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Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by delerx(m): 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
I just don't wann get married, I am more afraid of marriage than death.no more love again. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by pedrilo: 6:16pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
scared of emotionally unstable women. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by tolor: 6:17pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
WriteBoy:how can you take counsel from Hugh Hefner |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 6:18pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: I too young to get marry sir ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by BCMI(f): 6:19pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Anuoluwapo3054: that moment wen the husband decide to start acting as the head of the house, saying 'dont u knw am the head of dis family' cannt even assist the wife with any chores and nt providing house help is slavery, he doesnt even care abt her is slavery, send her on all errands is slavery . God ll help our marriage.!!!! 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by grandlexuz(m): 6:23pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Seanjay: That is where compromise plays a big role my brother. Every man is scared of that day when he finally catches his woman with another. It is unthinkable to many men. However when it finally happens it burns down your pride and puts you to the floor..Lol My first marriage ended after I found out the woman I could swear for was being banged by an elderly man. It was the biggest shock of my life. However I was willing to forgive her. It was the shame and guilt that took her out though! My brother man no die man no rotten. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Toks2008(m): 6:25pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
jeff1607: No matter how extremely patient,careful,prayerful,diligent and all put together we can ever be in choosing a spouse,marriage will always be like a mystery box which could present us with a good content,a bad content or a manageable content and no matter how sweet that guy or lady may seem during the years of courtship, always expect the worst while you work for the best. As for me, once i see a lady that is pleasing to my eyes, a good cook and also fears and loves GOD then im good to go and ready to tolerate because no matter how many times you change partners, everyone you meet will always have a reason to like or dislike them |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by jeff1607(m): 6:26pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Neenie: What if you make it difficult for him to love you? Probably unknowingly 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by justanie(f): 6:27pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
come to think of it, i have never thought of me having any fear been married probably because i have never thought of any fear. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by PierreDeFermat(m): 6:28pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Melonny:do you expect you'll die in your 50's or early 60's? 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Jagabanj(f): 6:32pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
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Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Seanjay(m): 6:45pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
grandlexuz: Bro I feel your comment but am not sure if I can be able to handle that or if I will be able to handle that, so people will turn it to violence but me am not sure cause I will loose all my power and strength my God help me if I don't die on the spot, cause it forever heart ache for me I can't stand such or best I can relocate and leave the country cause I will never want to have anything to do with her ever again nor set my eyes on her 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 6:46pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Western devils should stop their planned parenthood in africa. After all, human exintion has began. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 6:47pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Loosing a job while married, that has always being my fear |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mizfabulicious(f): 6:54pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Fear that one day it's not gonna work anymore. ![]() ![]() one day just like a time bomb. (I have the tendency to flip on within minutes) That I will spend the rest of my life wallowing in poverty, if anything should go wrong. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by scent9(f): 6:55pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
jeff1607:yh i rilly do hav d fear of marriage. I'm scared of pregnancy, d whole process in it I'm nt sure I'll b able to go through such & secondly sex, i have phobia for it, don't just knw wat to do. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by iRepNaija1: 7:07pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Ifakiland: Skipping baths? What kind of women do you date? If you do cheat, it's your fault. Making excuses or blaming your wife is what small-minded men do. Marriage is constant, continuous work. Do you think you'll remain the same man you are? Won't you get wrinkles, gray hair, and a potbelly? |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by emmykk(m): 7:08pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Like Ngozi Iweala |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by talktonase(m): 7:20pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Melonny:like my nasty friend will say 25years! ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by marysyviabrown(f): 7:22pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
afraid of marrying the wrong guy 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Malayy(m): 7:25pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Ifakiland:did you say skipping baths.. I will just stop sleeping with her.. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by jeff1607(m): 7:36pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
scent9: Am guessing the fear of complications, CS etc right? Have u read up epidurals? Might calmur nerves 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Melonny(m): 7:45pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
PierreDeFermat:No....What will be will be. do you want to live forever? |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Shym3xx: 7:50pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
WriteBoy: Thanks for that. I just like ya mentality and the fact that you haven't time out to study/embrace who you're as a person. That's something a lot of people don't do. And they always end up spending a lifetime trying to be who they're not, while running around in circles perambulating the same spot like the London eye - with no progress whatsoever. Also, I don't think having kids with different women is healthy. It creates more burden/stress for you as an individual and it also puts ya kids in an unhealthy space/rivalry they don't deserve. Hence in whatever you do - the focus should always be the kids and putting them in a decent space, while giving them the best shot at life. So as to enable them to surpass you and be the best they can be. Kids are the prize. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by PierreDeFermat(m): 7:51pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Melonny:we gotta die some day. But I don't know what i'll meet in the afterlife,that's my concern. Nobody has gone there and come back to come and gist me |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by ccffwx: 7:51pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
I think the real fear of most women is that their beloved husbands may cheat on them after some time. Many women know but don't voice this fear. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 7:52pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
yes ![]() emmykk: 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by naijafeminist: 7:52pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Ifakiland: There's no way the woman you marry wouldn't change physically, and there's no way you wouldn't change physically. Women change their behaviors, men do too..... so your statement sounds sexist. Aside that, that's why your priority shouldn't be looks when looking for who to marry because you would be disappointed. It might be a necessary condition but not a sufficient one. People age, we all have to be selfless and learn to deal with it. You don't love your mom less now than you did 20 years ago, do you? 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Missmossy(f): 7:56pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
grandlexuz: 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
fear of single hood in marriage is inevitable. |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by mekonglobal(m): 8:00pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
grandlexuz:Yes thats my fear, will she be able to reciprocate my love? Cos i hv got lots of it to give. Or take advantage of it to work against me? Cos love makes me weak.. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY by Shym3xx: 8:02pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
tolor: Hugh Hefner yano. ![]() I'm not Hugh Hefner. Once you've been around a lot of women, you'd know that the overwhelming majority of them, regardless of the ideology they hide under or achievement, don't have much to offer you apart from sex. Hence most conversations with women are always centered around what you're bringing to the table as a guy - not them. And when you also consider the fact that it can be stressful dealing with them at times and loyalty is foreign to them cos they're naturally wired to living in the moment - it's always better to do what makes you happy and focus on yourself. If you're the type that likes the company of different women and you tend to appreciate the alluring diversity of the beauty of womanhood - why put yourself in a box when you can be free as a bird? Conversely, if you want to sign some documents and be committed to the stress and disrespectful nature of one woman clogging up ya space (a lot of women don't even know how to talk and the more they get comfortable around you, the more disrespectful they tend to get), for the rest of ya life, for one puzzy - do you. It's a free world. ![]() 4 Likes |
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