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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 12:34pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Pamelayoung: 12:35pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: Guy u'r mean |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by EfemenaXY: 12:36pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
MizMyColi: Then all I can say is, "Good luck to you ma'am", especially if you feel empathy towards an obviously false cause. I get that your hormones If you really, really want to make a positive difference in someone's life, why not go to the children's ward of your nearest hospital, take a look at the suffering kids, choose one, ask to make a donation towards their hospital care / bills? Or better still, offer to help a resident child at your nearest orphanage? Those are good examples of vulnerable people in genuine need who can't afford, nor have the means / knowledge to come online and beg. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Dyt(f): 12:37pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
MizMyColi: Epppp me with $45 Plis 17 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by EfemenaXY: 12:38pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
5minsmadness: T'is barely noon and you're drinking? Come, I hope you're off duty doc? |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by MizMyColi(f): 12:43pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Onegai: My dear. The emboldened might be the case. It might be truly. But she just needs money now. Shebi if I give today, will you still come tomorrow and tell me to give you? No na. Per working, I will just call it God's grace. I was at the verge of being sacked, but heaven spoke up for me. Imagine I was sacked, no certificate, no extra means of income, no husband, one toddler, no mother to comfort me or even share her garri with me. For some people it is not just easy to get up and get something doing like that. The onus is still on people like us to give her food first then lecture her on the importance of owning yourself with dignity including earning your meal. It lies with people like us to make her understand that she cannot continue to blame her mother for her woes. She put herself in this situation to begin with. But shebi it is someone that has eaten bellefull that will listen to any empowerment lecture that you have to give. 5 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Dyt(f): 12:45pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
MizMyColi: Gimme $45 4 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by jaybee3(m): 12:46pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
keepingmum:GBAM Someone is thinking rationally Thank God 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 12:48pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Dyt:We're ready to help you but I hope you know you will be verified. Can you provide your grandmother's birth certificate?Original o. 4 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by EfemenaXY: 12:48pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Onegai, Ifyalways, and Thorpido... Question for you: I've been toying with the idea for sometime of sponsoring a child in need in Naija with their Education. Ideally, a young child in nursery to start with. How can this be done without being tricked? Or the money for the child diverted elsewhere? Is this possible? What would I need to do and know? My preference is for a little girl. 5 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 12:50pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
MizMyColi: But you're not her. Making hair and beauty concerns is a very steady source of income. Every Thursday to Saturday is a party, nothing stops her from even taking a chair, going to a field and tying gele for N50p apiece. Is LASU not around Igando, plenty customers. But she came here to spread a tale of woe and anguish, who makes the choice to starve their child rather than get productive? I'm not going to reward that sort of thinking, I don't have a steady income coming in and if I do, I will go down to the mall and take a Saleslady job and get ready to swallow all embarrassment from friends finding out. I'll give her money after she has the baby and puts it up for adoption and gets fitted with a 5-year Contraceptive. cc moji26 suzzy16 Jaybee3, it's really expensive to terminate after 3 months (if she's upto that sef). 3 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 12:50pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 12:51pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by MizMyColi(f): 12:52pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: You see, Ify talked about this too, but I deliberately didn't want to delve into that. There are humans everywhere. The people you see online might seem faceless and unreal to you till you reach out. You help people because you fee a sort of connection to them. You help people because an opportunity presented itself, be it offline or online. If I tell you I will visit motherless babies and give my all to them, it may never happen, not because I am wicked but because my path just doesn't cross with such. But here on Nairaland which I have called a home/community of sorts, I see a case that gets me interested and I have to ignore and go "out" there to give the help when I actually see an online neighbor who needs such. That person begging online might as well be your neighbor offline whom you may never get to meet or attend to because you are equally engrossed in your real life issues as well. The reality is this. We have different callings. My calling is not to be looking for people who need help, but if I am moved to help one whether online or offline, then surely I will. It is one thing to see a person who needs help (online or offline, I do not discriminate), it is another thing for their case to attract my attention. If/when it does, I try to give it my all. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Dyt(f): 12:53pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: Yes Can I paste it here? It's GTB and it will be instant |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by jaybee3(m): 12:53pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Please you guys should CC me once the case is fully verified Thanks Y'all 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 12:53pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: I can look around and recommend someone. I think the important thing is to not let them know why you're interested in the child until you're ready and then paying directly to the school. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 12:55pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Pamelayoung:I'm not mean,I'm actually far from being called a mean person.Compassionate is apt to describe me. But I don tire for girls to dey get belle.There are just so many ways to prevent pregnancy and they're not that costly. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by sisisioge: 12:55pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Dyt: Wowzer! Pls good people of NL, help this lady. She's been verified. I was there when the money lost o. It was in 50-5O naira dollars. Pls help her biko. 4 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by 5minsmadness: 12:55pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Dyt: My friend stop all this noise and send me your bank account 4 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by EfemenaXY: 12:55pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
MizMyColi: Okay oh. 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Dyt(f): 12:57pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
5minsmadness:You no gimme number/email 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 12:58pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by EfemenaXY: 12:58pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
sisisioge: 5minsmadness: Lol! You're all wacko on here. Seriously. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Dyt(f): 12:58pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
sisisioge: Teeeeeeel them oooo Owo yen dunmi And in this recession Haaaaa Okamilara |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by 5minsmadness: 12:59pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
EfemenaXY:Lunch break |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by jaybee3(m): 1:00pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Onegai: I honestly don't mind paying for that with additional family planning or whatever Her history suggests her major problem is self control hence the need to solve the pregnancy ish 5 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by EfemenaXY: 1:00pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Jumaii: You aren't a child. 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by toksbisola: 1:00pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
@OP, I took some time to look at your Moji26 post and Suzzy16 post and I just don’t get it why with the Moji26 monica you write as an illiterate (excuse my language) and with the Suzzy16 monica you write like a literate/educated person. It baffles me. Your battery was fully charged when you opened this thread and responded to queries on this thread; now that you have been asked to provide more information, suddenly now your phone battery is to low for you to come and answer the questions you’ve been asked. In theory, you have gone silent. This baffles me again. You’ve been asked to send details of your antenatal card (send to Onegai/Ifyalways/Mizmycoli) and evidence of your pregnancy and other things; again you have not sent those details. Thorpido has kindly volunteered to assist to register you for antenatal at the general hospital and I’m hoping that you will consider the Doctors kind gesture at least just to make sure that some form of medical care is provided for you and for the unborn child. TEHN have asked you to provide information on your case to see how they can support you, not sure if you have responded to their request. You have an international passport and you don’t have a bank account for yourself; oh please; who are you kidding? You were even told that it is free to open a bank account and yet you are still saying that you will need money to open the account. Are you saying that those who are telling you that it is possible to open an account without money don’t know what they are saying? You’ll rather have people send money into someone else’s account that they don’t know (just listen to yourself; does that sound right to you?) as against you opening your own account and the money sent to your account directly? Another thing that baffles me again. You have a handy work for nail painting, doing hair and make-up etc; try and build on using them successfully (some have suggested to you on how to start small) to get some money to cater for you, your little one and the unborn child. I am all for helping people in need especially when children are involved; but please be sure you are genuine and not playing on people’s intelligence. Waiting for your information to be verified. I rest my case 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Dyt(f): 1:00pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by MizMyColi(f): 1:01pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Onegai: I really don't fault any of what you said because it is the truth. I just hope she can sift the the "harshness" and see the wisdom you have proffered. I just tried the number again, still switched off. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 1:01pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
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