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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Prospero01(m): 7:23am On Sep 21, 2016
No matter how terrible the economy may be, people are still getting jobs without compromising anything and am sure yours won't be an exception. The idiot thinks getting you the job is the be all to life. There's one thing getting the job but another thing is remaining on the job which is not in his power to guarantee.

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Zedoo(m): 7:26am On Sep 21, 2016
KoldKash:
It only makes sense if you are either married or you abstain from premarital sex.but if you are having it with some other men for free or for any other price,then you just lost a biznez

Can you advice your sister same
If you heard your mum bleeped a man to get the job she s currently on BEFORE marrying your dad....and you get to see the man what would your reaction be? Chai.... Naija ppl dun sell their soul finish..... Do you know that once she sleeps with him it will never stop as long as she wants to keep that job??,

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Laredojohn(m): 7:26am On Sep 21, 2016
Zedoo:


Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh....so such a respectable high ranking officer will descend low to ask for sex as prank tactic to offer the same person a job he will pay her salary for? To what end

Oh please....
Oh please...
Just saying..as said, knew it's almost impossible.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by sisisioge: 7:26am On Sep 21, 2016
beautiful232:
your just knowing ?

lol


even if you pay an agent Money
You will not still get the job without him asking you to lay with him

this is something everyone should know bout

I got my job in my own search

how many people help for free this days

Your head dey there...na so one agent that I paid started out by laughing too hard with me, I tot he was just a clone. Guy upgraded by hugging me tight on my way out...I was a bit confused (guy relocated from UK, I tot its the oyinbo in him) eventually, he called me the same week to tell him he was spending the weekend in Abeokuta, would I like to join him? LOL! I had to go all headmistressy on him! Whatdaheck! Don't bring that to my desk dude! I only asked a few questions in my 'queeniest' English and he got the message. It's all your call sweetheart.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Rajosh(m): 7:29am On Sep 21, 2016
Hisduchess:
please what is greasing of bed biko.I need clarifications pls.

happy Sunday holy and chosen people
she meant to say 'grace'
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Zedoo(m): 7:31am On Sep 21, 2016
Phranex:
Babe, if your story is true... Take heart...


But if you are not a virgin and you have a bf that fvcks you and he hasn't paid your bride Price, my dear.. You have no moral justification to call God or feel bad or even deny yourself that job..


Your bf fvcks for free or at the very best, for money to make your hair ....


If you are not a virgin and you still fvck
.... You just lost a job

If not, your God would give you a better one

Sex should be an emotional thing and not a business...if she was your gurlfrnd would you advice her to go ahead n bleep the man becos ure hitting it for free...?

Secondly let God decide please...you are not heaven's spokesperson or P.R.O
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by madridsta007(m): 7:37am On Sep 21, 2016
euchaaria:
cry I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

If you can confirm a few details to me— what state you would prefer working, your grade, year of graduation, if you have any working experience, course of study, I would see what I can do for you. That's if you are still keen.

Cheers.

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Rajosh(m): 7:37am On Sep 21, 2016
Good decision. Had you slept with him to get the job, you would continue to sleep with him to keep the job. But you took a risk going there without a backup plan.Some men become 'beasts ' when they're in state of 'konji' anything can happen.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by DrMuzungu(m): 7:37am On Sep 21, 2016
At a hotel I was working for, we had a pool bar. Young industrial trainee was late for work in the morning, but for a valid reason. He showed up, and tried to explain his lateness to the bar manager. Woman refused to listen and yelled at him to shut up. It was all observed by an old man who was calmly sipping his morning coffee. Being wise, he did not interfere in any way. Once the woman (bar manager) left, he called the young trainee, and handed him his complimentary card, asking him to visit him in his office the following day. It would all not be a big deal, if that old man was not the MD of one of 4 largest banks in Nigeria (sorry, can't reveal all the details).

Morale of the story: Don't be an a$$hole to people, you never know who is who and who is listening.

Morale of the story No. 2, and for the OP: You did the right thing. Don't let that old ewu spoil your day. Your 5 minutes of fame will come.

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Phranex(m): 7:38am On Sep 21, 2016
Zedoo:


Sex should be an emotional thing and not a business...if she was your gurlfrnd would you advice her to go ahead n bleep the man becos ure hitting it for free...?

