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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by daremum(m): 10:31am On Sep 23, 2016
ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!


I have been in One for the Past 4 years

No sex

She is my first babe

we are getting married soon

God all the way
i believe self discipline is a priority too
Its possible to be in relationship without Sex

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by livingimage(m): 10:35am On Sep 23, 2016
yes its possible cos i am in such a relationship, she made it clear from d beginning and i agreed, we r cool, we just do all oda sort of romance. but no sex trust me

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by yazz09(m): 10:38am On Sep 23, 2016
UjSizzle:

Pls don't let anyone fill your head with doubts about her fidelity.
It's an admirable thing you're doing smiley

No one can confuse me or make me doubt what I already know. there are more important things to explore in a relationship than sex.

Sex is good oo, all am saying is that we young men of this age are making it as the god of every relationship. not trying to be spiritual but we re over hyping sexual relationship that we forget the mean definition of been in a relationship in the first place

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by bigybanty02(m): 10:45am On Sep 23, 2016
telemapreye1:
That guy is dumb
Ignore him
lwkmd the tin pain u well well abi lol d guy is not dumb wat he said was ntin but a painful truth see ur life u want to collect money but u dnt want ur pvvcy to get fvccked abi
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by oluwamile(m): 10:59am On Sep 23, 2016
I dated a girl for 2 and half years wit no sex,It wasn't easy BT I did my best to avoid it,but she played on my intelligence..she took ne for a fool nd I never imagined she wud break up after we ad an issue..i was nw regretting y I dint sex her,my friends told me I bleeped up..guys do sex girls in a relationship bcus dey felt dey will not loose anything wen dey breakup

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 11:03am On Sep 23, 2016
ireneony:
abstaining from sex is not a religious thing, is a choice

You are wrong there...its a religious thing..ephesians 5:3 dear
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by bigybanty02(m): 11:07am On Sep 23, 2016
mysticgal:
I am in one cool I mean without sex cool
girls and lie lie 4 ur mind nah u dey talk true abi oya swear wit amadioha say d guy never put em pen inside ur office see ur mouth like am in no sex relationship no be ur fauit everybody wan form innocent
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by dbestuncle: 11:08am On Sep 23, 2016
ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by UjSizzle(f): 11:09am On Sep 23, 2016
yazz09:


No one can confuse me or make me doubt what I already know. there are more important things to explore in a relationship than sex.

Sex is good oo, all am saying is that we young men of this age are making it as the god of every relationship. not trying to be spiritual but we re over hyping sexual relationship that we forget the mean definition of been in a relationship in the first place
It's fine to be spiritual o jare. And you're right, sex doesn't define the relationship.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by UjSizzle(f): 11:13am On Sep 23, 2016
Mynd44:

Admirable? Please it is nothing special
Ugh! It is something special angry
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by FellaL: 11:14am On Sep 23, 2016
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uairaland:


bros i am telling you . true story.
take a look around . even in your church. you will be shocked to know what these NO SEX people do when THEY FEEL NO ONE IS WATCHING.

I kukuma understand you. LOL. It's deep sha, thinking about it.
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by dbestuncle: 11:15am On Sep 23, 2016
NairalandEFCC1:
big lie, nobody does it

U lie. I do by the grace of God. our marriage is scheduled for first quarter 2017. the truth is that it is not easy but possible and we are a living testimony to that. 2years courtship without sex. and I have a friend whose own is 4 years now.

Not by our power but Gods Grace. Come to Jesus today.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Mynd44: 11:15am On Sep 23, 2016
UjSizzle:

Ugh! It is something special angry
Contrary to what you think, it happens a lot. No biggie
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 11:19am On Sep 23, 2016
Mynd44:

Contrary to what you think, it happens a lot. No biggie
read your diary boss, nice one but you have to agree that in most cases the girl eventually leaves the guy, its wrong for guys to allow that, a girl when love you will give you her body without conditions
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by UjSizzle(f): 11:21am On Sep 23, 2016
Mynd44:

Contrary to what you think, it happens a lot. No biggie
Is it your admiration?
It happens a lot? Ok. But I haven't seen a lot of it before.
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 11:21am On Sep 23, 2016
dbestuncle:


U lie. I do by the grace of God. our marriage is scheduled for first quarter 2017. the truth is that it is not easy but possible and we are a living testimony to that. 2years courtship without sex. and I have a friend whose own is 4 years now.

Not by our power but Gods Grace. Come to Jesus today.
that girl is getting it somewhere, unless she is a virgin then i fit bone, even virgins self want a man to take it, some girls need force self maybe you are the one doing love love when she needs action but if she is not a virgin forget talk she dey collect am for somewhere
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Mememan: 11:21am On Sep 23, 2016
telemapreye1:
I'm currently dating without sex and my Bf accepted my decision..infacr we are getting married this year
If you're not a virgin then,

[size=28pt]YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A FOOL [/size]

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Mynd44: 11:27am On Sep 23, 2016
UjSizzle:

Is it your admiration?
It happens a lot? Ok. But I haven't seen a lot of it before.
Your admiration is my admiration
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by yazz09(m): 11:32am On Sep 23, 2016
UjSizzle:

It's fine to be spiritual o jare. And you're right, sex doesn't define the relationship.
deviating a bit from the topic, visited your blog. its inspirational and unique. not a blogging fan but just love your style. Not gossip or music stuff or tech(MTN cheats and the likes).

