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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by jake2much(m): 7:55pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
sorry about that..
Sometimes it's either win or lose.
some persons are lucky to fall on the win side. .while others are not so lucky.
Jarizod:

woow...u have met some good people bruh.. can't say the same for myself grin
Once I even tried a church gurl but at the end same noni..
how ar u
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 7:55pm On Sep 22, 2016
I am presently in a relationship without sex for five years, though it is not easy.... I only dnt allow my erection to dertermine my direction, cos i know the end result is ''destruction''

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by archbishop007(m): 7:56pm On Sep 22, 2016
Well its can only be God sha.....I've been in a relationship for two years now without sex and we both love each other and we will marry this year by Gods grace....

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by babasolo(m): 7:56pm On Sep 22, 2016
Its Been Fun. Started Our Relationship 2014 November, Kissed Her For The First Time On Sunday 18 September 2016.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 7:57pm On Sep 22, 2016
spice123:
I didn't have sex with my wife until we got married. Well from my experience I will say that it wasn't easy at all for the 1 year and 6 months we courted.
woow..
I'm amazed
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by sadylarry: 7:57pm On Sep 22, 2016
tongue
Princejboy:
nice thread.......hmm m where my mat n.popcorn
cry
Princejboy:
nice thread.......hmm m where my mat n.popcorn
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by hooged: 7:57pm On Sep 22, 2016
4 years and still counting till next year March. Jah bless

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by jidxin(m): 7:57pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!
I dated a grl for 4yrs without sex....sex ain't d best in relationship if u truely love her den it means u really value her ...once u ve sex she will surely lose value nd u will see her as a sex obj....nd sex aint gud 4 d guy 2 ....in quote

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by omoikea(m): 7:57pm On Sep 22, 2016
optional1:
Ireneony wants pple to lie... ??

i just tire for that girl ooo

will people that have sex come online to say "yes, it's the major thing "

everyone will try to protect their image online since they don't know who is watching..

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ogunvic41(m): 7:58pm On Sep 22, 2016
Even Ladies want sex in relationship, they claim they want a man that can perform well...

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by erico2k2(m): 7:58pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
i think you should stick to the topic.
I'm not discussing money here.
This very topic is for men and women.
Can I ask a question, what of after 2 years of No sex dating then you got married and on the D day he could not get it up and you went to the Doc and it was confirmed he has erectile dysfunction and its permanent, what would you do??

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by omoikea(m): 7:58pm On Sep 22, 2016
babasolo:
Its Been Fun. Started Our Relationship 2014 November, Kissed Her For The First Time On Sunday 18 September 2016.
grin
babasolo:
Its Been Fun. Started Our Relationship 2014 November, Kissed Her For The First Time On Sunday 18 September 2016.

i will refrain from saying anything

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by captAugustine: 7:58pm On Sep 22, 2016
Best kinda relationship ever!

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by erico2k2(m): 7:59pm On Sep 22, 2016
jidxin:
I dated a grl for 4yrs without sex....sex ain't d best in relationship if u truely love her den it means u really value her ...once u ve sex she will surely lose value nd u will see her as a sex obj....nd sex aint gud 4 d guy 2 ....in quote
Quick question, did you marry her?
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by nonjebose(m): 8:00pm On Sep 22, 2016
All the relationships that I have been into, I never asked for sex. I enjoyed the friendship and companionship at first, only for the ladies to demand for the ladies to subtly or bluntly demand for sex.
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by erico2k2(m): 8:01pm On Sep 22, 2016
herbie27:
Had one for 5 months, i decided to try the "No sex b4 marriage thing" since he came for marriage and it wasn't easy but had to device means to maintain my stand,
He came up on our 5th month with stories like his co-worker was asking him to sleep with her, dude was a banker.
Payed him a visit like 4 times and made him realise from home that he mustn't come near me while i'm in his house. grin and it worked, he was transfered to Calabar and we suddenly stopped communicating when he moved.
Ok that is Bad mkt
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by malikombi(m): 8:02pm On Sep 22, 2016
What is sex??

