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Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 8:28pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
My boyfriend has been abroad for the past four years and I have never slept with another man, he hasn’t been home once during those four years and we speak once a week or sometimes twice in a month. For a while now I have not been able to quell the sexual urge I feel, my intimacy gadgets aren’t working anymore, I need to be held, cuddled, kissed, I need to feel a man pounding me while sweating, but for four whole years I have not been able to. I know my boyfriend isn’t faithful over there, sometimes when I call he’d speak to me in hushed tone and say he’s going to call me back and for the next one week I won’t hear from him but I know he loves me. Since this beginning of this year I can’t hold the urge anymore, should I just cheat on him once? Will he know I did it? Maybe I should travel to another state and do it, this world is a small world I don’t want to do it with someone he might know in the future, what should I do? P.S I am 28 Talk2Bella. This is something you should talk with your man, who knows he might give you a pass. The possibility of him being faithful is 50/50 it’s either he is or isn’t and that you and I can’t know for sure. Four years is a long time to wait for someone don’t you think? And you don’t know when or if he will be back, you need to look out for yourself not all these stories end in fairytales. I wouldn’t advise you to cheat on someone who you still feel you’re in a relationship with, its better you take a walk than cheat. Talk to him about these urges, ask him if there’s any hope he’s coming back soon and if not if he would like you to come over for a vacation, you would get your answers from these questions and know what decision you got to make. http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/should-i-cheat-on-him-just-once.html 1 Like |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by iAMzick(m): 8:32pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Na because of people like her dem dey sell cucumber for market na.. .. .. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 8:37pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by DTOBS(m): 8:38pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Yes go ahead and shit on him but be ready to pack the shits when you re done... Wetin I dey do here sef, Oya ofe!!!! |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 8:41pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Bia talk2bella what sort of rubbish advice do u give to your clients sef. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:don't just cheat on him infact dump him and get married sef. children born 4 years ago are in school now,,do you think the nigga won't be banging another babe abroad when he is not a reverend father 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by limitless101: 8:43pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
4 years? thats cruel... i dnt think u shld do anything of such till you officially end d relationshp, which shld be ASAP. You aint getting younger! |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 8:44pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() u want her to cheat or or to cheat biko it's obvious dude might have gotten married to a white lady over there |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector:nice talk bro |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 8:51pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:abegi... like as if twenty other men in nigeria aren't asking he out as well.. her boyfriend has been away for four years and she hasn't slept with another man. If I slap her eh.. what sort of white lie is that. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by firstking01(m): 8:53pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by tungstar(m): 8:54pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
cheat is an understatement..... Get married while at it. 4years is à very long time ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 8:55pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: so where does my "Rubbish Advice" come in I told her to move on only after she'd broken up with the guy and yes she might have been faithful I had an aunt who was married and the husband went abroad to look for greener pastures leaving her with a kid, she waited for 10 whole years not knowing the man was married with kids there sef conji wanted to finish her life, she kept waiting for him till they brought proof he was married please don't call my advice useless if you can't point out my wrongs thanks 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by UrWorstNitemare: 8:55pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
OP I av bin Observing you... You go post question and then your advice to dat question. Wadaya now expect N landers to do ?? APPLAUD ![]() ** e be like say you still dey learn work** 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by firstking01(m): 8:57pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
stephenmorris:I dnt wanna believe you are the one that gave her that kinda unappealing advice ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 8:57pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
firstking01:my bro which kind of post lol |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 8:58pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
UrWorstNitemare: not again ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 8:59pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
firstking01: thats exactly my point, even if someone is cheating u don't cheat back, u move ahead and meet someone new, I don't understand what CuteHector is saying fa, its very possible she's been faithful girls love this abroad relationship and can wait for life 1 Like |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
firstking01:na the same thing we dey talk my brother |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by firstking01(m): 9:00pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
stephenmorris:No vex, i think say na talk2bells i dey qoute, chai ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 9:01pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:how do u tell what she wrote to you is fact? People just come up with silly stories everyday. You only then give advice to a one sided story... That's why I like people like Njigirl(Saturday sun) she doesn't swallow what people send in to her just like that. Her replies are unbiased. Both in favor of the sender and the other person |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:01pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by UrWorstNitemare: 9:02pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:To improve ya IQ... I hereby recommend .. 1 Like
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Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
firstking01:okay oh , |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by firstking01(m): 9:05pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
stephenmorris:The qoute wasn't meant for you, sorry durghhhh. |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:06pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: did u see where I said him being faithful is 50/50 even when it's obvious he obviously is, 4 whole years is a long time to wait for anyone and not once has the dude come back. if I was one side I would tell her to go ahead and cheat, its only her Vagina that would know and no one else but because I detest any form of cheating I told her to talk to her man. A friend once told me about how his friend's wife was ill and had to be flown abroad, she was there for almost a year in the hospital and when conji wanted the finish the man, he told his wife he might cheat and the woman gave him a free pass, saying whatever he did during that period she would understand. if women can give their boyfriends free pass to marry and have sex with white women because of papers, why can't men do the same and tell us to have sex with whoever we want till they come back? that wasn't one sided and you know it, if u and I were dating, and I decide to go abroad to study for 2 years, will ur diick be the way I left it? |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:07pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
UrWorstNitemare: My IQ? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Please I am in no mood Just go Today is your lucky day |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by firstking01(m): 9:11pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:See the kinda advice you gave your client, chai, you don cheat your bf tire. |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 9:12pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:well just as you mentioned, we are dating.. not married! We aren't under any vow. So if it happens I'm in a situation where I have the urge to have sex, i"l do that without any apologies whatsoever. It's simple... I can't do that when i'm under a vow to love u for d rest of my life. |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:15pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: so u encourage cheating in a relationship? good, she's a nairalander she will see this. she needs to breakup before moving on |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:16pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
firstking01: I seem to have been misunderstood ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:u contradict ur self alot |
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