several people suggested she went with a recorder and, or a police officer. That shiit would've ended there and other employers will take caution.

If we continue sidelining ourselves, sadly this illegal practice will never stop.

herald9:

On her other thread, several people suggested she went with a recorder and, or a police officer. That shiit would've ended there and other employers will take caution.

If we continue sidelining ourselves, sadly this illegal practice will never stop.

You seem to have forgotten that we're in Nigeria. Once the guy drop small money, the entire lawsuit will be swept under the carpet.

Don't worry my dear! Things will eventually turn out well for you. You are a virtuous woman. Keep it up! But on the other hand, if this man is not married, it could be a test you know!? Just saying.....tho I'm not sure. He could be looking for a wife, sees you and then decides to test you........and you passed! Don't quote me, I'm just trying to see this in a different way.
Then if he really wants to get down there......then I leave him to God.....the great judge!


#keepsearching
#keeponkeepingon

DrayZee:

You seem to have forgotten that we're in Nigeria. Once the guy drop small money, the entire lawsuit will be swept under the carpet.

Who's talking about a lawsuit here?

Maybe you've forgotten that the media is more effective than our judiciary system.

Just let his face grace the Internet, and the rest would be handled by nature

Hmmmm, but y go in d First place Is der something we don't know. We truly are in end times. In many companies and firms ,servicing of ogas nd manager has been included in their job description. Nawa