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by wabbyland(m): 8:02pm On Sep 22, 2016
Yes I've been in it. My woman was of the no sex now or wait until the day of our marriage. For 6 yrs, she kept telling me until I was forced to see a girl and she gladly gave and satisfied me with it. To cut the story, I deflowered my girl of 6yrs relationship and today as I'm typing, she's 6 months pregnant and the other girl is gone

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Ini9(m): 8:03pm On Sep 22, 2016
Na dis kind topic na dey annoy me so

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 8:04pm On Sep 22, 2016
nonjebose:
All the relationships that I have been into, I never asked for sex. I enjoyed the friendship and companionship at first, only for the ladies to demand for the ladies to subtly or bluntly demand for sex.
your type are hard to come by.. grin..keep it up!
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Jay542(m): 8:04pm On Sep 22, 2016
spice123:
I didn't have sex with my wife until we got married. Well from my experience I will say that it wasn't easy at all for the 1 year and 6 months we courted. Let's be realistic here. Aside the true love, the key things that 'WE' used was discipline and respect. That is what it is.
Real Man!. 1year6 still small sha. But I totally agree with your point cool

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by samuelUMOH(m): 8:05pm On Sep 22, 2016
When you date without sex involved and both are sincere ,the tendency ishigh it will lead to marriage .Unfortunately ,when a guy decides not to ask for sex the excessive demand for material things and money by a lady will compel a guy to ask " What am I getting in this relationship " " Is like she want to milk me " More importantly ,no point for long courtship .Above all put God first and say no to premarital sex .

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by vic155: 8:05pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!



Just come to the North there are many relationship without sex. I'm 29 year and I had like 3 active relationship and non of them I ever had sex with, it's very common here particularly with regard to religion point of view. My Christian friend who is working with us testify that, he was amased I ask him he said is not so common in his place but is very very common here. You can see a university graduate THAT CAN TELL U NO MAN HAS EVER HUG HER NOT TO TALK OF KISS OR EVEN SEX THERE A LOTS OF THEM HERE IN THE NORTH

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 8:05pm On Sep 22, 2016
Ini9:
Na dis kind topic na dey annoy me so
why
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 22, 2016
I am not in a 'no-sex' relationship . . .
I am in no relationship grin
Since forever cry
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by babasolo(m): 8:06pm On Sep 22, 2016
omoikea:
grin

i will refrain from saying anything


Abeg Talk Your Mind Its A Free World, And Am Not Forcing The Truth Down Ur Troat. Am Loving My Relationship, # No Be Everybody You Go Chop Clean Mouth... Our Bells Will Be Ringing Very Soon

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 22, 2016
ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

You must be a very wicked and stingy gal angry

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by oluwasegun007(m): 8:06pm On Sep 22, 2016
telemapreye1:
I'm currently dating without sex and my Bf accepted my decision..infacr we are getting married this year

Reallyyyyy....... shocked shocked shocked
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by FunkyMetahuman: 8:06pm On Sep 22, 2016
No sex is scam

Pity those who fall for that nonsense.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by leej(m): 8:07pm On Sep 22, 2016
Yes, I am currently in a relationship without sex.. However, I always let her know I will remain faithful BUT if it happens that I get an offer from another lady and possibly get seduced " I AM SORRY I MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO RESIST IT"... That statement gets her worried up but the fact that I said I will remain faithful still keeps her calm.

The bad part is instead of me to keep myself away from temptation , I keep putting myself in the spot light. BECAUSE.. I have a justification for doing it when I get it.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Tripleoluwa(m): 8:07pm On Sep 22, 2016
A friend of mine is in a platonic relationship with a guy.


What both of them do according to my friend is: she shave her somtin very clean. Then after d touching touching, she lie on her stomach on d bed, while d bobo will lie on her back with his well lubricated JT, guide it in between her thigh-gap, directly on the surface of her somtin.


So both will be rocking rhythmically like snake. L☺º°˚нåнåнå˚°º☺L.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:07pm On Sep 22, 2016
My first bf was willing, we broke up cause he's a Muslim and if I continued, I was afraid I would not hesitate to marry him. Others after him has not really been forth coming.

Some guys would agree after you tell them its a christian relationship you want, months later, they will start acting funny, that's how you're back to being single.

Some will agree to the no sex relationship but will expect you to sext and talk dirty on the phone with them, if you decline or even deviate the gist, no name wey them no go call you.

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