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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by tiswell(m): 3:23pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
sisisioge:You must have been really less *engaged* @work to have quoted me back |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 3:42pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
littlewonders:am wondering too |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by blank(f): 3:52pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
keepingmum: I remember the story. Was she asking for help then? Didn't follow it to the end. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 3:52pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: They do. Africa, Asia, Eastern Europe, South America ... |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by DLondonboiy: 3:54pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
I just need $25...Op, can you send me a token? |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by EfemenaXY: 3:57pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I called them up. They don't operate in / support kids in Nigeria (I wonder why). Though they operate in Cameroon, Niger, Benin, Egypt, etc. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 3:59pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: I don't know why. I was only interested in sponsoring education for the girl child when I came across the organization. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 4:04pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
keepingmum: I am asking myself the same question. Is it naivety? Doesn't she know how to prevent a pregnancy? |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by InformedLola(f): 4:08pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
5minsmadness: As in eh First baby daddy - wicked 2nd baby daddy - wicked Mother - wicked Baby daddy's relatives - wicked Ahnahn, na only you, everyone around you is wicked. Omolomo larin ero... 11 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 4:12pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Mindfulness:If her story is real,I'll say it's naivety and carelessness.Quite a number of young girls are that way,sexually active but not having a contraceptive plan in place.Most rely on after morning pills. 4 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by keepingmum: 4:14pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
blank: She was asking for advice on how to cope with her mum's behaviour. And people kind of advised her to endure and understand....though I think at the time, her 1st baby daddy was sending money 2 her irregularly sha. But she also mentioned he was an illegal in SA 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 4:16pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: Birth control pills should be free of charge or very cheap like in some other countries. It would prevent many unwanted pregnancies and suffering for both - parents and children. 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 4:17pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I guess it's bad report.They might have heard of bad practices here in Nigeria and believe the money won't go to the right places. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 4:19pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: Are the other African countries they run their projects in so much better? I guess they can't be everywhere. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 4:22pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Mindfulness:True. People are having sex but the society is not pro-active towards sex and prevention of pregnancy here.I'm really alarmed at the number of young people seeking for an abortion monthly. 1 Like |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 4:27pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: They are pro-active but their kind of pro-action is not effective. Condemning pre-marital s.ex has not helped, obviously. People must have access to contraceptives. 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 4:27pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I can't say much about other countries but Nigeria sure has a bad rep. Nigeria is king of fraud. I hope their reason is just because they can't cover all areas. A few days ago I was discussing with some colleagues on how the HIV/AIDS and Polio money was being spent.Not impressive. 3 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: It's sad. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by EfemenaXY: 4:33pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
InformedLola: Please! Can y'all just stop?? |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Onegai(f): 4:36pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: I think it is because we treat contraceptives as a dirty word in Nigeria if you're not married. Imagine getting contraceptive subsidised at a Govt facility and those matrons giving you side eye. My siblings used to tell me about young girls brought by their parents to hospital, the girls would be swearing that they didn't even associate with boys outside of school and the parents will be spending money paying for malaria test, typhoid test when the simple truth lay in front of their noses. Blank, keepingmum, do you remember her initial moniker? I wonder how she was receiving money from the SA guy without a bank account, even if his friends were the ones giving her here, was she carrying the cash to put under her pillow?? She keeps choosing bad guys, after one baby she is still not keeping herself safe, she has learnt a trade but doesn't want to use it (instead she wants money to start a business, won't say what) and is expecting the world owes her help and making up silly tales to wring people's hearts. I dunno, but I think if we can get an NGO to agree to take the baby when born for a closed adoption, then we help financially AFTER the adoption has been confirmed and she has done a coil or implant (NGO from another state). Abortion if she's at 3 months is tricky and we don't want her claiming afterwards that she was forced to abort. We also don't want her claiming she was forced to sell her baby. Sometimes, loving a child is not enough and I would rather see a child with parents that will keep baby safe, not keeping a child beside you, suffering, when you know you're not the type mentally strong enough to be a good parent. There's something called Safe Surrender, practised abroad, for mothers who want to safely give their babies up for adoption. I think an NGO should be formed around that idea: every LGA and GH and health centre and town hall has flyers with safe locations where you can drop a baby and walk away, no questions asked. But you don't come back. Btw, a lot of NGOs are run for profit in Nigeria. So maybe a church/ mosque be involved cc Jaybee3 |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Authoreety: 4:40pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by raumdeuter: 4:41pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Dyt: Picture of you crying.. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by raumdeuter: 4:46pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
jaybee3: I think terminating the pregnancy is the best option for her. If she gives birth, how does she take care of 2 kids without any form of support or is she planning to move in with another man? 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by thorpido(m): 4:50pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Onegai:True @bolded.The irony of it is that young people are having sex.Parents pretend like it's something their kids won't do but they're already doing it.It's better to make them more aware so they can make better choices. 2 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Dyt(f): 4:55pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
raumdeuter: |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by raumdeuter: 5:09pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Dyt: Is that your face? |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Dyt(f): 5:29pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by DLondonboiy: 5:36pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Nepaaaa..!! Nepa no gree bring op light... Fashola you see your life?? |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by babs50g: 5:42pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
@mizmycol,. U are awesome i must say . Living is giving , giving is living . Once u are able to follow ur heart leave the rest to God. I luv ur spirit. Though there are scam and scam oh but benefit of doubt makes u lighter in spirit. A kind heart is a fountain of gladness making everything in its vicinity freshen into smile 10 Likes |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by Fkforyou(m): 5:58pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Please, whenever you've made up your mind I have someone. This little girl. I met her at where am serving in the north. She is so smart for someone her age. Asides that,she is very confident, something I can't vouch for, even for a 15 year old teenager in the place I'm currently serving. I wish I had the means, I would have done the same. 5 Likes
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Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by kaboninc(m): 6:03pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
thorpido: Or you can open a trust fund or set up a trustee account. Have a group of people to organise and manage it. The group will be responsible for finding the school, liaising with the school and the trust company and administering the fund. They'll instrust the trust company on the modalities of payment. That means you have a professional managing your funds and a team working with the firm. |
Re: People Please Have Mercy On Me Before I Die by MizMyColi(f): 6:08pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
babs50g: Ah my dear, the emboldened(s) is it o. If I look at how much I have gone through in the hands of people who are not real eh. Still, after all my bitterness and anger, I just pray to God to help me forgive and move on, and then in that instant, it's like I was never hurt in the first place. Too much of everything is bad and I for one liked how we complemented each other on this thread. I like the balance. We neither threw compassion nor caution to the wind. Thank you for your kind compliment. Bless 7 Likes 1 Share |
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