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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by eph12(m): 6:50pm On Sep 22, 2016
JeffreyJames:



Mine is based on princple grin......sex or no sex, I'm good... So far you're bringing something useful to the table.
Something useful like?

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 6:52pm On Sep 22, 2016
iykekelvins:
As per virgin I be, I don't see myself asking for sex from any girl I'm dating grin
tell me u are just being sarcastic here grin...
Relationship without sex is not for virgin folks
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by EmperorLee(m): 6:53pm On Sep 22, 2016
mysticgal:

My dear I dey oh, how life


Life's good (Lg) wink

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by iykekelvins(m): 6:55pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
tell me u are just being sarcastic here grin...
Relationship without sex is not for virgin folks
Lol.. Why do you say so? grin
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 6:56pm On Sep 22, 2016
Some of these 'celibates' brandishing the 'im not having sex' banner fit dey MathsTHORbait ni. 2 different things tho. abstinence means abstinence, not using tactics to sexually satisfy urself. That said very very few people can be in a relationship without sex.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 6:58pm On Sep 22, 2016
Had one for 5 months, i decided to try the "No sex b4 marriage thing" since he came for marriage and it wasn't easy but had to device means to maintain my stand,
He came up on our 5th month with stories like his co-worker was asking him to sleep with her, dude was a banker.
Payed him a visit like 4 times and made him realise from home that he mustn't come near me while i'm in his house. grin and it worked, he was transfered to Calabar and we suddenly stopped communicating when he moved.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 6:59pm On Sep 22, 2016
iykekelvins:
Lol.. Why do you say so? grin
from your pic ..i think you are telling truth..though looks are sometimes deceiving.
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by iykekelvins(m): 7:04pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
from your pic ..i think you are telling truth..though looks are sometimes deceiving.
Lol, so have you ever been in a no-sex relationship?
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 7:04pm On Sep 22, 2016
JeffreyJames:



Mine is based on princple grin......sex or no sex, I'm good... So far you're bringing something useful to the table.

something like wink
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by JeffreyJames(m): 7:06pm On Sep 22, 2016
eph12:

Something useful like?


Jarizod:

something like wink

Ideas, Motivation, Inspiration, help each other achieve our dreams, help each other grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually.


Relationship is not just about Sex.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 7:08pm On Sep 22, 2016
Kinda bixy right now..
i will back to read more comments cheesy
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 7:12pm On Sep 22, 2016
JeffreyJames:





Ideas, Motivation, Inspiration, help each other achieve our dreams, help each other grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually.


Relationship is not just about Sex.

such Ladies are the best..

Not like some ladies who are just in for the MONEY and SEX..apart from that they have nothing else to offer you..some ladies don't even have any iota of shame..u start chatting with them 2 days later they start requesting of things from you ranging from recharge cards to other stuffs.. person wey u never even start to toast grin

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by JeffreyJames(m): 7:17pm On Sep 22, 2016
Jarizod:


such Ladies are the best..

Not like some ladies who are just in for the MONEY and SEX..apart from that they have nothing else to offer you..some ladies don't even have any iota of shame..u start chatting with them 2 days later they start requesting of things from you ranging from recharge cards to other stuffs.. person wey u never even start to toast grin


I thank God for my kind of person..... Once I notice a girl has nothing reasonable to offer, her existence just becomes void to me. grin......... No time for Chewing gum girls.

Most of my female friends are girls that have dreams and are working towards their dreams without the help of any guy..those kind have my respect and if at some point they ask for a favour I don't hesitate to help. They deserve it. grin

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by eph12(m): 7:17pm On Sep 22, 2016
JeffreyJames:





Ideas, Motivation, Inspiration, help each other achieve our dreams, help each other grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually.


Relationship is not just about Sex.
Girls actually have ideas and want to help you grow? This is new
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by JeffreyJames(m): 7:19pm On Sep 22, 2016
eph12:

Girls actually have ideas and want to help you grow? This is new

Too many chewing gum girls in your life bro grin....

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 7:26pm On Sep 22, 2016
iykekelvins:
Lol, so have you ever been in a no-sex relationship?
i want but I've never seen a man to agree to my terms.

4years i met this guy..thou we have know each other for long. .he told me he was a virgin ..i was like cool. The relationship was a distance relationship. Sometimes i boast to my friends the guy is a virgin.
Sometimes wen we chat, he wil say some very raw things. .i begin to wonder what kind of a virgin is this.
so one day i asked him if truly he's a virgin..he told me that he lost his virginity at the age of 12 to a older lady..but ever since he had not have sex..

To cut everything cut. ..the guy began to demand for sex ooo.
i had no option than quit.

You see i was happy i found a responsible person.
i never for one day ask him money or gift..but at the end of the day ..the relationship was based on lies and deceit.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 7:32pm On Sep 22, 2016
yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me
Goodluck on your ''
no sex relationship''

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by iykekelvins(m): 7:32pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
i want but I've never seen a man to agree to my terms.

