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mztubsy:
hello people.what if I told you I've been reading from page 1-116 just to keep up with everybody.its so amazing how much we women can achieve by being supportive of one another.wheew! this is a power house I must say.ive read of miracle stories of how God stepped into situations and the rest was history.i hope to form a bond also here.its so much easier when u can express yourself with fellow women who are also going through similar issues with you....thanks everyone. now to my story.id be 7months in my marriage in 2 days and I haven't conceived yet.i and DH dated for almost 4 years and during that time I used postinor2 contraceptive quite a number of times.not for once during our courtship did I get preggers.fast forward to now.few months ago I noticed some slight changes in my vagina.i realised there was a terrible odour during and after sex(strong fishy smell) so I went to the doctor and he diagnosed that I had PID(even tho Base on google,the symptoms I had where those of BV...bacteria vaginosis).test results came out and he didn't even inteprete it to me.he just wrote some antibiotics for me to use and also wrote for my hubby too.we started 3 days ago and we still on it .believe me i've been getting stares from people.the hurtful truth is that our society places so much pressure on women.everyone is looking at my tummy and asking questions like it's my fault I'm not pregnant yet......please I'd lik to know if there's a chance that I would be able to conceive after treating this PID(ive heard gory details of its effects on the uterus)..everyone around me is getting preggers.fast and giving birth.so u would understand that I am very depressed at this point.....experienced people in tg house an doctors,your views will be highly appreciated as Google isn't helping matters at all.thanks......baby dust to all expectant mothers.muah!!!!!

NIFES:
Hello to everybody in the house.
Please I crave all your indulgence to asking this question;
I have been following this thread silently since last December after I lost the second of my boy/girl twins at 2 months old due to chromosomal abnormality. The first twin (boy) was born sleeping also suspected to have been affected with the same issue.
Now trying to conceive again but can't help but be worried over the past traumatic experience with the twins.
A few of my numerous questions now are ;
(1) If there is any preventive measure that can be taken against a re-occurrence (Note: I have been taken Folic Acid as advised for preconception) ?
(2) If there is any test that I need to undergo to check my overall health (especially egg health) state to concieve
Suggestions are most welcome please and if this is the wrong thread to post this question, kindly redirect me please.
Please help a worried soul.
Thank you all and God bless.

pweetymii:
Welcome to our e.familia of amour @NIFES(which of the NIFES u be,lol) and @Mztubsy(choi,i almost bite my tongue),wishing u maamas a short and fruitful stay.
@NIFES,it's good you are on folic acid,but,u should also see a gynae who will advise you to run a complete Hormonal assay and most likely Hsg.Don't worry,have no fear,affliction will not arise again,you will take in soon and God will make everything perfect.
@Mztubsy,in addition to what maamas have said,if u can change ur undies after the treatment please do(it is advisable) and then,if u also can,when u wash,spread in the sun or iron if there is light.In addition to the antibiotics,u can buy a herbal tampon(guifei bao or clean point)it helps in treating Pid too.Hope this helps..
@mommatriplets,ur gynae should tell u how many units to buy except u are self medicating.Trigger shots are classified as cold chain so ensure u buy one that is brought out from the fridge,if u are not taking it immediately,some good pharmacies wud add ice blocks wen packing it for u.
@rhukkie,happy born day.may this new year usher in every of ur heart desires.
@adewilliams thanks for that uplifting bible passage.
@janix2,how is u now,hope u are feeling better?
Yes dear I am,thanks for checking me up

FruitfulRay:
Welcome fruitful mama, may your stay be short... My dear, this whole thing about TTC is just God, you need to believe that you will conceive no matter the report. I urge you to take your drugs, be prayerful and command PID and whatever issue out of your body. People have conceived without womb, so what is PID, for with God, nothing is impossible.

Let your mind be at rest, don't feel depressed or anxious, the stares will be there, the backbiting and what not, you cannot stop it or try to control what people will do, you can only control how you respond. Be free and happy, when anyone ask you where is the baby, say they are coming, don't let anyone make you depressed, don't give them that power. I have been trying for almost two years now and the truth is my joy is contagious.... I even organised the baby shower of a colleague who i got married before her, people keep asking me, whats the issue, and I keep saying nothing, am well and nothing, that was before I went for any test, and to God be the glory, as I went, I am ok. There might have been somethings, but I keep declaring Gods word over my life and my body, and that of DH.

