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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 6:26pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
pumpingmachine:creamish, cococandy, paperlace, cute hector...you see people who are in support of my opinion have real life experience of what am talking about you guys are just trying to be termed "rational".... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Missmossy(f): 6:27pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
I don't agree, that a chicken laid a bad egg today doesn't mean she will everyday. The mind of a lady/woman is quite strong so her been good or bad isn't always as a result of the union that births her. Its highly important that we look beyond the faucets of whatever origin that seem to prevail in the society. Its no news that the divorce rate in the country is on the high side but still a book shouldn't be judged by its cover. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Originalsly: 6:27pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Hmmm... looking at the the comments from too many of these ladies I have no doubt if they are single parents then this same kind of disrespecting and downgrading men would likely be indirectly passed on to their daughters. ...and this is what this thread is talking about. Guys brought up by mom's only.... high risk of being mummy's boy! 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by holluphemydavid(m): 6:27pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
I stand with d OP, but some ladies will not like dis, but dats d truth |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Ghost447(m): 6:27pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Arthurwinner:Let's hear your perception please. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by SamOgasco(m): 6:28pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
PaperLace: See young lady, either you like it or not, the Op is accurately and logically right.... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Appareil(m): 6:28pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
razortruth:I don't know that Church to compromise on such issues. Thank you |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by adedayoa2(f): 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
pumpingmachine:I no vex o |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
razortruth:creamish paperlace cococandy ladymercedes et al...pls look at real life experiences |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by misspicy(f): 6:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Ghost447(m): 6:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
niggi4life:I have the same experience 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Ikigia: 6:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
The stated points aren't fact, just logic. Single mum or not, it all bears down to the daughter in question. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by twinklestar(m): 6:32pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
CuteMorriz:This write-up is an absolute nonsense created from a shallow and parochial observation. To declare a bleak future outlook and rubbish the marital aspiration of any lady due to her challenging background reeks of a repugnant thought process. It is thesame reprehensible, uncanny reasoning that has held back the development and consolidation of our national potentials across different ethinic lines. At best, your deductions and conclusion are very stereotyped 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by SamOgasco(m): 6:33pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
olayinkajnr: You're right. And they are kind of proved uncontrollable as well. They will never yield to any form of correction as well, they seems to know it all as well. People people like them always find it difficult to apologize even when they are 100% wrong and obviously at fault as well. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Mayoaite(m): 6:34pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
mecussey: You can't give what u don't have. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Ghost447(m): 6:34pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
PaperLace:Present your argument without using abusive words. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by divineappo(m): 6:35pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
@OP: everything you wrote there is trash, LAWMA is coming for pickup. As for me ooo, whether she was brought up by single or double parent, or even grew up without any parent, all that matters is my love for her. 6 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Goshgurl: 6:35pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
@Poster, this strikes me as a warning to children of ''regular parenting'' who intend to ensure that they oppress, maltreat, degrade and abuse their spouses in marriage. You are alerting them that if they marry children of single mothers, they are likely to get as much punches, verbal abuse, slaps, venom and possibly declarations of independence as the child of ''regular parenting'' is dishing out. I totally agree that bullies should be careful of this breed of children. Experience has taught them that they are PEOPLE and they have a right to say NO to any situation that is detrimental. No sane woman, gets up and leaves her marriage, if you check the spate of single mothers there is a dark history and for your so-called elders to myopically tell you that a woman who finally got up to say NO to abuse and tyranny is anything other than brave means you have to check the psychological standing of that elder. Nevertheless, since single parenting is greatly on the increase... no worries, children of single parents will marry themselves and with the self respect and other interesting qualities a battered woman will teach them to have/not to have, they will have amazing marriages, while the crazy and psychologically damaged children that regular parents are breeding these days will continue to wallow in misery accepting abuse and tyranny as the norm just so they do not become a topic on nairaland. Thank you for the warning indeed. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Ikigia: 6:35pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
CuteMorriz: Does it mean all failed marriages are caused by the wife/mother? 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Dentmoyin(m): 6:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
eyah! So sorry i love to a point, her family background aint really a problem, she is from a single parent tho, but am not worried...whateva will be the case, its my cross... 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by lifestyle1(m): 6:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Well, some of them can be hot tempared, rude - won't take bullshit, cant endure no pain/suffering for long, too free-they can go out and come back anytime-mummy won't talk and no daddy to scold them. How do i know all these ? My ex is one, my present girl is one. I might even end up marrying one . ![]() They are beautiful, playful and hardworking. I have seen few on this thread with similar treats. No matter what a woman still needs a man in her life |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Mayoaite(m): 6:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
twinklestar: Okay na..... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by shizzy7(f): 6:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
CuteMorriz: Topic says single parent but your write up is basically about women(mothers), very biased 6 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 6:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Quite insightful! |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by timunstopable: 6:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Rubbish nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by cindyrocks(f): 6:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Tuface Idibia's wife Annie was raised by a single mum and she is still happily married to Tubaba despite his short comings. Nairaland boys always looking for excuses to hate ladies. Mind you I am not from a broken home. 5 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by mamaafrik(m): 6:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Creamish:one thing about those ones is that they are usually a caring and sound wife material.look around and tell me the statistic of those few you can lay ur hands on. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 6:38pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Appareil:My brother, I was surprised too. If not that I went with the people that met her pastor, I wouldn't have believed it. I can mention her name and even the branch of the church but it's not necessary here 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Oloniyan(m): 6:39pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
CuteMorriz: @ the op You wouldn't understand the trauma of those children. Though some of you point are accurate but believe me it takes a strong individual in that circumstance to value parental care or love. Take mine as an emphasis, I'm scared of getting married not because of the monetary aspects but because I don't know what a parental love is and I don't know how to show such. My spouse is trying really hard to let me see the bright side of it but hell! How do I show love to her talk less of the kids ![]() How do parents relates ![]() What does it take to have a loving family or what does it take to be a better man ![]() We have been single from inception and it will take lots of work to take our feet of the pedal. But on the other side we are the most caring and loving people you will ever met cos we don't want our kids to experience what we've been through. My 2cent 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by pippimp(m): 6:39pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
niggi4life: You must have had hundreds of girlfriends to be able to come to that definitive conclusion. You people think with your asses. It is like saying one should not marry an orphan. I wonder how you guys think? 4 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by kolafolabi(m): 6:39pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
The topic might be funny but it definitely needs to take serious. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Folksyharry(m): 6:40pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
OP this title is very wrong. Even though you tried to make it seem like you are not generalising the issue, you actually condemned all ladies raised by single parent. You do not have sufficient data to come to that conclusion. 7 Likes |
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