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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fullofregrets: 6:16pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
hello everyone , I don't know if I should get pity or support from here , my boyfriend just break up with cause I told him of my past abortion , the relationship is a serious one , leading to marriage , I ttced with him for like 8months , when I first know him , I once took a lot of contraceptives when I met him , it really stopped my period from coming for months , I really don't know where the problem is coming from . help a soul........ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by FruitfulRay(f): 7:27pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
It might be implantation bleeding, just hold on... chizobaolu: |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by chizobaolu: 7:52pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
shithapuns: Thanks. I am sure its not cos the bleeding has increased. I have always tracked my cycle length ever since I started having periods. This has never happened before. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by chizobaolu: 7:54pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
FruitfulRay: I doubt that it is. It has increased just like my normal period. It's just strange . I have never experienced such in my life. A 19 day cycle. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Dazzle86(f): 8:04pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Dazzle86(f): 8:05pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Go and see a gynaecologist , run the necessary tests and get the answers you seek. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by suremum: 8:12pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
fullofregrets:Sorry about your breakup dear. May God comfort u ( Amen). I really do not understand what u wrote. Did the contraceptives stop your period from coming or the abortion. If it was the contraceptives, it probably messed up with your hormone and I will advice u go for hormonal profile ( day 3)or see a gynaecologist so u can know where d problem is coming from. And I pray God gives u a man who will stand by u no matter what. Take care dear. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by frankdoho(f): 9:45pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
I HV finished my TTC investigation... thus says the result... PID,hydrosalpinx,Uterine Adersion,2x3 fibroids,PCOS,low progesterone.... these are the report from machine.... BUT thus says the lord...Be fruitful and multiply,replenish the earth and subdue it....I believe God's report... oooo because I am next online for a miracle...@ll if you HV conquered any of my problems ...pls just tell me the solution....tanx.. 8 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by shithapuns: 11:04pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Sorry..not every man can handle such info. Would advice u to go for a complete fertility check..uterus.tubes.hormones. So u can know if the abortion n contraceptives caused some harm.. Dont feel too bad...na who holy pass. If u r in abuja..bodycheck clinic performs such comprehensive checks...generates a report and helps u tackle it. Its beta u sort this issue b4 u enter another serious relationship......cos guilt n worry will continue to weigh u down. 2 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Jellos: 7:02am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Hello dear frankdoho, from your result dont you think it will be better you repeat these tests somewhere else?Just a suggestion, cause I have been a victim of wrong hsg result. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by momoftheyear16: 7:29am On Sep 29, 2016 |
You know you are TTC when you become selfmade fertility specialist. You know you are TTC when your internet/google search history is 70% or more about fertility issues. You know you are TTC when are post portrait pictures of you or nothing so people won't see the state of your stomach. You know you are TTC, when the thought of visiting home gives you headache. You know you are TTC when you have variety of supplements and drug stash either from a doctor or read about somewhere. You know you are TTC when you become a very humble housewife around O time. You know you are TTC when visiting this thread is on your daily to do list...as well as joining fertility groups on bbm, Facebook etc. It goes on and on.. Abeg make I pass the baton. ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by frankdoho(f): 8:50am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Jellos:plss mama just explain how what happened so that I know what to do....I am trying for my second baby since 2012 ...I took in January and miscarried Feb...I evacuated in march ..so I don't how I get all this wahala.. meanwhile I am planning to visit Gynescope in PH may be they will do their own test again...just explains ur case 4 me small.... baby dust... 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 9:17am On Sep 29, 2016 |
fullofregrets, all will be well. It's good as you told ur fiance about what happened. It could lead to divorce or leaving you at the altar (God forbid) if he found out too late from you or the doctor u guys may use later or someone else. Don't give up on life or do anything rash. U will get over it and find another man to marry and have children with. Just hold on to God and keep asking/believing Him (God) for mercy. And by the way, u tried to conceive for 8 months only so do not conclude anything is wrong. Some ppl who didn't do abortion, try for far longer before they get pregnant. Could be caused by other factors like fibroid, infection, blocked tubes, cysts, PCOS, male factor, spiritual reasons or just that it's not their time yet. So, my dear, don't despair or be depressed. Stay calm, get married and try again with faith and medical assistance. There is a lady I know that did only one abortion too with her fiance. He later left but not because of the abortion. The lady is married today with a son (to another man). So please keep hope alive. Take care 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by legendsmother(f): 9:19am On Sep 29, 2016 |
