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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Nobody: 8:38am On Sep 21, 2016 |
I tell you because you have done this and have taken the right decision. A Job is coming for you, just continue to do the right thing and be on the side of righteousness. You will testify. I assure you. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Folzye(m): 8:47am On Sep 21, 2016 |
euchaaria: OP, were you not the one that posted going for an interview and you were later sent a mail requesting you to meet someone in a hotel? |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by oglalasioux(m): 8:49am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Only the sly and the underhand succeed in today's world. 90% of successful people had to sacrifice a thing or two. But good luck to you for following your heart. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by SURElee(f): 8:52am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Thank God you didn't slap him as someone adviced, you don't want to be struggling with a man who can over power you and rape you in the end. You rejected his evil demands in secret so wait and see how your God is going to elevate you in public like Joseph the slave boy to a prime minister. More testimonies coming your way. Get off your bed, be strong and forge ahead. 1 Like |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by upuphim(m): 8:54am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Summon strength and just praise God for one hour today. You will see the salvation of the Lord before the month runs out. I am expecting your testimony. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by InvertedHammer: 8:58am On Sep 21, 2016 |
euchaaria:\ Now that you don't have the job, wouldn't it be wise to mention the company and the man so that all can ascertain how untouchable he is? When you keep evils like this hidden, you are equally culpable in promoting evil in the society. In other words, you are promoting him by protecting his identity. You ran in here last week and was advised on how to get some evidence should the man give you unfavourable conditions. If you cannot call him out, then keep the story and sob to yourself. \ 5 Likes |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by autonomous22: 9:00am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Babes like u deserve a national honor .... weldone , urs is coming..... soon ! |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Phranex(m): 9:02am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Charliiee: Non virgins gave up their virginity for a reason.. The reason could be love,money, desire to have sex or even pretty face of the partner... There is always a reason for sex... She fvcks her bf for a reason... This is another reason... Job offer She is appearing a saint to you all. But if she would still fvck after today before marriage if she ain't already... Then satan would be laughing at her.. My advise is she should just abstain from sex if she wants god to answer that Prayer up there. It is hypocritical to say no to sex over a job offer but say yes to your bf over his sweet talks . Sexual sin is sexual sin 6 and half a dozen mean the same thing.. 3 Likes |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by millhouse: 9:02am On Sep 21, 2016 |
so what were you thinking going to meet him in the hotel in the first place .. to do praise and worship? ..some how i don't believe your story..just one of them ladies trying to weep up sentiments on NL. 1 Like |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by ocheejemb: 9:03am On Sep 21, 2016 |
More than politely turning him down, you need to expose him. Let's test his untouchable theory. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by millhouse: 9:05am On Sep 21, 2016 |
You said it all...unless she can swear never to bleep till marriage ..as long as she dey straff somewhere else nothing like leaving up to God here matter ..all ladies straff for a reason .. Phranex: |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Nobody: 9:10am On Sep 21, 2016 |
maggilove: Why are you crying over this ? THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE COME WITH NO CONDITIONS ATTACHED. If he blackmails you to sleep with him, it does not guarantee you an offer letter. It tends to use and dump. Even if you get the offer, he will keep blackmailing you on the job to either get favoured or get sacked, thats if he is not just a recruiter. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by seyenko(m): 9:11am On Sep 21, 2016 |
euchaaria: you should set him up, i had a collegue who lost his job just because he was in HR, he slept with a girl with the promise to secure her a non existing job. She eventually reported him along with all evidence that she can muster. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Phranex(m): 9:14am On Sep 21, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat: Now you ask yourself What if she never gets a better offer ?? Her life would be full of regrets.. Its just sex.. I don't know why men ask for it so much and why women think their pvssy is a gift to men |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by ODAVI(m): 9:19am On Sep 21, 2016 |
euchaaria: Hello Omoh, For real you should not have even visited the hotel since it was clear what intent he has. Most ladies who gave in to such, ended up having to deal with it for as long as they are in that office. Every single refusal comes with dismal threat. Intelligent; you could have engaged him with conversations on phone or chats and there probably get his sense right. He saw something he could not take his eyes off, yet that substance still went into his arena and you think he will listen to you? In all, please stay by this decison in all aspacts and not only to people of his kind. I sent another mail, do response back when you strong and refreshed. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by IYANGBALI: 9:23am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Very good. You tooked the write decesion |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by hardbody: 9:25am On Sep 21, 2016 |
pat1612: This is Nigeria where unfortunately, if a lady slaps a man and even where the man was wrong, people will still blame the lady for raising her hand on a man (warped thinking really) and if the man is the type that beats, people will only stand by and watch the man beat the living daylight out of her. They will justify their apathy by saying how could a woman slap a man. In the circumstance, she did the right thing by walking away. Euchariaaa....your job will come at its own time, exercise faith and patience |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by eyinjuege: 9:30am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Phranex: Is it by force to have sex with everyone that asks? Why would a job offer be based on your sexual performance? Is the job role that for a pornographic movie? You should learn to condemn what's wrong, and this has nothing to do with religious beliefs. Even if she doesn't practice any religion, and is in an open relationship, having sex with her should never be tied to a job offer. Who does that if not a pervert that should be locked up?..... 1 Like |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by peterbello(m): 9:31am On Sep 21, 2016 |
