bigybanty02:

its owk am sorry 4 being rude owk i hav a very soft heart i dnt like to see any 1 angry wit me a cool guy just told me dat u ar his friend 4giv me and less move on owk

No issues,

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CandyDiamond:

The same way your girlfriend will be quenching her own konji with anyone around her,you guys are deceiving yourselves, your girlfriend is having one night stand here and there and you are visiting ashawo houses here and there,what a life

sex.. means nothing to me..
it's very cheap

shadeyinka:


No Sir. The BF most likely fear God and Respects her.

If your definition of sin include fornication and you care about God even if you were presented an opportunity free of charge with no string attached, the love of God will not allow you to do it.

Its that simple

Maga
You still leave in the dream land
More greereesee to your elbow

sinceraconcept:
is that a name? What tribe are you?

Burundi

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not bout beauty tho, you know guys don't trust beautiful girls

ireneony:
abstaining from sex is not a religious thing, is a choice

Did you even listen to yourself
This Generation
God help us

MVLOX:


Bros we knw. Dats y I said its all about the mind set. We just don't want anytin to go wrong. Afta we are planning and preparing for our marriage. Why hurry over something that u practically will get tired of doing in the nearest future? In oda words why run when u can opt for just strolling or walking? Bros we have chosen to walk and enjoy the walk at that.

Congrats

gsparks01:
That's why you should look for someone with whom you're heading in the same direction spiritually. That way, you don't even need to discuss issues like this. You already know do's and donts.

That's it bro
Never be in a relationship with someone who doesn't share the same belief with you
#PEACE

JeffreyJames:





Ideas, Motivation, Inspiration, help each other achieve our dreams, help each other grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually.


Relationship is not just about Sex.

A standing ovation for you
This is it

leej:
Yes, I am currently in a relationship without sex.. However, I always let her know I will remain faithful BUT if it happens that I get an offer from another lady and possibly get seduced " I AM SORRY I MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO RESIST IT"... That statement gets her worried up but the fact that I said I will remain faithful still keeps her calm.

The bad part is instead of me to keep myself away from temptation , I keep putting myself in the spot light. BECAUSE.. I have a justification for doing it when I get it.

Bro try to refrain yourself from such devices of the devil
Always pray about it
Is by Grace
#PEACE

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

is she a virgin

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herbie27:
Had one for 5 months, i decided to try the "No sex b4 marriage thing" since he came for marriage and it wasn't easy but had to device means to maintain my stand,
He came up on our 5th month with stories like his co-worker was asking him to sleep with her, dude was a banker.
Payed him a visit like 4 times and made him realise from home that he mustn't come near me while i'm in his house. and it worked, he was transfered to Calabar and we suddenly stopped communicating when he moved.

herbie27:
Had one for 5 months, i decided to try the "No sex b4 marriage thing" since he came for marriage and it wasn't easy but had to device means to maintain my stand,
He came up on our 5th month with stories like his co-worker was asking him to sleep with her, dude was a banker.
Payed him a visit like 4 times and made him realise from home that he mustn't come near me while i'm in his house. and it worked, he was transfered to Calabar and we suddenly stopped communicating when he moved.

herbie27:
Had one for 5 months, i decided to try the "No sex b4 marriage thing" since he came for marriage and it wasn't easy but had to device means to maintain my stand,
He came up on our 5th month with stories like his co-worker was asking him to sleep with her, dude was a banker.
Payed him a visit like 4 times and made him realise from home that he mustn't come near me while i'm in his house. and it worked, he was transfered to Calabar and we suddenly stopped communicating when he moved.

out of sight = out of mind. Lol

ILAB:
when I hear pple say it's impossible to have a r/ship without sex I jst laff at such.............it is very possible dear,i hear some pple saying can a gal b in a r/ship without asking for money? yes..........Dis is me,i have been in a r/ship with my man for 6yrs+,i av neva ask him for moni (coz datz not ma policy),he got no job,we are in a distance r/ship most atimes,i av neva cheated on him(coz I cherish clear conscience) and we are in a r/ship of no sex till marriage. seriously is working out despite d temptation,fights,quarrels I have neva given up on him or his dreams coz I knw d best is yet to come.the secret is we put GOD first,respect ourselve n help resist d temptations.........Some might say how are you sure he is not cheating or will dump you...D truth is I hate listening to things dat is negative to my believe,I blive he is not cheating on me and all I say GOD unto thy hands I commit my r/ship n life.What eva life holds 4 me I will embrase it joyfully

How do u knw ur life partner when you av nt stayed 2gethr to c how his lifestyle is? U say its working out bcus its distance! 6yrs, u dnt c eachothr dat much, and u say u 'believe'. My sister, no offence, u are decieving urself big time...

