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Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:25pm On Oct 08, 2016 |
TV01: More evidence that you are not only an abuser but also a bully. TV01: Answer the question and move on. Is abuse scriptural? ![]() TV01: Better do. ![]() TV01: TV01: I've heard you that the bible does not permit dissolution of a consummated marriage but are you a true Christian? Do you abuse your spouse? TV01: There's nothing stopping you from showing how unions can be made robust. TV01: See pot calling kettle black. TV01: Keep playing to the gallery. 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:27pm On Oct 08, 2016 |
orunto27: You mean reporting the matter to Baba God? |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:28pm On Oct 08, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Marriage was instituted by God, are you saying you're staying away? ![]() |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:30pm On Oct 08, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I only hope Christians are true to their profession and not only when it comes to not divorcing. 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:32pm On Oct 08, 2016 |
missjo: I can only hope that he is not as bad as he is portraying himself here. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by orunto27: 7:07am On Oct 09, 2016 |
That's Prayer. Reporting to Aba Father is confirming Him as "The Only Reason for doing What we do all the Time". |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 10:45am On Oct 09, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:Yes, uncle. ![]() As for TV he's got no leg to stand on.You and TV have the same beliefs from what I know of you both, at least as regards divorce, and your comments on this thread. Referring to him as an abuser because he approaches the topic dispassionately is womanly. Is there anything he has said that you do not believe in? If so, please it/them out. |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by TV01(m): 7:35pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
Timbuktou:On the face of it maybe, but in action Olaadegbu is neither fish nor fowl. He knows the truth of Gods word. No divorce, but he ardently desires the approval of the unrepentant serial divorcees and fornicators who have swarmed this thread, hence him not making that assertion ab initio. Instead making it sound like divorce is a solution to the nebulously framed "abuse" he presented. Wolf in sheeps clothing ![]() Now he's stuck, so he's making it personal - don't they all ![]() ![]() ![]() TV01: TV01: TV01: TV01: OLAADEGBU:Querying my marriage ![]() TV |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
TV01: Baba, which one be husband-rustler again? ![]() Per Adegbulu, he did seem biased toward women, which is why I'd assumed he actually is in support of divorce. I just gave him the benefit of the doubt of trying to pass the message indirectly. Sort of him playing devil's advocate, no pun intended. OLAADEGBU, I ask again, what makes TV an abuser? Or does he have to argue the Bible apologetically like you seem to be doing. Seeming to not have confidence in what you espouse? |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by TV01(m): 8:17pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
Timbuktou:Back in the wild west, the sentence for rustling - horses or cattle - was capital. Even if we no longer stone them, they shouldn't be allowed in polite company - not to mention casually taking the scriptures into their "chop and clean" mouths ![]() Timbuktou:You shouldn't have retracted - he subtly hinted at it - or made it ambiguous - 5 time on the first page alone. Like I said, wolf. Pickabeau1 put it best, Christianity and feminism are like oil and water. He best choose who he wants to serve and do it wholeheartedly. Timbuktou:I'm an abuser because I make no bones about presenting the bible as I truly believe it - even if wrong, I am happy to be challenged. Note how he has not made one reference to scripture. Baba nla feel good preacher ![]() TV |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
TV01: Fully agree with the bolded. But what is "polite conversation" these days. Isn't it a sign of progressive wisdom to accept these rustlers as just people going after what they want? Isn't that the problem with this section? The sharp divergence of marital values? Isn't that why you're a "misogynist"? You shouldn't have retracted - he subtly hinted at it - or made it ambiguous - 5 time on the first page alone. Like I said, wolf. Pickabeau1 put it best, Christianity and feminism are like oil and water. He best choose who he wants to serve and do it wholeheartedly. I could have pressed, but I was frankly in ni mood to argue, haven't been in a while. And as he has shown, he'll just go the Mindfulness route, which I have no patience for. I'm an abuser because I make no bones about presenting the bible as I truly believe it - even if wrong, I am happy to be challenged. Note how he has not made one reference to scripture. Baba nla feel good preacherMaybe he's trying to solicit offerings? ![]() |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by TV01(m): 9:00pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
Timbuktou:Maybe offerings = "Likes"; sadder than I imagined ![]() On another note, my man started school this past September. He's doing so well I'm made up. Chip off the old block ![]() TV |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