Secondly let God decide please...you are not heaven's spokesperson or P.R.O

If she was my gf (not wife, someone fvcked her before me na) and she really needs a job.. I would either tell her to record the convo or do it..


Sex is just penny in punna for a few minutes...


I once was looking for a marketer, a girl asked me if her client asked her for sex, what should she do??

I simply asked her if she had a bf to which she agreed to. I then told her to do what she likes but she should remember her bf gets it too

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Alexk2(m): 7:44am On Sep 21, 2016
if this is true; God bless you for this decision..... Your job will surely come soon IJN
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by beautiful232(f): 7:46am On Sep 21, 2016
sisisioge:


Your head dey there...na so one agent that I paid started out by laughing too hard with me, I tot he was just a clone. Guy upgraded by hugging me tight on my way out...I was a bit confused (guy relocated from UK, I tot its the oyinbo in him) eventually, he called me the same week to tell him he was spending the weekend in Abeokuta, would I like to join him? LOL! I had to go all headmistressy on him! Whatdaheck! Don't bring that to my desk dude! I only asked a few questions in my 'queeniest' English and he got the message. It's all your call sweetheart.



the problem is,some girls are just too lazy to look for a job


they will be sleeping all day at home
and the meet one man

the next thing is to ask for a job

why won't the man wanna take advantage??

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by calabaman(m): 7:47am On Sep 21, 2016
euchaaria:
that is uncalled for dear..happy Sunday

If you reside in lagos and are on bbm add me let me connect you with some people that would get you a job. 7981B613

PS: Am only trying to help and dont need anything at all from you.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by SleekyPosh(m): 7:47am On Sep 21, 2016
Hello...Its actually Sad to know what the mind of people in position to help has degenerated to this days..

This is an ordeal that most female job seekers go through this days just to get a job that probably even pays below the minimum wage..

Op..Trust me I respect ur decision and really feel ur pain cos even as a male, Ive been in that kind of situation but did nt compromise my integrity, body and Principles..

I work in the Oil nd Gas/Marine Sector...

Dnt knw your Discipline or Major Qualifications.. But you can send me your Updated CV..[goldengoals77@gmail.com]

I will surely give my best shot at helping you secure a job.

Have a Good day.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by seguntijan(m): 7:48am On Sep 21, 2016
Are you telling us this to sympathize with you or to hail you for doing the right thing or to call you Saint? please keep your decision to yourself this is a public forum.

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by SycophanticGoat: 7:49am On Sep 21, 2016
Zedoo:


Girls go evver hear word?
Sometimes I wonder if na this same world Dem dey too...dey seem to get caught up in the instagram and facebook rosy flashy American world so much that they forget what time it is in Nigeria...... You go meet person wey wan offer you job for private place.....HOWWWW!!!!!!?? sometimes I don't totally blame people who blame rape/ritual victims....some of Dem are jst daft...


I swear, the world we're in presently, doesn't allow for unnecessary actions one may not even live to regret talk more regretting such actions. I recall vividly that some few reasonable people on here advised OP not to meet up with the useless sex starved buffoon guy but OP adamantly did the opposite.

I had to follow her that very day I saw the first thread just to find out if she'd go there. Make I unfollow her first before I continue beating words into her ears.. angry

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Lightening: 7:49am On Sep 21, 2016
euchaaria:
cry I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

Keep it up virtuous young lady. The fact that no one would have known the story behind the "miracle job" makes me respect you and am convinced that the God who you honored will honor you in a special way.
Please keep the man's contact. He needs to be shown what God has done with your life soonest.

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by holyfather(m): 7:51am On Sep 21, 2016
euchaaria:
cry I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

God will provide your own job for you.
This is not for you.
Every open door is not God's door.
When it's your turn, things will definitely turn in your favor.
I admire your courage, sister.
It takes courage to walk away from such.
God will definitely reward you for maintaining your ground on this.
I should say congratulations.
Your blessing is just around the corner.

Modified :not like some folks that would go for it and turn around and scream rape!
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Chybyke07(m): 7:52am On Sep 21, 2016
ignore him n allow God to take control
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Nobody: 7:54am On Sep 21, 2016
Phranex:

If she was my gf (not wife, someone fvcked her before me na) and she really needs a job.. I would either tell her to record the convo or do it..
Sex is just penny in punna for a few minutes...
I once was looking for a marketer, a girl asked me if her client asked her for sex, what should she do??
I simply asked her if she had a bf to which she agreed to. I then told her to do what she likes but she should remember her bf gets it too
If the Op had slept with the man and came here to say it you would do either of two thongs:
You will join those insulting her for doing it.
You will not defend her with the things you are typing here when others come out to insult her.