Not every point deserves response but let me point out this to you that she left for reasons I don't owe you an explanation of but was no way near sex.

Benwems:

You said you dated your first for 4 years and the r/ship crashed for whatever reason which you didnt mention. The girl left you easily simply because you have not slept with her. Any girl who does not sleep with her man does not have strong emotional attachment. She will easily leave you.

ibietela2:

Congrats

Thank u....

mengho:
it's actually quite easy, it has to do with HOME TRAINING, my parents raised me to belive dat sex b4 marriage is bad, evil & demonic plus I never had access to d internet till I was like 15 yrs. We always watch TV with my parents...guess what's d best channel CNN,BBC oh yeah Disney & cartoon network for my little siblings..
when watching a movie, sex scenes are skipped like sharp sharp.

What am trying to say is relationships aren't all about sex, if u truly love each other then I see no reason why you can't wait to get married & have ur first time 2geda.

But hey am just d guy who just loves to play vidoe games. finds pre-marital sex disgusting cause there is no gurantee the girl/guy will marry you...so why expose ur body?

I call anybody who has sex casually a cheap hooker/slut. Besides u don't even get paid

Is like we were born in the same family
Our little difference is just that you love video games while i love watching and playing football

plussize:
is she a virgin

Is that a criteria?

horrible

BlackMbakara1:
Very possible and not possible. One school of thought believes i need to know who I'm getting involved with "actively" and another based theirs on moral or religious grounds.

For those in the second school of thought; meetings is either outdoors and if it's indoor there may likely be a chaperone or self restraint. Though they may be tempted to smooch etc, in the course "spirit of correction" will just sink in...you'll hear "we shouldn't be doing this" or "i can't wait" blah blah.

Does premarital sex actually make one to know a pertner? Yes, he is great in bed! Would that be one of the best three non negotiable characteristic one would desire in a husband?

When it comes down to having a good marriage, sex takes a secondary position.

The things which have heavier weights include
Trust, Responsibility, Love, Respect and Dependability

Mememan:

Maga
You still leave in the dream land
More greereesee to your elbow

Thanks! But you know this thing is strange to you because of the circle of company you are in. In my space, its fairly common and no big deal

Whomiblac:



How do u knw ur life partner when you av nt stayed 2gethr to c how his lifestyle is? U say its working out bcus its distance! 6yrs, u dnt c eachothr dat much, and u say u 'believe'. My sister, no offence, u are decieving urself big time...

How long do you think is required to know each other by staying together? Forever! Why every human being changes with time.

I had a 2year 6 months no sex relationship with my fiancee. We never once lived together: do you think I married a stranger?

Communication is the key and not sex. It is possible to have great sexual experience and yet not understand each other

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It is a prohibition of blasphemy, specifically, the misuse or "taking in vain" of the name of the God of Israel. Exodus 20:7 reads: "Thou shalt not take the name of the LORD thy God in vain; for the LORD will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain." (KJV).[/quoter

u need not remind me that.
tye fqct that people view premarital sex as normal doesnt mean they are not some who hold high moral standards because they want to please God. if i really want sex i will marry.

shadeyinka:


Were you married. Something else must have caused the breakup and not your decision of no premarital sex relationship

I said dating..it wasn't bcus of sex or infidelity, we just ad a quarrel anybody can av nd dat was all

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

.
3months? time still be ajebo nah ,don't forget that some guys are not smiling

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

.
3months? time still be ajebo nah ,don't forget that some guys are not smiling nd I bet you,you won't endure that for long no matter how hard you try to

oluwamile:
I said dating..it wasn't bcus of sex or infidelity, we just ad a quarrel anybody can av nd dat was all

Understood!
Such could have happened with or without premarital coitus.

Ireneony, l'm wishing you a day that's as special in every way as you are. You'd have many years more ahead, so I'd continue to bug your life Happy birthday young lady...

Firstlieutenant:
Ireneony, l'm wishing you a day that's as special in every way as you are. You'd have many years more ahead, so I'd continue to bug your life Happy birthday young lady...

thanks ....i appreciate

My own relationship started 6 months ago and we agreed on no sex till marriage. Although she's telling me she's a virgin and I can perceive some elements of truth in it cos we do kiss an romance but after all that, she uses to feel as tired as someone who just finished the 7th round of sex. I've developed my way of dealing with her if at the end of the day I find out she's not a virgin sha o but for now, I'm madly in love with her.

mysticgal:

We only kiss, no smooching and we pray no digging and drilling.

But seriously oh, I am in a relationship. Lol

gsparks01:
That's why you should look for someone with whom you're heading in the same direction spiritually. That way, you don't even need to discuss issues like this. You already know do's and donts.

Well said!