TV01: You know how it is with them Francesca types na. ![]() Great news, bruv. I pray he excels beyond your hopes. It's always comforting to see the next generation of soldiers being groomed. With the rise of foolishness, too many effete men running around these days. Send regards from me, and the Queen and Princess, of course. 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by TV01(m): 9:37pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
Timbuktou:Graciás - may the Lord bless us in our generations - even those yet unseen - and give us the grace to raise our sons to "quit themselves like men" and raise accomplished daughters to become the choice and cherish of such men". TV |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
TV01: Amen. Adura nla. So shall it be. 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by missjo(f): 12:56pm On Oct 10, 2016 |
TV01:I'm very sorry to have quoted you earlier trying to relate your Christian values with the way you insult,talkdown,and bully people here. I was genuinely curious,but it's obvious your ego got a hit and now you can't get over it even after I wished you a lovely week. Do have a lovely week once more. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by missjo(f): 12:58pm On Oct 10, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:He may not be,however he does have insecurities. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by TV01(m): 6:05pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
missjo: missjo: You are a plain-faced, brown-nosing dullard, who offers little more than nuisance value! Do have a pleasant evening TV ...I learn fast and l like this game ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Felixtuta(m): 7:58pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Why not if not... |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by repogirl(f): 8:01pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
TV01:Some pastors divorce for lesser reasons, are you saying they are going to hell? Even someone like Pastor Chris Oyakhilome whose wife divorced him for irreconcilable differences? |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: There is no ground for divorce in Christianity, that's why in some denomination, they stress on praying before u choose ur partner so that when fault comes you can go back to God and say, "see the husband/wife you have given me o, dp something about it" |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by wakes: 8:05pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Stay but not when your stay become dangerous. Wisdom is profitable to direct though. I wish you well. 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by busyfishing(m): 8:06pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Yes it a very good reason.. Too many animals out there...Men&women inclusive |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Lexusgs430: 8:13pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: NO. Physical Abuse, Financial Abuse, Verbal Abuse, in short all forms of abuse are not acceptable........... |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Seun(m): 8:13pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
What a deeply dumb question from a secular POV. If abuse isn't a good reason for divorce, then what the Bleep is a good reason for divorce? 10 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by africanusvu(m): 8:15pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
To a christian.NO.unlest death do u part.To a muslim.No.unless d husband see the fourth wife and u a gone.to a pagan.YES |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by BLACKPANTHER(m): 8:19pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Don't be fast to judge. What does op mean by abuse? Also, what ignited the abuse? Again, we must understand we are human beings, desperate times call for desperate measures. A partner could lead the other to abuse him/her, to have an excuse to destroy the home. Look who told you that Husband and Wife no de do wrestling? Why should a Woman not be slapped, beaten or corrected. As u Marry am is she not as good as your younger Brothers and sisters you beat. Abeg for this Naija if your partner mess up collect am well if not u will die of Blood pressure |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by uzolexis(f): 8:19pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
crackhaus: You are not answering the question. If you say you made a vow to be with the person till death, they also made a vow to love, cherish and respect you and anyone who abuses his partner is obviously breaking that vow as well, so what stops you from breaking your own vow, remember it takes 2 to make it work. Besides, if you are being abused seriously and you stick there and get killed eventually, i believe you have committed sucide cos you knowingly allowed yourself to be killed, God frowns at suicide you know. 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by shiftback: 8:21pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
Until she's beaten to death abi? Any man that physically abuses a woman is a coward! 2 Likes |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by shiftback: 8:24pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
BLACKPANTHER: If i call you an idiot will the mods ban me? 1 Like |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Bollinger(m): 8:27pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: In Nigeria yes. In normal countries, No. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by Bollinger(m): 8:31pm On Oct 11, 2016 |
TV01: Are you high? I bet you won't be saying this if you were a woman. 4 Likes |
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