Keep cool sister, it is well and you will bear your children soon. God bless us all...

pweetymii:
Welcome to our e.familia of amour @NIFES(which of the NIFES u be,lol) and @Mztubsy(choi,i almost bite my tongue),wishing u maamas a short and fruitful stay.
@NIFES,it's good you are on folic acid,but,u should also see a gynae who will advise you to run a complete Hormonal assay and most likely Hsg.Don't worry,have no fear,affliction will not arise again,you will take in soon and God will make everything perfect.
@Mztubsy,in addition to what maamas have said,if u can change ur undies after the treatment please do(it is advisable) and then,if u also can,when u wash,spread in the sun or iron if there is light.In addition to the antibiotics,u can buy a herbal tampon(guifei bao or clean point)it helps in treating Pid too.Hope this helps..
@mommatriplets,ur gynae should tell u how many units to buy except u are self medicating.Trigger shots are classified as cold chain so ensure u buy one that is brought out from the fridge,if u are not taking it immediately,some good pharmacies wud add ice blocks wen packing it for u.
@rhukkie,happy born day.may this new year usher in every of ur heart desires.
@adewilliams thanks for that uplifting bible passage.
@janix2,how is u now,hope u are feeling better?

mztubsy:
lol@"my joy is contagious".thats the spirit sis.ive learnt to wave off some comments mist times,even in church.ive channeled my energy towards better things.i no that God can do it for us oooo my sister. I read a testimony hear of a woman with PCOS,PID and even blocked tubes and she still conceived and carried her baby to full term.this God too much ehhhhh! the Bible says he sitted on his throne and doeth as he pleases.who are we to doubt? I'm very positive now more than ever.do u know because of this ttc matter my prayer life reduced drastically? I started to ask God questions.one of DH bestfrind's wife put to bed last week Tuesday and she didn't even tell me.instead of being down casted I just smiled.i was laughing in my mind. me that I'm "mama ibeji".God is giving me twins....i don't have time to worry.edumare soro mi days modupe.halleluyah!

Oleayo22:

hello sis
did it at mafoluko close to airport . The doctor is talking of moving his practice to somewhere in ajah lagos. So let me confirm from him and I will get back to you.

mztubsy:
morning sweetpeas,...doc placed me on secnidazole,ciprotab and klovinal gel.i just realised that after I take it,I get this rush of weakness in my legs.i keep tossing and turning and feel highly uncomfy.since I started(today is the 5th day),my mouth has been constantly bitter like I took herbs.i can't even drink water.i feel like throwing up every chance I get.i even get chills sometimes at night.the lower abdominal pains are tw-azy!!!! I just can't deal!!!

frankdoho:
,mama ibeji...just relax urself n finish the drugs,they are for infection which might be dominate during test but fighting ur conception.. make sure Dh take them too...u might use garri to swallow n don't drink waters immediately to avoid mouth bitterness,when you system overcome those infection, ur body will calm ....baby dust..

fruitfulvine83:


Pls how much is serrapeptase?

momoftheyear16:
Hi, pls how much is metformin?

Janix2:
Feeling so down today!

ZaraOli:
@DrGil and other mamas
Good day, pls when is the best time to go for hormonal profile. I started my period on Wednesday night. Can I do the test on Friday or Saturday morning? Thank you

NIFES:
Hello to everybody in the house.
Please I crave all your indulgence to asking this question;
I have been following this thread silently since last December after I lost the second of my boy/girl twins at 2 months old due to chromosomal abnormality. The first twin (boy) was born sleeping also suspected to have been affected with the same issue.
Now trying to conceive again but can't help but be worried over the past traumatic experience with the twins.
A few of my numerous questions now are ;
(1) If there is any preventive measure that can be taken against a re-occurrence (Note: I have been taken Folic Acid as advised for preconception) ?
(2) If there is any test that I need to undergo to check my overall health (especially egg health) state to concieve
Suggestions are most welcome please and if this is the wrong thread to post this question, kindly redirect me please.
Please help a worried soul.
Thank you all and God bless.

mztubsy:
hello people.what if I told you I've been reading from page 1-116 just to keep up with everybody.its so amazing how much we women can achieve by being supportive of one another.wheew! this is a power house I must say.ive read of miracle stories of how God stepped into situations and the rest was history.i hope to form a bond also here.its so much easier when u can express yourself with fellow women who are also going through similar issues with you....thanks everyone. now to my story.id be 7months in my marriage in 2 days and I haven't conceived yet.i and DH dated for almost 4 years and during that time I used postinor2 contraceptive quite a number of times.not for once during our courtship did I get preggers.fast forward to now.few months ago I noticed some slight changes in my vagina.i realised there was a terrible odour during and after sex(strong fishy smell) so I went to the doctor and he diagnosed that I had PID(even tho Base on google,the symptoms I had where those of BV...bacteria vaginosis).test results came out and he didn't even inteprete it to me.he just wrote some antibiotics for me to use and also wrote for my hubby too.we started 3 days ago and we still on it .believe me i've been getting stares from people.the hurtful truth is that our society places so much pressure on women.everyone is looking at my tummy and asking questions like it's my fault I'm not pregnant yet......please I'd lik to know if there's a chance that I would be able to conceive after treating this PID(ive heard gory details of its effects on the uterus)..everyone around me is getting preggers.fast and giving birth.so u would understand that I am very depressed at this point.....experienced people in tg house an doctors,your views will be highly appreciated as Google isn't helping matters at all.thanks......baby dust to all expectant mothers.muah!!!!!