4years i met this guy..thou we have know each other for long. .he told me he was a virgin ..i was like cool. The relationship was a distance relationship. Sometimes i boast to my friends the guy is a virgin.
Sometimes wen we chat, he wil say some very raw things. .i begin to wonder what kind of a virgin is this.
so one day i asked him if truly he's a virgin..he told me that he lost his virginity at the age of 12 to a older lady..but ever since he had not have sex..

To cut everything cut. ..the guy began to demand for sex ooo.
i had no option than quit.

You see i was happy i found a responsible person.
i never for one day ask him money or gift..but at the end of the day ..the relationship was based on lies and deceit.
It can be hard for some guys tho.. You'd find someone that would agree on your terms irene..

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by jake2much(m): 7:33pm On Sep 22, 2016
its a big regret not sexing a girl in a realtionship. my girl dat left I neva touched her yet she left after I spent a lot I can't accept dat. wat d purpose of sayin u love me wen u can prooved it. if u refuse it means u dont love me okay.remember love is unconditional.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 22, 2016
JeffreyJames:



I thank God for my kind of person..... Once I notice a girl has nothing reasonable to offer, her existence just becomes void to me. grin......... No time for Chewing gum girls.

Most of my female friends are girls that have dreams and are working towards their dreams without the help of any guy..those kind have my respect and if at some point they ask for a favour I don't hesitate to help. They deserve it. grin

woow...u have met some good people bruh.. can't say the same for myself grin

Once I even tried a church gurl but at the end same noni..
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 7:37pm On Sep 22, 2016
jake2much:
its a big regret not sexing a girl in a realtionship. my girl dat left I neva touched her yet she left after I spent a lot I can't accept dat. wat d purpose of sayin u love me wen u can prooved it. if u refuse it means u dont love me okay.remember love is unconditional.
sorry about that..
Sometimes it's either win or lose.
some persons are lucky to fall on the win side. .while others are not so lucky.
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by JeffreyJames(m): 7:43pm On Sep 22, 2016
Jarizod:


woow...u have met some good people bruh.. can't say the same for myself grin

Once I even tried a church gurl but at the end same noni..

Church girls? ..those ones are another species entirely grin....church is the last place to pick up a decent girl. (In all sense of the word Decent)

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ILAB(f): 7:43pm On Sep 22, 2016
when I hear pple say it's impossible to have a r/ship without sex I jst laff at such.............it is very possible dear,i hear some pple saying can a gal b in a r/ship without asking for money? yes..........Dis is me,i have been in a r/ship with my man for 6yrs+,i av neva ask him for moni (coz datz not ma policy),he got no job,we are in a distance r/ship most atimes,i av neva cheated on him(coz I cherish clear conscience) and we are in a r/ship of no sex till marriage. seriously is working out despite d temptation,fights,quarrels I have neva given up on him or his dreams coz I knw d best is yet to come.the secret is we put GOD first,respect ourselve n help resist d temptations.........Some might say how are you sure he is not cheating or will dump you...D truth is I hate listening to things dat is negative to my believe,I blive he is not cheating on me and all I say GOD unto thy hands I commit my r/ship n life.What eva life holds 4 me I will embrase it joyfully

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by kowalsky: 7:45pm On Sep 22, 2016
yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

Get out of dat relationship fool!!

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by falconey(m): 7:47pm On Sep 22, 2016
kowalsky:

Get out of dat relationship fool!!

LWKM hahahaha hahahaha

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by jake2much(m): 7:49pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
sorry about that..
Sometimes it's either win or lose.
some persons are lucky to fall on the win side. .while others are not so lucky.
u ar right sha. but sex aint for kids but matured pple. am not a kind dat have sex with diffrent people I stay loyal wit a partner but most gal are dishonest
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by omoikea(m): 7:50pm On Sep 22, 2016
grin
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by winkmart: 7:51pm On Sep 22, 2016
I nor even dey relationship not to talk of sex-free relationship.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by x6blade(m): 7:52pm On Sep 22, 2016
Well I am greatly interested in sex. But my sex life now is zero even tho I have a gf and we spend 80% of our time together. I don't even know if she's asexual. At times it gets me mad. But these days I don't even bother anymore due to multiple rejections from her.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by spice123(m): 7:52pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!
I didn't have sex with my wife until we got married. Well from my experience I will say that it wasn't easy at all for the 1 year and 6 months we courted. Let's be realistic here. Aside the true love, the key things that 'WE' used was discipline and respect. That is what it is.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by honeygirl17: 7:53pm On Sep 22, 2016
yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me
Come back and testify after a year.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by martineinstein(m): 7:55pm On Sep 22, 2016
yes,its been ok......i repect my woman,she respects me and we both repect ourselves

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