@mumihaja snail pet ke? Na for Chopin o @all my security dog Troy got bitten by d snake ooooo :owe didn't know on time because he was barking my husband came nd saw it was a snake n killed it. 2days later my dog as a swollen limb, this mornin I woke to see ithas burst is bleeding nd painful he can't walk on d limb d only vet I know Said he'l b back by monday "Neosure vet bayelsa" I donno what to do I googled an gave him aspirin nd cipro (antibiotics) was told to also rub kerosene and mud on the injury site any1 wif usefull suggestions pls help |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by FruitfulRay(f): 10:21am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Don't really know, but this vets can be so annoying, till Monday, please if you can take him to another vet oh. A snake once spat in our dog eye, he barge into the house and was really sick, we saw his eyes and immediately gave him lots of Palmoil, the vet came two days later and injected him, but he was already doing good by then. legendsmother: |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Kittana: 10:26am On Sep 29, 2016 |
I really wish I could address this e-mail issue. Momoftheyear16 and omoyeni3601, I just logged in to see that you e-mailed me, but sorry I can't access the mailbox anymore and also cannot change it here. Don't know why. I've another e-mail via which you may reach me, if you wish; .....@gmail.com. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fullofregrets: 10:46am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Loisemm: I already asked for forgiveness many times , I believe God answered me already , my spirit has been so weak , I am so lonely right now , I am just too faithful and loyal to my fiancee, I deserved a chance, he spoke to me in a horrible way , I never for once asked to be heartbroken again in life , I just can't deal with this cause its just too much for me to carry |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Dadsonval(f): 1:59pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
When GOD says it I believe it That settles it My LORD, My MAKER Let me not be ashamed And let not my enemies Triumph over me in JESUS NAME # Amennnn. #iconfess# #I'mteamapril2017supernaturalbirthforme# #mytripletFAITHALLPAT# |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 1:59pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Nobody is a saint, I have huge admiration for ladies who were celibate before marriage. God has showed you mercy. And the only person u need to tell or confess to is God , and as long as you have a broken and contrite heart God won't despise you. The sin of abortion is a terrible one that leaves one with a terrible guilt but you have to learn to forgive yourself first. Before entering marriage I was advised by experienced wives and mothers not to disclose everything abt myself to dh mst esp the very sensitive things. They told me the things they told their dh out of love and sincerity even before marriage was used against them in marriage, they claimed they were mentally,verbally and emotionally abused and they regretted their actions. Thankfully when I tried to tell dh about my past relationships he didn't want to hear, I attempted severally and he said he didn't care about the past. Even now in marriage am grateful I didn't, I now undastand. I am not saying it's not right to be sincere to ur DH all am saying is u shld apply wisdom. Some men have been in relationships, slept with countless ladies , gotten several girlfriends pregnant and forced them to abort yet they go in search for virgins as wives and are the first to cast the stone when they are as filthy as rags secretly; how hypocritical is that? I knew 2 ladies in university days that aborted for their boyfriends and both have 4 kids in their marriages though not with former boyfriends ; Isn't God merciful,God's mercy endureth forever. Yet I have friends who didn't have relationships or abort before marriage yet are also still trusting God for children. Don't get me wrong, am never in support of abortion but a lot of women have been cheated and deceived in relationships and hence the reason they did abort out of shame of what people will say. I have a friend who was a virgin till her late 20s and she met this guy (a big boy in an oil producing company) unknown to her the guy was deceiving even though he had introduced her to all his family members and was talking about marriage ,she got pregnant for him and he insisted on abortion, she refused, I supported her decision 100 % though I blamed her for certain things mst esp for not using protection, she's a single mum now; as the guy was financially very comfortable nothing shld v stopped him from marrying my friend but he was just playing games unknown to her. Go do all the neccesary analysis to ascertain the state of ur uterus, tubes etc. If there sth really wrong, start treating it early for all you know maybe the contraceptives only messed up ur hormones. Please just abstain in ur next relationship, it pays better to abstain and be prayerful and trust God, avoid contraceptives and sex; If after the analysis theres a permanent damage from the abortion ,please be wise to mention it to ur future God sent husband before marriage that you most probably will encounter issues conceiving naturally based on the present state of ur body and if fortunately there isn't any damage after the analysis , well for me there's no need mentioning it to ur future God sent husband, God already knows abt it and God only deserves to know as God is ur creator. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Jellos: 2:07pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
@ frankdoho, I did hsg in one diagnostic center and was told I had adhesion of the uterus and I took it to the gynecologist who ask I repeat the test somewhere else, behold the tubes are patent. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by sugah: 2:22pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
