If you like, you can continue with your 'Israelite journey' in the search for the 'right partner' which you may never come to find. There are some traits that make some young ladies difficult to date, even when these same ladies would openly claim that they are waiting for the right one. We all sabi say na from clap dem dey take enter dance but when e come be say you as a babe come dey use your attitude dey stop music wey wan play sef! ...

1) FEELING TOO IMPORTANT: This has been a reason why some single ladies have been unapproachable for years. You frown at every young man that seeks your attention for something without listening to what he has to say...even in public places!!! That 'Mr Right' of yours might just notice this from a distance.


2) EXHIBITING AN EXTREME LEVEL OF STINGINESS: I just didn't want to use the simple word, 'stinginess', due to the level it could get to in some ladies! The level of stinginess in some ladies could be amazing. If you are that type of lady that sees it as a crime to spend even the smallest amount on a male friend, you may find it difficult to be dated. If you see it as a taboo to buy ordinary boxers and singlet for a guy, your case is almost hopeless!!! A former female colleague of mine at work sulked and refused to greet me for days because I asked her to allow me share from the groundnuts she bought! I thought about it that day and figured out one of the reasons why she was over 35 and painfully single.

3) SEARCHING FOR MR RIGHT WITHOUT WORKING ON YOURSELF: It is commonly said that "He who goes to equity, goes with clean hands". Why think of who will come and spice up your life? Why not work on yourself to be the spice in the life of the man you would expect to spice up yours? If you always look outward rather than inward in creating a meaningful relationship for yourself, having a responsible man to date you would be more difficult than forcing a full grown African elephant into the pocket of your skinny jeans!!!

4) BEING TOO HARD AND FEMINISTIC: Sometimes, when I see some young ladies acting so hard as if they are Charley's Angels and still claiming to wait for Mr Right, I can't help but think that they are rather waiting for Socrates, Confuscious or Anaximenes, to wake up and engage them in an affair! Who u come dey form hard babe for nah? U go dey use BBM and Whatsapp status dey threaten us all the time!!! #Teamsingleladiesrock #Team#selflove #Teamthisandthat...this is Africa! You are driving away potential suitors. Before you go end up reaching 40 with this type of konkri mentality, make you know say the agbero wey fit later give u belle dey knack shepe for one corner!

5) HABITUAL SULKING/EXTREME ANGER: This is one key reason why some young beautiful ladies are difficult to get along with as regard dating. They find it easier to sulk than talk. I have witnessed a situation where a young pretty lady I boarded keke with turning into 'thunder' because the keke man begged her to forego 10 Naira due to absence of change! Within seconds, she became fierce and burst out in anger; raining diabolical curses on the keke man and bathing everyone present with saliva! Such type of anger can make it difficult for a lady to be dated.

6) SHARING SAME DEPENDENCY MENTALITY WITH NEW BORN BABIES: If you still have that mentality that you should be dependent like new born babies on the male folks, it could be difficult to get responsible men to date you. Na 'chop-and-clean-mouth guys go dey hover around because they are only concerned with playing a fast one on you after considering your nature.

Good morning!

Black is beautiful though

Just allow them.
Dem go dey online dey form feministic tough-nuts,but in reality dem dey single and utterly miserable.

Side note: biko,women,try to tone down the crazy when you're having ur usual mood swings.
I once had a side olosho who I was planning on upgrading to main chick. I paid her a surprise visit and found her crunched up in the far corner of the room,crying because she thinks her future husband is going to cheat on her.... bt she didn't even have a boyfriend at that time.
I no even talk anything, I just find exit sharp-sharp.

Samexdx:
Black is beautiful though

This doesn't have anything to do with skin colour.

not again.
aren't you tired of creating threads on Nigerian girls?
do you live, breath, eat and sleep on the matter?
haba.

Teespice:
not again.

aren't you tired of creating threads on Nigerian girls?

do you live, breath, eat and sleep on the matter?

haba.

Madam, abeg leave me alone. I no get power to quarrel this morning!

this is a write up by a Nigerian, for Nigerians. nice one!

Some are very difficult o!

Rapmoney:
Madam, abeg leave me alone. I no get power to quarrel this morning!

who even wants to quarrel with you?

Are girls still difficult to date today or am I in another part of Nigeria?

...

This won't stop them from their ill mannerism and parasitic ways of life...this attributes are mostly common with girls who come from a poor home, na them dey form pass, always claiming "wannabe"

True True True True.






Guilty ladies should please learn from this.

firstking01:
This won't stop them from their ill mannerism and parasitic ways of life...this attributes are mostly common with girls who come from a poor home, na them dey form pass, always claiming "wannabe"

poor home? oga who told u that one

jackie3B:
poor home? oga who told u that one

Smh, are you a nigerian?

justsayemma:
this is a write up by a Nigerian, for Nigerians. nice one!

Thanks.

firstking01:
This won't stop them from their ill mannerism and parasitic ways of life...this attributes are mostly common with girls who come from a poor home, na them dey form pass, always claiming "wannabe"

I dey tell u

Rapmoney, I'm coming with my gun for you

[size=15pt]Are they really difficult in this economic recession ?

Meeen...girls are easy to catch these days. They even disturb me. In my bus stop, I will just say "xiii", like 3 girls will look back, slow down for me thinking I am coming to talk to them...Who get time for yanga...Igboro O rerin. If you wan do, do. If you no wan do, no do. No time for calling cow, broda cow because I wan chop beef.

But on a serious note, the numbers of single girls has tripled compared to the last 10 years. Whenever there is prayer for singles looking for husband in my church, Jez come and see crowd. I always dey raise my face for church, make somebody no come tell me sey God reveal me to her for dream. I no dey do that parole. My pastor know sef.[/size]

IamLEGEND1:
Just allow them.
Dem go dey online dey form feministic tough-nuts,but in reality dem dey single and utterly miserable.

Side note: biko,women,try to tone down the crazy when you're having ur usual mood swings.
I once had a side olosho who I was planning on upgrading to main chick. I paid her a surprise visit and found her crunched up in the far corner of the room,crying because she thinks her future husband is going to cheat on her.... bt she didn't even have a boyfriend at that time.
I no even talk anything, I just find exit sharp-sharp.

go throught that ur lie once again and tell me if it makes sense in ur eye

AngelAhnie:
Rapmoney, I'm coming with my gun for you

Really? But you know I said the facts as they are

hotwax:
[size=15pt]Are they really difficult in this economic recession ?

Meeen...girls are easy to catch these days. They even disturb me. In my bus stop, I will just say "xiii", like 3 girls will look back, slow down for me thinking I am coming to talk to them...Who get time for yanga...Igboro O rerin. If you wan do, do. If you no wan do, no do. No time for calling cow, broda cow because I wan chop beef.

But on a serious note, the numbers of single girls has tripled compared to the last 10 years. Whenever there is prayer for singles looking for husband in my church, Jez come and see crowd. I always dey raise my face for church, make somebody no come tell me sey God reveal me to her for dream. I no dey do that parole. My pastor know sef.[/size]

You are too funny. Lol! You just made my afternoon

Rapmoney:
You are too funny. Lol! You just made my afternoon

Abi na...thanks