Stop this your criticism abeg, even if she is giving her bf free it doesn't mean she should tolerate exploitation by perverts. If she is qualified for the job the man should have given her instead of asking for sex first and if she isn't qualified he should decline her the offer. Simple. No need to involve sex inside.
Nigerians really need to learn how to fight for their rights. Why would somebody have enough qualifications to get a job yet still be forced to sleep with one useless old man?


Overlooking things like this is the reason why our leaders keep treating us anyhow they like. They know Nigerians will never fight back.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by SycophanticGoat: 7:55am On Sep 21, 2016
Phranex:


If she was my gf (not wife, someone fvcked her before me na) and she really needs a job.. I would either tell her to record the convo or do it..


Sex is just penny in punna for a few minutes...


I once was looking for a marketer, a girl asked me if her client asked her for sex, what should she do??

I simply asked her if she had a bf to which she agreed to. I then told her to do what she likes but she should remember her bf gets it too


Very useless comment from you!!! If she opens her legs thinking well, it's just sex, then for how long will it continue? You didn't even ask yourself this, what if she opens her legs but never gets the job?

And definitely, the fool will keep asking even when he managed to give her the job. Also, what if the guy is married, so she should be sleeping with a married man because of job?

I'm pretty sure you're the very man she met at the hotel!! angry
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by rottenegg: 8:02am On Sep 21, 2016
Chai! That prayer is very strong.....only a fool would let you walk out. God will surely give you your job and send him out of his!
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by MyPrinceMeLuv(m): 8:09am On Sep 21, 2016
( I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by bigtt76(f): 8:17am On Sep 21, 2016
E yaaaa ....but you for buy one big container of grease for Total filling station and that moment he mentioned 'grease' you give it to him like its hot .....slap him with a handful of grease grin #UselessMan


euchaaria:
cry I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Nobody: 8:18am On Sep 21, 2016
herald9:

Who's talking about a lawsuit here?

Maybe you've forgotten that the media is more effective than our judiciary system.

Just let his face grace the Internet, and the rest would be handled by nature grin

Am interested can we get his picture, text and name of the organizational, the social media is more effective and his face registered.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Kenneth10110(m): 8:22am On Sep 21, 2016
You caused it jo. You are too beautiful reduce the beauty small.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Charliiee(m): 8:23am On Sep 21, 2016
Phranex:


If she was my gf (not wife, someone fvcked her before me na) and she really needs a job.. I would either tell her to record the convo or do it..


Sex is just penny in punna for a few minutes...


I once was looking for a marketer, a girl asked me if her client asked her for sex, what should she do??

I simply asked her if she had a bf to which she agreed to. I then told her to do what she likes but she should remember her bf gets it too
so, according to you non-virgins have no right to say No to sexual advances, they shud just give in to everyone who wants it. Is that what your momma taught you? Then she must have been or still a ho'.
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by goldedprince: 8:25am On Sep 21, 2016
You spread legs for jobless broke guys that offer nothing and close it for a job?
Some of una girls are just annoying

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by janvier27(m): 8:26am On Sep 21, 2016
Men, let's talk to ourselves. Is this not madness? What satisfaction or enjoyment would you derive from it knowing that you are forcing your partner to do it. Only a man who has written off himself and is of no use will do such.

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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by goldedprince: 8:29am On Sep 21, 2016
Phranex:


If she was my gf (not wife, someone fvcked her before me na) and she really needs a job.. I would either tell her to record the convo or do it..


Sex is just penny in punna for a few minutes...


I once was looking for a marketer, a girl asked me if her client asked her for sex, what should she do??

I simply asked her if she had a bf to which she agreed to. I then told her to do what she likes but she should remember her bf gets it too
Tell them
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Faramide(m): 8:30am On Sep 21, 2016
Please, send me your CV-onaona25@yahoo.com
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Standing5(m): 8:38am On Sep 21, 2016
Should have recorded it just in case. What if he triest to frame you up to make himself a victim
euchaaria:
that is uncalled for dear..happy Sunday

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