Omoyeni3601:
This is the day the lord has made,
I will rejoice and be glad in it ,
yayyyyy it's my birthday,
wish me a happy birthday mama's

kollykson:
Good day house!
Just passing by!
I realised we concentrate more on women issues whereas most of the TTC cases may probably be from the male angle. Inability of the man to produce quality sperm that will be able to swim more faster to fertilize the ovary.
So men issues too should be considered in this case.

fruitfulhome:
on my story & WIDD

I & DH have been married for close to two years now. When after few months no show, I told DH let's start something. He was reluctant so I hussled for money did HVS, urine analysis, pelvic scan, HSG and hormone profile. Everything came out well except a slight increase in fsh at 11. but that month I did self medication on Clomid thinking I wasn't ovulating, I was told to repeat the fsh as the clomid would have increased the level but i didnt do cos of money constraint. after much persuasion that ran into months, dh did SFA and Scrotal scan. He had heavy growth of infection, all cells immotile, count 102 MIL and Varicocele. After we treated the infection with injectibles, All the subsequent counts started going down till 5 mil, 5 per motility 0 morphology. It was not a small battle. I was going through other stress coupled with persuading him to start treatment. We were asked to do varicocele surgery. Another doctor said we should try fertilaid/Addyzoa combo for three months. DH didn't bother about all but was taking the route of village prayers with fam.

Fast forward this year after much stress, crying, talking and I went to meet the doc privately that told him to try addyzoa/fertilaid option or surgery. I told him to convince him for me, to show him need we should try something.He did the combo this year I tink March, April, June 20k 500 each month. no show still. He gave up. For two months I was begging him to go repeat test lets see if there was improvement. Just this August, I told him if he continues, I wont go to the village for Xmas with him. Mamakendra suggested a clinic for us. We had just gone last two weeks with the SFA repeat result and we were asked to treat infection which ended this Sunday. DH was also asked to repeat another SFA which he collected today before my news. It read 50mil count, 35 per motility. Great improvement!!! We didn't do any surgery. I bless God so much

On another note since my desired job wasnt coming through and the conception was looking delayed, I called an in law who said i should consider going for my Masters that he would assist with the finance, I had just finished my application. Also I reluctantly followed some applicants to apply for a teaching job in a secondary school, out of about 25 of us, only 5 was taken including me. For the first time, I bought pad in advance last month for this month period. I was tired of believing that if i have faith, I shouldnt have them stored/stocked. Finally when I told hubby I want to do blood test, he wasnt imagining a positive result. He was like relax, no money. I got to find my way ooo.

WIDD

1. 3 months Addyzoa/fertilaid for hubby
2. 1did bromergon I tink in July cos of little liquid from boobs (though no medical record of high prolactin and I ovulate) I couldn't continue
3. I tink in July or June, I did Ovaboost which I managed both i.e bromergon to exceed one month even though they were for a month supply.
4. I joined a prayer group especially for women
5. To mark my birthday in August, I visited the orphanage with little I could afford. I also gave out all the baby wears I bought in Faith for myself
Also, my niece of almost two years was here with my for the vacation. She slept by my side at night
6. Some young pastors of my husband on that my ovulation period invited us to the altar where they prayed for us and asked my husband to speak to my womb
7. More especially, we prayed. Even if i couldnt pray like a prayer warrior, I frequently spoke positive things concerning our conception. It is really God who has decided to bless me now

Thank you all for your support in time past and presently and in the future. God please as you have done for me, do for them all. Sorry for my long post

MariaBouli:


Hi @mztubsy ,

The last thing you should do is get depressed right now. I know that society pressures women but that is the last thing you should worry about. Just make sure you stay healthy and keep a positive attitude and a good relationship between your DH and you. Since you have treated your PID I don't think there are possibilities for any complications. you just need to keep healthy, do the necessary tests and just try whenever you can. I've been together with my DH for 10 years now and we've been trying for a year and a half but we still haven't lost hope. I hope everything works out great