keep it up
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by UjSizzle(f): 11:32am On Sep 23, 2016
Mynd44:

Your admiration is my admiration
Aww embarassed
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by UjSizzle(f): 11:34am On Sep 23, 2016
yazz09:

deviating a bit from the topic, visited your blog. its inspirational and unique. not a blogging fan but just love your style. Not gossip or music stuff or tech(MTN cheats and the likes).

keep it up
Thank you, Yazz smiley
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by mysticgal(f): 11:37am On Sep 23, 2016
bigybanty02:

girls and lie lie 4 ur mind nah u dey talk true abi oya swear wit amadioha say d guy never put em pen inside ur office see ur mouth like am in no sex relationship no be ur fauit everybody wan form innocent
I Am not understanding

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by shadeyinka(m): 11:49am On Sep 23, 2016
OCTAVO:
I was in courtship with my wife for 5 years and it was a no Sex relationship. smiley
I stood by her decision. cheesy
So it's very possible. Sex is not everything!

Thanks for sharing. Our young people should be told that those of them still keeping themselves are not minorities.
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by shadeyinka(m): 11:51am On Sep 23, 2016
oluwamile:
I dated a girl for 2 and half years wit no sex,It wasn't easy BT I did my best to avoid it,but she played on my intelligence..she took ne for a fool nd I never imagined she wud break up after we ad an issue..i was nw regretting y I dint sex her,my friends told me I bleeped up..guys do sex girls in a relationship bcus dey felt dey will not loose anything wen dey breakup

Were you married. Something else must have caused the breakup and not your decision of no premarital sex relationship
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by shadeyinka(m): 11:55am On Sep 23, 2016
daremum:



I have been in One for the Past 4 years

No sex

She is my first babe

we are getting married soon

God all the way
i believe self discipline is a priority too
Its possible to be in relationship without Sex

Thanks for sharing. Those who are keeping themselves sexually pure are not the minority.

Grace for happy home for you. Stay blessed.

I think for most successful no sex relationships, the God factor is the most important

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by bigybanty02(m): 11:57am On Sep 23, 2016
mysticgal:

I Am not understanding
lol u better understand ooo even the once wey dere pvccy don wiled finish still dey form am in no sex relationship u girls should stop lieing to ur selfs
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by shadeyinka(m): 12:00pm On Sep 23, 2016
dbestuncle:


U lie. I do by the grace of God. our marriage is scheduled for first quarter 2017. the truth is that it is not easy but possible and we are a living testimony to that. 2years courtship without sex. and I have a friend whose own is 4 years now.

Not by our power but Gods Grace. Come to Jesus today.

Pls tell them o.
The guys who have lost control of their sexuality want everyone to be like them. They don't know that among Gods children who love Him in truth, it is a fairly normal thing.
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Paxziano: 12:04pm On Sep 23, 2016
ireneony:
i think you should stick to the topic.
I'm not discussing money here.
This very topic is for men and women.



But the guy that commented is right. Would a lady agree to a relationship without money? Trully, most guys wud always want sex in the relationship and if the girl refuses, he may in turn chip in wud der be no money for dis, money for dat? That let's just enjoy each others' company. No sex, no money. I bet u, 100% of females would refuse
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 12:04pm On Sep 23, 2016
bigybanty02:

girls and lie lie 4 ur mind nah u dey talk true abi oya swear wit amadioha say d guy never put em pen inside ur office see ur mouth like am in no sex relationship no be ur fauit everybody wan form innocent

Lol. Take it easy man!!
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by dbestuncle: 12:05pm On Sep 23, 2016
NairalandEFCC1:
that girl is getting it somewhere, unless she is a virgin then i fit bone, even virgins self want a man to take it, some girls need force self maybe you are the one doing love love when she needs action but if she is not a virgin forget talk she dey collect am for somewhere

now I knw u love to commit fallacy of generalization, that every1 seems to b doing it doesn't mean every1 is doing it and that every1 is doing it doesn't make it right. My fiancee isn't a virgin and she isn't getting it somwer.

Did I tell u it has been easy, it has not been easy for us o. but we have been coping. she loves to have it and so do I. But we are Christians not pastors but genuine Christians who love God enough to give our lives to Him to help us and He has helping us.
God's Grace is our strength and this strength is available free and to all. Accept Jesus today and let Him help u.

Titus 2:11-14
11

KJV:For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men,

12

KJV:Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world;

13

KJV:Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ;

14

KJV:Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.
Jesus has redeem me from my sins and I longer live in them or controlled by my sinful desires though they come tempting me but with Christ I have been overcoming and will continue. What about u. take Jesus today and take Him serious. Thanks

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by shadeyinka(m): 12:06pm On Sep 23, 2016
2dugged:
let me guess, you now think people like me are not decent abi? grin,we speak our minds both online and offline, some folks here are only telling you what you want to hear their online personality differ from their offline personality

Why should one lie online, there is no reputation to protect and nothing to gain from it.

If you look carefully those who are succeeding I no sex relationship are mainly those who put the God factor first.

There are several in that respect..it doesn't mean that they are all virgins no; but they have come to a point when they decided for God against all odds
Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by muganbo1(m): 12:14pm On Sep 23, 2016
[quote author=beautiful232 post=49589050]well
I am not in any
so I have no experience


Hmmmmmm cutie lyk u! Not in any. Sigh!!!

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