fullofregrets:Hello dear. I read your story when it hit frontpage but couldn't comment. The other mamas have spoken well, please heed their advice . My 2 cents on your issues is, if you are a Christian please go do Thanksgiving in church cos you dodged a bullet....and most likely a lifetime of misery. Why do I say that? Any man that puts a condition on marriage doesn't love you. Simple plain truth. Your ex-boyfriend telling you to get pregnant first before marriage is a clear sign you are not meant to be together.. That said, stop the pity party. Go to a good hospital and run the necessary fertility tests. If you are certified ok, keep your past in your past! Your own husband would find you. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by sugah: 2:28pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
frankdoho:What machine if I may ask? |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Omoyeni3601: 3:07pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
I have a 5000iu hcg injection with me , I want to sell it off at 2000, anybody that's interested should let me know |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Kirusky4life(f): 4:25pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by ithope2: 5:08pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by ithope2: 5:11pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by bidemibunmi: 5:42pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Just thank God. Definitely, he is not your Husband from the beginning. God is a merciful God,Please treat yourself very well with ogbono soup, make up,go and do comprehensive fertility check up,close chapter with him and dress well for the real and correct man to come. Dont worry the real man that will marry you for who you are will come as long as you are cheerful and dont forget to send him your wedding invitation when the real man comes fullofregrets: 2 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Omoyeni3601: 6:35pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Fulofregrets hmmm, I'll advice you to move on , I will give you instances , you never know why God is stopping this relationship , a friend of mine was in a relationship with a guy that usually fights and beat her , correct beating ooo, she decide to stay in the abusive relationship,cause of she carry love for head , the last correct beating she received makes her decide that she's leaving the relationship , in less than two years the guy kpai , hmmm if she has been pregnant for the guy before his death , she for don turn widow now , how old she be ehn , wey she go turn widow at her early age , abegi he commot his own mat nii , God go spread his own for you , who holy pass or perfect , no be God , Just go for necessary test , cheer up babe. 2 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by oluwashindara01: 6:38pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
I see u all sisters (fin).... So I have rehearsed how I wld announce my bfp on dis wonderful forum a couple of times, the wait was an amazing journey, bitter and sweet, but above all I am glad to say I have conquered TTC big time. Gosh it still feels like a dream, sometimes I ask my self If am truly pregnant. So I am 5 weeks and 4 days today. Am taking things easy, aside from my hubby, my mum, and my sibling no one else knows yet. My marriage ll be 7 years come next year and we have been trying even b4 we got married, so it's been a long journey, and I sld point out dat ours was unexplained fertility issue, aside from d fibroid I later discovered three /two years ago which I was told wasn't even disturbing conception, I did iui with st Ives it didn't thick like four years ago, we were already saving up money for ivf with the bridges I have even called to book an appointment, I called on few close relatives to help with d cost of d ivf. Financially we Cldnt avoid d ivf we already planned on selling a piece of land we own and one of d cars,in short it was already on d market,and I must say dat prior to now dat we decided to go for ivf I had almost given up on myself and even my marriage, I was already planning to relocate and than call hubby to move on, that am not interested again, not that he has not been supportive o, I just got tired of every thing. Anyway to God be d glory I ll post widd soon!!! 23 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Jellos: 6:56pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
@ frankdoho, I did hsg November last and it was concluded to be adhesion of the uterus and I took the result to my doctor but he refused the result and ask I repeat it somewhere else which I obliged and the second result concluded patent tubes. All I will defeat soon in Jesus name is pcos. So I suggest you repeat the tests before you commence treatment. Hope this clearify? Ciao |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fertilewomb: 7:00pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
@oluwashindara01 , congratulations am so happy to hear this news. May God who has shut the mouth of the enemy and gave you bfp ,sustain and protect the baby in Jesus name. Happy bumping |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by miraclefromGod: 7:15pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Congratulations @oluwashindara. Hello mamas, we have few hours to the month of October, hope we are getting ready for the prayer? It is well...... @ fullofregrets I will say cheer up, the bible says ' let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone' nobody deserve anything from God if not for grace and that grace is what we seek from him, I don't support abortion but at least you were able to get pregnant once, u will be pregnant again when it's your time, what about those of us that has never been pregnant before? What is our own sin? My dear everything is grace the bible even says ' I will have mercy on whom I choose to have mercy and I will have compassion on whom I choose to have compassion'. So we just need to pray to God to count us among those he choose to have mercy and compassion on. 1 Like |
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