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Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 10:53pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
TV01: You are not only a domestic abuser you also qualify to be a spiritual abuser using the Bible. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 10:56pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
TV01: Marriage is not for abusers it's for lovers. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 10:59pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
missjo: It is not the Christian way to abuse themselves. TV is reflecting a bad example of an abusive Christian marriage. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:01pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
TV01: I didn't know that you are a spiritual abuser too. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:06pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
orunto27: The abused wife has every right to report the abuse to the necessary authorities she should not keep silent. 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:08pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
crackhaus: I wish folks understand what they are getting themselves into before they tie the knot. ![]() |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:10pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Many so called Christians don't remember this in marriage they only remember the clause: 'no divorce!' ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:10pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:12pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
crackhaus: But some folks keep deceiving themselves that they are Christians but in reality they are abusers that need to be locked up. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:15pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Mindfulness: The church is meant to be like an hospital where the sick come to get their healing, sinners get saved, it is not meant to be an hotel or club. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:16pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:17pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Miladi: It is true in the sense that it is difficult to detect and explain. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:19pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
crackhaus: This is the malaise affecting the state of the nation as we see it. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 12:26am On Oct 05, 2016 |
jnrbayano: You mean abusers are winning, no? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by raumdeuter: 12:59am On Oct 05, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: All these are emotional, financial or some form of abuse and are all grounds for divorce |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by jnrbayano(m): 7:18am On Oct 05, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: So you mean to tell me you only understand TV01's points/argument as making case for the abusers? Hello?? |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 10:37am On Oct 05, 2016 |
raumdeuter: I don't think so. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 10:39am On Oct 05, 2016 |
jnrbayano: That is the case. Those who trivialise abuse in marriage are only showing themselves to be domestic abusers. ![]() |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 10:41am On Oct 05, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU, pardon me, but you confuse me. I asked you this Timbuktu: Do you think it would be ok for a man to divorce his wife over emotional abuse?To which you unabashedly replied; OLAADEGBU: NoNow you say this; OLAADEGBU: I am not understanding. Please explain, why victims of one type of abuse can legitimately, according to you, jump to divorce and victims of another do not have such luxuries. Please, try your very best not to contradict yourself this time. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 10:53am On Oct 05, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: This sounds like something that would come out if the mouth of a woman or someone whose capacity for logic is zero. According to this thread, all TV has said is that you can leave the immediate environment of the abusing spouse but not the marriage which is actually in line with the Bible you claim to represent. You will need to show where TV has trivialised abuse or you are a liar; and you know you all liars will have their place in the lake of fire per Revelations21: 8. Are you ready to be allocated a plot of land with C of O in the lake of fire, sir? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:00am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Timbuktou: You either show us the evidence where I said that victims of abuse can legitimately jump to divorce or forever hold your horse. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:04am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Are you TV's spokesman/woman? Let TV deny that he hasn't trivialised abuse and then I may entertain him as I deem fit. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 05, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: *Yawns*. Leave the messenger and address the message, oga. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 11:12am On Oct 05, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: Apologies, I seem to have jumped the gun ![]() |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by raumdeuter: 1:45pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: Why not? Are you saying emotional fnancial and other abuse are not enough reasons for a divorce? |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by TV01(m): 1:56pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Timbuktou:...a dimwit with gender dysphoria ![]() OLAADEGBU:What you are on about? What your point is. Is divorce permitted scripturally - for any reason? What is the scriptural response to "abuse" - of any kind? OLAADEGBU:...oh dearie me...I'm going to have to get the pictures out ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() OLAADEGBU:...it is you who has trivialised marriage - which is till death do part - according to the bible. By seeming to suggest that divorce should be allowed for abuse - playing to the gallery of the "worship ma feelins" crowd ![]() Knowing what the bible says, and being unable to refute or respond affirming your implicit suggestion, in the face of the sound exegesis you have been hose-piped with ![]() ![]() The bible does not permit dissolution of a consummated marital union for any reason. True Christians will not abuse their spouses - in the event of "problems", they will seek, forgiveness, healing and restoration, not divorce. You know full well the bible does not permit divorce, but you pivoted your OP on divorce. Not the basis of solid marriages at foundation, how to ensure unions are robust, or remedies for abuse, incipient or aggravated. That's why you got lots of applause from assorted "feelins chasers" and twice divorced husband snatchers ![]() ![]() ![]() You entertain me? You are for my amusement. I'm toying with you - although fast tiring of that ![]() TV 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by orunto27: 5:45am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Yes, you're right. That's the reason for the case in the first instance. Reporting is Prayer. Request for Return to Status quo. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 3:18pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: I feel perfectly healthy so I will stay away. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 3:18pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: To each their own. ![]() |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by missjo(f): 5:14pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:Thought so too. 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:06pm On Oct 08, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Apologies accepted, don't do that again. ![]() As for TV he's got no leg to stand on. ![]() |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:09pm On Oct 08, 2016 |
raumdeuter: What do you think? ![]() |
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