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Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by holluphemydavid(m): 5:23pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Scared of marrying a wrong woman, cos divorce isn't a total turn off for me. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by stan241(m): 5:24pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Has to be whether or not I'd be good enough for her not to cheat on me seeing as its happened to me twice already |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by btkdboy(m): 5:24pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
I'm afraid of us (me and the future wife) growing apart or me losing interest in her in the long run. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by 2funkyy(f): 5:26pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Marriage is about love,understanding and commitment,my fear is marrying someone thinking we have this only to find out we don't. ![]() |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by SavageGarden(m): 5:26pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
sisisioge: Haha well thanks for the love ma'am you're one enlightened funny, happy soul; I envy your enthusiasm and I truly wish you the best out there. Abeg If some dude trys to play smart on you abeg hook me up asap I'm reading this new book about torture...anything for you ma'am. Love You 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Shym3xx: 5:26pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
WriteBoy: I like ya post a lot. It's always good to understand who you're before trying to fit into something cos that's what the society wants you to do. At least, you're naturally a polygamist and you know that. However, I think, rather than get married to five women and end up having kids with multiple women - it's always better to have kids with one woman. But you have to do it without the commitment that comes with marriage albeit you need to make sure you provide shelter, food, and money for the kids - and be part of their lives like a great dad. That will give you the freedom to do whatever you want to do. I kind of have the same mentality and I doubt I can stay with one woman for the rest of my life. There are just too many beautiful women out there and most of them bring different things to table. So, I don't think I can deny myself that privilege. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Otunba10(m): 5:27pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Apparently nobody seems to be afraid of DIVORCE here? For the sake of my children. Growing up in a broken family would def affect them |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Splinz(m): 5:30pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
LuvU2:Ask dad & mum if they've ever fallen out of love. Personally, marriage goes beyond just loving someone, marriage is life. I say so because no matter how long you wanna stay single, a time comes when you'd shrugged it off and seek for a union. If our parents could stayed married since we were born, then let us cast off our fears. It is true that those ugly moments are bound to raise its head once in a while. But in the end, marriage is a beautiful way of life to those who know what it is! |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Jailerrr(f): 5:32pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Afraid of every day demand of sex,not having my private and quite time. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by tommynico(m): 5:33pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
viktor01:we are even not on talking terms now nd she's try'n to encourage me to settle the rift by becoming a good frnd online, using a diff acc, buh i just tag along wt her venting all my frustration like sey i no know. Some gals sha... 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by STENON(f): 5:34pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
What if he becomes the cheating partner after marriage and that's the number one thing i detest most.... what if he won't support my Dreams and Vision of becoming a Professor in the next ten years. what if his family is not friendly and welcoming what if he is not motivating me ... |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by sisisioge: 5:36pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
SavageGarden: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Now you are my bestie man. You are a clown! 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by CoCoLav(f): 5:38pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Marriage is not for everybody. Meet someone you like and stay together, if you guys get bored move on. Shi.t happens. It is better than being married and bored but unable to leave because you have kids and you signed a contract. You will now spend the only life you have managing happiness when you could be out there exploring and discovering yourself. For those immune to societal pressure, just date and have kids only if you want. You might even end up being better parents without the stress of spousal incompatibility and problem from in-laws. This is why I have a lot of respect for people in open marriages because they know that they cannot be monogamous and have accepted it. Marriage is not really all that and only serves to suit society as far as I am concerned. Anyway, my fear of getting married: 1) I will get bored 2) We will grow apart 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Blessograo(f): 5:39pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Well, for me it's the stress of taking care of a family and my job at the same time and also my parents. Trying to attend to everyone's need is something before thinking of yourself especially as the wife. Another problem is boredom, I'll hate it if my husband is the type that travels a lot. In conclusion not just his absence and stress but the commitment and all that you have to sacrifice. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Jailerrr(f): 5:45pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
mengho:let's go there then, but don't demand for sex every now and then..smiles 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Sike(m): 5:46pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Marriage. An institution on its own! |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Maxvasia(m): 5:46pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Bravo!! This comment sweeps me off my feet, especially as it comes from a female. May there be more like you in this life and less of the caricatures yhth call demselves women. I salute u and this comment.....may ur days be long. The only wise and useful comment on this thread. Ppl will crucify u for this comment just cos its the Truth and truth is bitter. All i keep saying is weldone weldone weldone and weldone all over again. CoCoLav: 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by ladylouisa(f): 5:49pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
I am definitely afraid of marriage. The thought of living with someone that has a totally different background, personality and habit scares me. What if we get tired of each other?? What if hate each other later on? What if we can tolerate each other's little faults?? What if he becomes a serial cheater?? What if I cheat on him?? What If our sex life becomes horrible?? What if he stops loving me?? Mehn!!! The what if's is sha plenty. I just keep praying to God to bless me with a good man and help me as I help myself be a better woman. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Neenie(f): 5:49pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
jeff1607: I am a very emotional person and my greatest fear is 'What if he stops loving me?' ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by 26thDavid(m): 5:50pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
[color=#550000][/color] i can't really say i'm afraid or i have fears. However, i believe that when there's a reason to worry, myself and my wife to be will get over it somehow. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:54pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
"Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution?" ----- Groucho Marx 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 5:56pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
jeff1607:Not much to say really. I don't think I have to worry about this. I personally do not have any fear. Well, whether I'm around or not, my future wife should keep the momentum going. I want to have a very happy family like my elder brother. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Seanjay(m): 5:57pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
grandlexuz: This your story reminds me of my past relationships and tear fell from my eyes, have been in a lot of bad relationship that I even wondered if this relationship/marriage thing is for me and that's why I gave up till now.. My fear is if marriage represents what have gone thru in the past then am not sure if it can work, up till now am still not fully healed cause of the past, and my greatest fear is my partner cheating on me and I caught her I will never forgive her, cause even just me imagining my partner is been screw by someone else drives me crazy... 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by IdisuleOurOwn(m): 5:57pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
My fears are; I don't want someone (my wife) to say '' I miss you'' because I travel a lot, I'm a tourist, I like adventure. I like to know many places, visit different places, learn from people, visit historical sites I've read about. I don't want my children to lack anything. But, Insha Allaah, I will get married anything 4 or 5 years from now. Insha Allah. lexiconkabir: 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by shehuolayinka(m): 5:59pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Am a very hard person to understand, which most most people get me wrong. so my fear is if I will really get the right person, that will take me as I am and also if I will find the right person. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Shym3xx: Sir Shymexx, thanks for the counsel! At least you understand; a lot of people do not. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Missyetty(f): 6:04pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
I am scared of so many things, coupled with the bad news one is hearing everyday about marriage. What if he changes totally from the person I fell in love with?? What if he starts cheating on me?? I can't cope with a selfish partner as well It is well sha even in the well |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
IdisuleOurOwn: Lol, honestly this is no problem to me, she can travel with me wherever I go, in fact it will be fun that way and won't be happy if she doesn't follow me. I don't want my children to lack anything. Same here.... But, Insha Allaah, I will get married anything 4 or 5 years from now. Insha Allah. ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 6:12pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
FriendChoice: Go and get married!! Lol ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by BCMI(f): 6:13pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
grandlexuz:true talk Selflessness that what really called true love. Just like our lord Jesus christ he forgot about himself but held unto the cross. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by tolor: 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Neenie: ![]() ![]() you've gotta toughen up bae 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by FTBOY: 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Titilayooni:you have a very good reason. one mumu above you said she's afraid of being a slave or a housewife. the height of inferiority complex! what happened to love before marriage? 2 Likes |
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