euchaaria: Sorry for what happened. It was just a case of a lame lion and a monkey. The man just used psychology on u. Your actions showed u were desperate and probably, gave him the impression that u regard him so he capitalized on that. I can bet u that he's a liar and a nobody. The 'untouchable' stunt was just to intimidate u. If u had suggested to meet at a bigger hotel, he would have a rethink and tread softly. Using the bigger hotel trick is just to intimidate him psychologically too to show u are not who he thinks u are. You accepting his invitation and going alone gave him the advantage. Being untouchable is relative. If someone claims to be untouchable, make yourself look like you are more than untouchable. It's a mind thing. NEVER GIVE someone else ADVANTAGE over you. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by uhiochris1(m): 9:35am On Sep 21, 2016 |
sorry about that..... you should have gone with someone who will take some video clips or you take some audio clips and forward it to any women right agency let them finish him up. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Humblesam(m): 9:44am On Sep 21, 2016 |
euchaaria: I must confess you're warming up to your dream job. What you just did in this case is ironically but positively working in your favor as you climb on in life, am so proud of you right now, and let me authoritatively announce to you that within the next few days, all of us here in Nairaland would wake up to read of your having problem in choosing from dream jobs opportunities begging for your hand.. Believe me. Stand up from that bed and be happy for I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Once more Congrats!! Am awaiting your testimony. Please don't hesitate to mention when it happens. I want to celebrate you,weldone dear. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Shegricho: 9:45am On Sep 21, 2016 |
pat1612: That was an unintelligent advice, it's good she left, but telling her to slap the man over sexual advances will just ruin her a long way, people will even think she is a call girl. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Originalsly: 9:50am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Hmmm.... who knows... the man body may be HIV positive.... sharing the virus with all those seeking job/job security. Such guys need to be set up.... video taped...bank accounts drained.... then put on blast on social media. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by pat1612(m): 9:54am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Shegricho:Will you think that she is a call girl if you were their in hotel and she slapped because the guy was asking for sexual favor after knowing truth will you still think she call girl or the guy is pervert ![]() ![]() ![]() Choice is your for me i would have taken her side ![]() Different people different view that's what make us unique. Way we think define way we are ![]() Just my view no offence intended ![]() |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by Charly68: 10:11am On Sep 21, 2016 |
euchaaria:Your testimony is on the way already. When the temptations high,it means miracle is at the door. You have nothing & I mean nothing to regret in life about your decision..I can tell you assuredly you will return to this page to share your testimony. If you had done his bidding you would have stopped God from doing what he has ordained for you in the spirit realm. Congrats in advance |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by XX01(f): 10:14am On Sep 21, 2016 |
"Grace his bed" and not "grease his bed". |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by realmindz: 10:15am On Sep 21, 2016 |
MilesLamar:your mumuness must be cured... Bring that ya head here
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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by realmindz: 10:34am On Sep 21, 2016 |
XX01:No wonder she did not pass the interview
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Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by bobkezel(m): 10:40am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Virgin maria di aso! I sight you. You been sleeping with your poor boifriend for a plate of indomie but can't sleep with a guy man for your future good. If you are a virgin, then thumbs up, but if not, com'on gerrout! |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by virginchaser(m): 10:42am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Lucky you, i used to know a christian lady whom was lured by her boss and struggled to reject been slept with at last hour but failed. Time to marry, church marriage Councillors sent them for medical test and she tested positive for HIV. Everyone stood by her in her trying period even the spouse to be did not stop his financial support until she enrolled at LUTH HIV clinic. Next time flee and never be curios to visit when you know what is at stake. It happened everywhere. A popular philanthropy announced in a popular university during convocation to give a first class student job. The girl happily went to there Lagos office and the P.A. gave her flight ticket and some money to go and wait for chairman in a popular big hotel in Abuja. She did not need a soothsayer to tell her what would have transpired there. I know it is tough for ladies to stay moral in this present situation. It is easy for guys to condemn but if some have opportunities they will do more. |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by smartigo: 11:01am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Prospero01: You are right. A Fren of mine is resuming today after resigning from another job a month ago. it is about having a skill or value to offer . For new graduates, the case is like a camel going thru d eye if a needle . |
Re: He Said I Should Grease His Bed For A Job But I Politely Turned Him Down by KoldKash(m): 11:06am On Sep 21, 2016 |
Zedoo: It's not in anyway different from her sleeping with anyone she's not married to. I take no pity on any man or woman who okays premarital sex but complains against sex for marks or for job. Tell me you are married or you are in abstaining for fear of God and you would have my back. Not if you are indulging with people of your choice you come in public to spread self pity. FORNICATION IS FORNICATION,whether done for advantage or for fun. |
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